my bff for years moved away she wrote me one letter and i wrote back but she never wrote again, it didnt really hit me much then, and then she moved back about 2 years later,we visited and hugged and had parties and were bffs again,and then one day she went to high school (she was a year older than me and i was held back in first grade)and became a cheerleader, suddenly we werent friends anymore, she didnt call, i didnt call, we never visited, and whenever we did see each other we didnt hug or anything, we didnt even so much as say hello one time, and you know what, i was becoming bitter towards her, because she wasnt my friend anymore, she just left me one day, i thought how could this even be happening, i have your letter, and all the gifts youv ever given me, ive kept everything, i remember everything, and it mad me mad, i just wanted to go over to her house and scream, whenever i look at her friends screen name(dont ask how i got it...i dont really remember)i get jealous and really pissed off, i always go back to her letter when i see her friends names used and see if they are the friends she mentioned in the letter but the truth is i just miss her so frickin much, i want to be friends with her again, i want the old times back, but i know that that is never going to happen,so how do i end everything im feeling, how do i stop being bitter, how do i stopthinking about how much i cried when she told me she was moving and then how we never kept in touch, how do i stop wondering why we really drifted,and how do i get my bff back because i remember so much,i remember so much more about her than i remeber about anything else in my whole entire life put together
so either tell me how to remeber or how to forget.
AskNatalie16 answered Monday April 25 2005, 2:10 am: Forgetting is always the hardest thing to do, but moving on will be easier. You will never forget about your friendship but if you dont move on you will miss out on having other bff in your life.
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