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Me and my boyfriend love eachother to death. But we can never find time to ourselves we have talked a lot about exploring other places and getting away from all the hatred we see in our lives right now. the thing is i want to spend the rest of my life with him and i know i do-i just dont want n e one else to get in the way . . . . should i ask him to runaway with me or wait till' we are older and go through school then college then get married? (link)
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I don't know how old you are but here is a fact I think you should consider.
If you run away, you will be found. When you are found, you will get in trouble. Since you ran away together, you will probably be forbidden to see each other again. Kinda risky I think. Wait. :)
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Well there is this guy that i really like and he likes me. He even broke up with his girlfriend for me. He always tells me about how much he loves me and everything. He is .perfect.!, but there is one problem..AGE. His mom won't let him date me bcause he could go to jail. Some of his friends have been giving him hell about it too. Others say we should hookup. His best friend is trying to tell him he wont go to jail. I really love him, what should i do!? (link)
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If he is 18 or older, and you are not...not a good idea. He could go to jail if this got serious between you because he is considered an adult and you are not. If your parents found out you were dating him, they could also get him in trouble. If this is the case, then I'm sorry, his mom and friends are right.
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I believe in sex after marriage, but my boyfriend is persisiting i have sex with him. He aggrivates me ALL the time and I can see myself giving in. I know I will regret it as soon as I've done "the deed". I'm confused as to what I should do; should I choose the easy option and give in? or go by my wishes and wait? (link)
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Go by your wishes and wait. If he's the right one for you he will wait too. :)
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ok so i gave my b/f a hand job, and he precummed and after that i rubbed the lips of my pussy.. is there any chance i can get pregnant? (link)
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no diffrence. If you got it where it could get inside, yes it is possible. If not don't worry about it. :)
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My younger sister has a lot of girlfriends, and they go out to places and meet guys, so my mom and one of my sisters' friends moms have been listening to her conversations on the phone, lets just say they aren't liking what they are hearing. My sister talks to a certain guy that has had a very sexual communication with her, she hardly knows this guy. I've known my boyfriend for over a year, and I know my mom wouldn't like the things we talk about either, and she talks about how she should take that guy away from my sister, and so now, me and my boyfriend fear that I will be banned from him, he moved, so the phone is all we have now. We really love each other, my younger sister would get over it if that guy was taken from her, but I know that I can't live without my guy if I were banned from him. We would go on and do the smart thing and cut off all "bad talking', but is that what we should really do? We are so used to it that sometimes it slips, but would it better or does anyone think we might be safe?
I RATE HIGH I SWEAR! (link)
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Sounds to me like she's concentrating on your sister. Her and the friends mom must have heard rumor of something they didn't like. I don't think I wouold worry to much about it. Your boyfriend not being right there for you to go out with must not make him to much of a threat! :)
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i have never baby sat for kids before but my neighbour has asked me to help. I really want to do this but the baby is only about 11 months old and i've no idea what to do with it . I'm really scared that it might have a cot death, or that i might drop it. Any tips? (link)
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Just play. 11 month olds like to play a lot. Other than changing the occassional really nasty diaper you should do okay! :)
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Is there a way to stop a pregnant woman from drinking? I don't understand why it's not against the law. It's aginst the law to supply alcohol to minors, but it's ok to posion your unborn child? (link)
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I think if she isn't an alcoholic and you don't know her that well that you should mind your own business. It isn't good but since you don't know her keep out of it.
