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Please help!
I kno Im to yung, but I had sex wit my bf like 3 months aftr we went out and I didnt wanna do it but he prssurd me into it, so we did it. Now I unno wat to do but I like him a lot and I dun wanna break up wit him but he keeps makin me do it! Wat shud i do?
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ok well tell you need to tell him that you dont wanna do it anymore and if he doesnt stop tryin ta get you to do it dump his triflin ass. you need to be a stronger person and dont let him force you into anything that you dont wanna do. stand up for yourself.
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dump him, if he makes u do something, especially have sex, and u dont want to then i say dump him
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ok so if you really like him alot you need time to figure this out. tell him you have crabs. actually that should by plenty of time so you wont have to have sex and you can stay with him. but if he is making you have sex he really doesn't sound like a good boyfriend. there are plenty of good guys out there, well not plenty but a few. dump this loser and find one of the good guys.
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break up with him if he won't stop because he needs to know that ur not comfortable in this and are feeling trapped. if he loves you he will if he doesn't drop him. there are so many other great guys out there and u have so many years to find them.
hope i helped and gl
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There is no excuse for having sex, unless he raped you. If that's the case you need to tell someone NOW. You are in serious danger. Otherwise, you will ALWAYS have a choice and you can ALWAYS say NO. Just because you "like him a lot" doesn't mean you should have sex with him. If you two break up just because you don't want to have sex, at least you know he was not worth it. A boyfriend should be there for love and support, not just for sex. There are many other guys out there. It's all about trying and if it doesn't work out, at least you gained one new peice of knowledge. Sex can lead to STDs and pregnancy. I don't think you want either.
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Look, you need to look out or yourself, not him. It's fine to like him a lot but letting a guy pressure you into something you aren't ready for isn't good and what's worse is if you keep havin unhealthy sex like this then later in life yo won't find it as enjoyable probably. Look out for yaself besfore you go and do anything you don't wanna do. Seriously, tell him NO, and not a little whisper, you tell him you weren't ready and still aren't. And threaten to let somebody else know what's happening if he doesn't take the no and keeps trying to persue you. B/c it sounds like he wants sex nad not much more. I hope you get help or stand up to him b/c letting him use you like that isn't good for you. Good Luck
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Tell him that you don't want to have sex. Tell him no. If he still pressures you, dump him.
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Drop that fucker like a rock. He's forcing you to have sex, even when you dont want to? Nuh uh. No deal, dont care how much you /love/ him. He obviously has no care for what you take pleasure in, and when. Like I said, dump him.
<3 EJ
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Youo just tell him you don't want to do it anymore. Your afraid of all the diseases and stuff and you just aren't ready for all that yet. If he still tries to pressure you then find a new guy. Because if he cares for you he will wait.
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You should tell him you arent ready exactly to want to do it.. and that you think your getting to serious and that youd like to slow things down a bit.. you should of said something frm the beginning instead of waiting..that way you wouldnt of been in this mess now..much luv dez x0x0
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you simply say no i dont want to have sex.. if he really loves you he will accept that, and if he makes you do it again leave, and break up with him.. you cant let this guy pressure you into doing things you dont want to.. he doesnt love you
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In my opinion, you should ask him to respect you and your boundaries. 3 months is definitely too early. *In fact, it would be better that you not commit premarital sex, but since it's already done, there's nothing one can do.*
If he doesn't respect your wishes, then, as tough as it is, you should break up with him. A guy who doesn't respect you doesn't deserve your love OR respect.
Even if you feel strongly for him, obviously, he doesn't feel that strong enough for him to just back off a little.
If you talk and he does abstain from it, you should try to give him a second chance..
Good luck and if you want to talk, drop me a note in my inbox.. ^__^
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What those girls said is true he's probably wanting to rape you...you should go to the police station and turn him in!!
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thats kind of like rape.tell him no. and if he makes you again thaen all he wants from you is sex and action,so dump him
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You either tell him that you don't want to have sex (don't be a doormat for god's sake, this is rape) and that either he respects this decision or you walk out on him, or you just walk out on him anyway. THIS GUY IS RAPING YOU. He doesn't love you - I'm sorry, I know that will hurt to hear but he's only in it for the sex. You could get this guy done for rape. Tell him that he has to start respecting your thoughts and feelings...
You have to STOP this right now before it gets any worse and pressure turns into force. If you don't stop him doing things like this then he could continue on to be a rapist and even start hurting people he's not dating. YOU HAVE TO STOP THIS NOW. I'm sorry and I know it sounds harsh but I don't think you realise how bad this is. Get OUT of there while you still can. Do you know that what he is doing is illegal? And if he's over 16 he could be done for statutory rape.
Is 'liking someone a lot' enough to put up with rape? I don't think so. Love isn't enough. GET OUT OF THERE, find someone better. You deserve better.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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