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I really need the help... PLEASE
I think I love this guy but I really don't know anymore. I'm confused. I just moved a little while ago and we never see eachother. It seems like he likes other girls to me but I think it is just because I'm so far away and I barely ever get to see him. We live almost half an hour away and I'm scared to get hurt. I don't know what to do... We've been through a lot together and I know I love him but I feel like he's pushing me away. HELP! 14/F
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If your confused on wether you love some one oor not you obviously don't. Also Long distiance relationships are stupid expecailly when you cannot drive to see that person whenever you feel like it.
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You should be brave and ask him about it, and if he doesnt feel the same way then you will probably feel hurt but in time you'll get over it and there more the one guy in the world i no ive bn through this a few months ago but i feel much better now
Hope this helps
~_~scottishsweetie~_~
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He could very well be. You need to get with him and have a very serious talk about the furure of your relationship. It's real hard to keep a long distance romance when you can never be together.
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you have to tell him how you feel and ask him if he feels the same way.. if he does the distance between you two wont matter. if he doesnt love you, youll have to accept that and look around and be open to new relationships with other guys.. you dont love someone when your 14, just be free and experiment new things.. hope i helped
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Half an hour isn't that far away!! I got o a school where people come from an hour away and I still hang out with them! To see him you could both meet half way (your rents won't mind driving 15 minutes, or you could both catch a bus or a train) or have sleepovers/day-long vists at each other's houses. You could meet him at your old local town centre/mall as it will be easier for you to find that than him to find yours.
Suggest things like this to him. If he seems awkward, reluctant to agree to meet, or keeps making up excuses then you know he is trying to push you away. It could be just the distance, in which case these visits will solve that problem, and if he really is pushing you away then proposing seeing each other still, and regularly will reveal that. Try and do this over the phone or on IM with a webcam so you can really see his reaction. If you are viewing his webcam, leave it as long as you can before asking him about it so he's forgotten about it being on and won't try and hide his real facial expressions.
Did you make any agreement before you left that you two would stay together? Did you both make it completely clear that that was what you wanted? Because unless you both verbally said so, then he could be confused as to whether you want to continue the relationship, or even using this as an excuse to break up with you the coward's way - hoping the relationship will fizzle out and you'll forget about him. You'll also know if something's up if you leave it ages and he doesn't suggest meeting.
If he seems fine with arrangements to keep meeting, but you're still worried, talk to him. It can be over MSN/AIM/Yahoo/etc if it's too hard in person. Ask him if he's OK with you being far away, or tell him that you're a bit worried that he might leave you because it would be easier for him to have a relationship with someone closer to home.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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Well, if you feel like he's pushing you away, then maybe you should talk to him about it instead of worrying yourself sick. Distance is really a factor in a relationship so maybe you should just move on and let him do his thing. I'm sorry that I just had to say that, but you really just need to move on and let him do his thing because if you think he likes other girls then he probably does. I'm sorry.
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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