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I am at the end of my rope, I have been married almost two yrs to my High school sweetheart.(after a 18 yr seperation since high school)She has two kids age 13 and 10. I have two boys age 12 and 9. My problem is this, Her children disrespect me and lie to me and get away with murder, while I make my kids respect her and do what they are told. Her son 10, has A.d.d and cried to his dad so much, that he was taken off the prescribed medicine. His father was too proud to accept the fact that the boy needs the meds to concentrate. He repeatedly says this to his son until he is unbearable. He cried and cried to get his mom to stop the medicine, Because he didnt need it. He was an A student until a month or so ago, when his dad decided that he didnt need it. Since then the child is unruly .whiny, moody, throws temper tantrums, and lastly his grades have already dropped. Yesterday i checked the kids grades on the Internet, and he wnet from all A's to a D+, C, and a couple B's. He threw a temper tantrum, when told he was now grounded, and then blamed the teacher for his grades. He looked his mother in the face and screamed at her" you made me take medicine that I dont need. All while crying and throwing a fit. I said to my wife, if that isnt his dad talking i will kiss your a$$. I was the one reprimanded by her for saying that to her, not her sons bad grades. She then coddled him the remainder of the night. Herelies the problem, He calls the other kids names, he tattles, he Lies to my face, and He comes out smelling like a rose. He was grounded from his game boy, his brother asked to play one of his games, he said no, until i stepped in. The previous day he was allowed to play my other sons game boy because he was grounded from it for a bad grade. His mother made my son give him the gameboy because he forgot his at his dads house, yet said nothing when he wouldnt let the youngest use his. A little later the yougest son(of mine) said your being a jerk, and was immediately told to go to bed. Unlike her children, My son immediately complied and went to bed in tears. I am at the end, i just cant deal with this crap no more. I grew up with a step mother who acted the same way and it makes me sick to see my kids treated that way. My wife refuses to see this and it is ruining my marriage. Please Help. The question is How do I make my wife see this is going on, and stop it before its too late. (link)
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Sit her down (away from the kids if possible) and talk to her. Explain what it was like growing up in that kind of situation. Tell her some changes are going to have to be made if you two are going to remain together. Because all this can get to the point of 'I can't take this anymore'! I think you're standing on the edge now.
I think she should also get with her lawyer on the kids med thing. I think as the parent who has custody she should be able to have him on a med that the doctor ordered. Download the grades and keep them for just this reason. It could help. And if that route is somehow not possible, I would seriously consider having him stay with his father. Harsh I know but if he thinks he can handle him without meds let him try. Wife won't like that option Though!
The thing is you have to treat all the kids the same. It just isn't fair for one to be the center of attention all the time. He knows what he can get away with and will push it to the limits. Your wife really needs to understand and deal with that. The rest of the kids are going to resent her if she doesn't do this, and she can't truly want that. I sure wish you luck with this and hope it works out for you. :)
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im 16 and had a baby 3 months ago today.my mum and dad are strict catholics and demanded that me and my baby)s father to get married.well me and the babys father split. so my mum and dad were like "i told u so". i left home and moved into a council flat.i have got exams this yaer and im finding it so hard.even tho i have paid childcare thoughtout the day im so tired to do anything.my mum said that i had her and so shes my responsability.im getting desperate now and even thought about adoption.has anyone got any good advica on how to cope. the last thing i want to do is say to my mum that she was right.sorry its long. (link)
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I have been where you are. The only difference is
my boyfriend didn't bail out on me. You have a very tough road ahead of you if you decide to keep the baby.
If you feel you just can't cope with the whole situation, adoption is not a bad thing. Don't concern yourself with who is right or wrong or I told you so's. Those are not whats important here. You need to do some very hard desicion making right now about what is best for the baby and yourself. In order to put the baby up for adoption, you will also need the babys fathers permission. You will have to get with him and do some talking. It would also be nice to have your mom's imput. If she is approachable you should at least try to mend fences with her too. It is your decision in the end though and not hers...keep that in mind.
If you decide to keep the baby, the first thing to do is get a GED. Forget the whole school thing. That life is more or less over for you.
