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He Has A G/f
Ok i didnt really start like this kid until i heard that him and his g/f broke up because she had sex with another guy.. and when i found that out he started to talk to me alot and in gym class he started to come over and play tennis with me and some friends...well after a couple of days of that i told my friends they could tell him after gym soo they did and he said he may possibly like me too ( of course he didnt give them a complete answer cuase i mean he is a guy)..well that day i heard that his ex g/f wanted to go back out with him and she asked him back out(they went out 7 months b4 the break up)well i was hoping they werent going to go back out but then the next day in 5th hour she told me they were dating again after class i told my friends and broke down in tears i cried all 6th hour and when i got home i stayed in my room and didnt eat....i felt terrible..he stopped playing tennis with me but now 2 days later he is playing with me all the time and is always flirting but he has a g/f.....sooo should i like him still. . .forget about him and just be friends or is there anything else i can do. . .Please help . . i may be falling for him!!!
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Since you sent this directly to me and not the list, I am going to assume that you are looking for biblical guidance; which is what I am going to give. I am also going to assume you are a Christian. However, whether you are a Christian or not, God has standards to live by and premarital sex is something God is completely against. Maybe you have no intentions of being with this boy in a sexual way, but it will lead there. You may ask, "how do you know that?" I'll tell ya.
You are putting yourself in a place of temptation that if you don't get out of now, it will sweep you under. You are in high school and I know it's tough, but I urge you to avoid relationships that will lead to sexual sin. Society these days says it's okay to have premarital sex as long as you have safe sex. Well, THEY ARE WRONG! It's NOT okay. It's a lie. There is no such thing as safe sex. The only safe premarital sex is abstinence (which means not having sex at all before marriage).
This boy is willing to look beyond his girlfriend to you. Think about it; if he does this to her, what makes you think he won't do it to you? He was willing to go back with her after knowing she was with another. He must think sex is okay. Perhaps he and this girlfriend have a sexual relationship. Do you really want someone like that?
I will tell you this, boys use love to get sex and girls use sex to get love. The girl always loses.
Save yourself for your husband. Love can wait. As hard as it is, it is possible and worth it. YOU are worth waiting for. If you have already given yourself to someone, repent to the Lord. He will give you strength. If you are falling for him, your heart will lead to a dangerous place. So to answer your question, forget about this boy and even avoid a friendship with him. Stand strong in what's right and look to the future.
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There is no giving up. Be coy. But if he ever tries to cross the line make it clear that you'll not be treated as an "on the side."
He'll respect you for that and treat you as worth it if you come across that way.
... As for now, I know it hurts.
Take my advice and don't talk to too many ppl about this. If word gets around he'll be angry that you're assuming gf rights too early.
Trust me... I learned that the hard way.
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i say if you like him that much, just la low about it and ask him out when he gets single. or you could just find someone new and maybe even better. its up to you. i suggest finding someone new and keep yer options open.
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Just be friends. His relationship with his girlfriend must be pretty good if he forgave her. He may just want to be friends but I think that is all for now.
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Hey Nikki dont swet the whole thing, i really dont think they will last that much longer, just dont give up cuz when you do nothin happens, and if you keep tryin then when they eventually do break up you have a really good chance...
Love ya,
<|3 sAmAmmY
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ok well guys flirt and it usually doesnt mean anything. i think you should just get on with your life because it seems like he doesnt know what he wants. stay friends with him and if something changes and he asks you out, go for it! (if you feel the same way) and then youll see where to go from there
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