I would be more than happy to give you what advice I can along the way, just drop me a question anytime. Do some serious thinking. :)
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im way confused right now. my 8th grade year is almost up and me and my frineds are driftin apart because of me. i really like this guy that my friend likes but we never had a problem with it. now all i do is talk to him because he likes to flrt with me a lot and so i kinda leave my friends so i can only talk to him. now there kinda driftin apert from me. i no its my falt and i feel really bad. i just really like this guy and i like the kinda attention he gives me. i dont want to not be friends with my other friends i just dont no wat to do because i cant stop flirtin with that one guy i cant do it i like the attention to much. what should i do. (link)
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Sounds like you should talk to your friends. Once you get a boyfriend you do kind of drift away from your ffriends a little. You don't have to desert them all together though. Make an effort to hang out with them once in awhile too. :)
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Well i new my bff for 9 years now, and i was moved away in a different state for seven of them (but we kept in touch, i visited constintly) but now we are losing a bff style, like whenever i call she has to go, or if she doesnt she'll proply hang up on me in a few minutes anyway. i cant trust her because she always lies to me and brakes promises and tells secrets.i am really starting to dislike her, but never the less i have known her and was her bff for 9 years now, and she used to be so kind and sweet to me (its only been a year where she was rude to me) i miss her being the way she was. please help me! (link)
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She is getting older and her likes may have changed from what they used to be. It's called growing apart. You can talk to her about it and try to salvage your friendship but, she may just have changed to much. If that is true you'll just have to find a friend who shares more of your intrests. :)
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There is a small group of about 4 families and we usually have these dinner get-togethers on weekends sometimes. They're usually pretty boring for me because all the kids are guys, and they're all about 4 years older than me (I'm 13/f by the way). It's our turn to have one this weekend, the 29th, and on the same day is my friend's pool party, one of the best parties of the year and me and my friends go every time. Of course I wouldn't mind skipping this get-together for the party, but it just happeneds to be my mom's birthday the same day, so we're atchually inviting a lot of families, some including a few of my friends. I was planning on leaving my house at 9 (they usually last from about 7-12am) and going to the party, but I don't want to leave my friends hanging, and I know it'll be boring for them if I leave. I don't think I can take them to the party because they go to different schools and they're definatly not the type who will like this kind of party (trust me). I know it sounds selfish, but I REALLY want to go to this party, I haven't done much for the past few weekends. Sorry this is so long, but Which one should I go to? (link)
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I think since it is sort of a birthday party for your mom you should really go to the family thing. At least go to it for awhile. You might just tell your mom that you want to celebrate with her but would like to hang out with freinds closer to your age for the rest of the evening. She will probably understand. :)
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There's this new guy at our school. We've already become really good friends and I've introduced him to some other people. But he doesn't seem to open up in public. (like on AIM we talk for hours, but at school it's just a simple "Hi") What can I do to make him feel more welcome? (link)
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I'd get on the AIM and ask him why he isn't more talkative at school. Tell him you'd like to hang out there as well since you seem to get along so well on AIM. :)
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I have been feeling like I'm ugly,fat, and that nobody likes me. I have a little poll in my profile for AIM and its like Am I Ugly? The Majority said I was pretty but when I looked who picked what Drew(the guy I used to like and hes kinda my friend) said I was Ugly. And My Friend Emmie said I was ugly too....And all of these people that aren't my friends said I was pretty....but anyways after Drew said that I was ugly I have just been feeling really bad about myself....I'm not sure why either because I have realized not to care about what other people think but now I just can't help it...Does anyone have some suggestions on what I should do to help me feel better or might know why I am feeling this way? I rate high and leave comments if your going to say something mean please don't say anything at all! (link)
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Since the majority said you were pretty then I think thats what you need to believe is true. Your friends are the only ones who said anything negative...they may have just been messing with you. :)
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my bff for years moved away she wrote me one letter and i wrote back but she never wrote again, it didnt really hit me much then, and then she moved back about 2 years later,we visited and hugged and had parties and were bffs again,and then one day she went to high school (she was a year older than me and i was held back in first grade)and became a cheerleader, suddenly we werent friends anymore, she didnt call, i didnt call, we never visited, and whenever we did see each other we didnt hug or anything, we didnt even so much as say hello one time, and you know what, i was becoming bitter towards her, because she wasnt my friend anymore, she just left me one day, i thought how could this even be happening, i have your letter, and all the gifts youv ever given me, ive kept everything, i remember everything, and it mad me mad, i just wanted to go over to her house and scream, whenever i look at her friends screen name(dont ask how i got it...i dont really remember)i get jealous and really pissed off, i always go back to her letter when i see her friends names used and see if they are the friends she mentioned in the letter but the truth is i just miss her so frickin much, i want to be friends with her again, i want the old times back, but i know that that is never going to happen,so how do i end everything im feeling, how do i stop being bitter, how do i stopthinking about how much i cried when she told me she was moving and then how we never kept in touch, how do i stop wondering why we really drifted,and how do i get my bff back because i remember so much,i remember so much more about her than i remeber about anything else in my whole entire life put together
so either tell me how to remeber or how to forget. (link)
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You need to go tell her these things. Maybe she feels the same. If not at least you'll have some closure and can just move on. Some people just change to much, I can't believe she doesn't want to keep in touch with you. If that is the case though just figure it was fun while it lasted. :)
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I have a great friend...we always talk about how we're gonna grow old together. But there's a problem. He smells extremely bad of bad B.O. I don't know how to tell him... people have come up to me and asked me to please tell him about it. I don't want to offend him...what should I do? How should I tell him?
Thanks a bunches for helping out! (link)
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That would be so hard for you to do! He will feel bad. Why not leave an annonymous note suggesting the deoderant thing? Don't tell a bunch of people, you don't want it getting back to him. He will be really embarrassed so don't mention the note if you see him with it. :)
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One of my old friends' never talked about guys. Like, we would be on the fone, and i would be talking about the guy i liked, and shed kinda just, "push away" the subject. She always said she never likes anyone, and she dosent think that anyone is "cute" or "Hot". I think thats kind of weird. Then one day, we were talking online, and she told me she was a lesbian. It was really awkward, and i really started to believe her, and then when i saw her the next day at school, she was like "omg that was hilarous last night! i was joking!"....I dont know but this kind of looks strange to me..Any ideas on why she might not like to talk about guys? oh by the way..i dont want to talk or ask her about this. thanks! (link)
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If you don't want to talk about it with her then there isn't much you'll be able to find out. She may or may not have been joking. Just like her because she's your friend and don't worry about her sex life or lack thereof. There are other thing to talk about besides boys! :)
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A really good friend of mine is going to the movies with this guy,tomorow, and i know all there gonna do is make out and touch eachother and stuff, it happened last time. She wants me to go, and i really wanna go too, and she said "bring one of your guy friends, itl be a double date!", and i said "okay!", but the truth is..i really dont have any. None..actually. I really wana go, and il feel akward if im really alone, and i dont want to tell her that im a loser! I dont know what to do, and i cant make any at school because i go to a school where theres no boys, and im really ugly so i cant really make any guy friends that want to kiss me. This makes me feel really bad, and shes so pretty so she could get like any guy..i dont know what to do. Ne suggestions, please? (link)
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If all they will be doing is slobbering all over each other I'd stay home. Who wants to go look at that all evening? You probably aren't going to find yourself a boyfriend quite that quick so i would just forget it. Your friend won't be paying any attention to you anyway. This doesn't make you a loser. You will get yourself a boyfriend when you find one thats right for you. :)
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My mom was born in a foreign country, and their thoughts on things are a LOT diffent from the United States, and her thoughts are LOTS different than what I want to do. For example, she refuses to let me date, so I have to keep all my feelings for boys bottled up in my diary. She doesn't let me wear shorts (only capris) in the summer, so I end up burning up in my classrooms. I really need to tell her that these things might not be allowed where she grew up, but I don't live where she lives, and I need to have a LIFE! How can I tell her? (link)
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You sit down with her when you are alone together and you have a long talk. She still may not go for it, and it will be difficult for her to understand your wanting the changes...all you can do is try. :)
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My Mum hates me she hits me all the time wat can I do? (link)
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Tell a teacher. They will call social services and they can get you into a foster home, away from the abuse.
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