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hey peoples! umm, i waz wondering if anyone had a idea of a fun project... somthing easy and somthing i wont get in trouble for cause its too messy, ya know? pleeez help! irate 5s!!!!!

You could
--Make a collage.
--Get mags and cut out things and glue{or tape} them down to make the ultimate hottie {figures, clothes, hair, legs, ect}
--start a webpage on myspace or on xanga {if you want to add a lot of features, i would reccomend that you talk to my friend Mackenzie, who has been on both of em for a couple of years}
--painings
--Making a comic book
--make a story, guide, or poem
Hope I helped.
--Caden--

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(15/f)Well my life is really hectic right now. Some things have happened recently that are really stressful for me...well i just havent been myself lately && my boyfriend has noticed it. Things arent the same like they used to be. Dont get me wrong i love him a lot but idk if i can handle a relationship anymore. All we do is fight now, and im just always moody now and he deserves way better than me. With everything going i just cant handle the whole bg/gf stress. Yes ive tried talking about it to him but he doesnt get it... I told him we were over last night (that was deff. the hardest thing ive ever done)...its just horrible that i had to do that because its like now all i feel is like sh**.. First i was just like "I have to do this" and now i feel like I need him more than anything. Weve been dating for 7 months, and its like i just blew it. He told me that if i did this that he was never gonna take me back && i did it, so i lost him :(. Idk what to do im so confused. And i cant take a break because those things never work out and besides he said he wont take me back anyway. Hes online right now and he nor I have imed each other. he was really hurt when i told him and he was seriously about to cry :(. Now all i can do it cry because i feel like such a low-life loser. I do love him but its just difficult, really really difficult...If anyone can help me out with this i would really appreciate it..xox

You dont need to feel guilty. It was your decision that he wasnt perfect for you. I can tell you still care for him, because you feel guilty and you dont want to see him stressed out like this, and thats a good thing, even though you broke up, it does'nt mean you have to stop loving eachother {as long as nothing gets romantic}. If you two remain friends, there will be a lesser chance for his word to stick. I hope I helped♥
--Caden--

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what are some exersizes that i can do at home that REALLY do work? and fast? i rate 5's

You could
--jog in place
--walk up and down a set of stairs multiple times
--sit ups
--push ups
Hope I helped♥
--Caden--

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Hey I'm a guy and was just wondering...should age matter in a relationship? What's your point of view on this one, like does it matter if both are close in age or far apart...by far I mean less than 5 years or so. Thanks in advance, will rate.

Hell no! Some parents can be paranoid but if you two love eachother it shouldnt matter. Although if you are coupled with an older girl, I would still be cautious.

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Can enyone give me lists of diet foods? like these would be the only things that i eat for one month kind of foods, if you could that would be great!

Well, first the fun low cal foods: sugar free pudding cups, prepakaged crackers and cookies 100 calorie packs, yogarts watch the calorie count my favorite Dannon lite and creamy vanilla you can add kellogs special k cereal for some crunch, sugar free jello and always fruit, add some whipcream fat free of course. Salads with lite dressing, turkey delli meat with whole wheat bread make sure it has 3grams or more fiber. Fiber makes you full, salads, fruit and grains all have it.

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13/m, insanely long story short, we were friends, over the summer I realized I liked her, I told her because it was driving me insane, she wasn't sure in what way she liked me. In other words, she felt sorry for me and didn't want to hurt my feelings by telling me she didn't like me as more than a friend but didn't want to lie by saying she did like me. Don't give me any of that "teenagers don't know love" crap. Even if we don't, infatuation is a vital phase in our lives, eh? So anyway, after a while, I started dreaming about her---I even dreamt that I asked her out successfully one time!---and everything started reminding me of her... the usual stuff. I tried asking her out in person. Didn't work. So I was over her for about 3 days. Then everything reminded me of her---even more!!! When school started, we found things too awkward to talk to each other. It was just... weird. Things have started getting better though. But it was weird for about a month or two. The only way we talked was over AIM.

Then last week I started playing guitar, using my dad's old electric one and one of his acoustics, depending on which one my sister (she was also trying to learn) was using. So I was IMing her (she plays acoustic) and then I said that I was trying to learn guitar, and that my next attempt to play a piece was Another One Bites The Dust. Her response? "thats totally hott!!!" So that was pretty cool. Then the next day I walked into school and she stopped me right in front of the science room. She had dreamt about me. Apparently, I started rocking on the electric guitar, and then she joined in on acoustic, and it was cool, and then we went to the moon. She's a spaz.

But anyway, does she finally like me? Everyone said she liked me last year. My friends, my family, they were all saying it. But we were both in denial. Like one time my best friend came up to us and said, "You know, *her name*, you look like *my name*'s boyfriend!" We both dismissed that thought and walked away. But she was like flirting with me all year. And as the class loser/nerd, I'm blind to anyone dropping hints or flirting with me.

Yesterday I IMed one of her best friends and asked if she had liked me last year. ("She" being the person I liked, not her best friend.) She logged out. Does that mean something? Or did she honestly not know?

Last night I dreamt that the friend IMed me back and sent me the URL of a blog about me. It was all about how much she liked me last year. It was really sweet! And then in science class that day someone put the Spamalot soundtrack into a CD player and the only 2 people who knew the words were her and me. So we did a duet of The Song That Goes Like This. It was cool.

So obviously she's taken over my life, if I honestly call this a "long story short" which it honestly is, surprisingly. I can't stop thinking about her. Everything reminds me of her. Roller coasters? We went to a carnival together. Egypt? She hugged me on the day I made a presentation on Egypt. The game Batik? It sounds like a Greek-ish name, she's from Greece. Obviously I'm obsessed. Is there any way to stop that apart from finding someone else? Because right now I've kinda got my mind set on her...

A few more questions. Does she like me? How can I find out? I think I had a few more but I forget what they are...

A few things not to say:
-There are other fish in the sea. I'm not really looking for others, first I have to either get her to like me or to get over her. Take life one step at a time.

-You could probably pick up any girl! Not really, most girls hate me, whether it's because I'm really nerdy, I'm a loser, I talk too much, or I don't really care about my looks and thus aren't hot.

-You've got the rest of your life to live! Well, yes, but first, I have to reach the rest of my life outside an insane asylum!

Yeah... I'm sorry, when I get started on her I just keep going and going and going... sorry... I should probably shut up now. Oh, and any responses violating the ToS will be reported without hesitation. That includes unhelpful advice. Thank you so much, you don't know how much this means to me!!!

P.S. For what it's worth, she's hugged me three times... every time I've rejected it for some unknown reason... like if you've ever read Flowers for Algernon, you know how whenever he got too close to Alice Kinnian he got scared and couldn't go through with it for some unknown reason? Yeah, it's like that. I'm still partially child and I guess half my mind is ready for this and half my mind is still saying that "girl are icky" or something like that....

I believe that that she is in love with you but she has some sarta interest in you like she wants to be good friends with you. I have alot of girls that I want to be friends with. Oh and you cant realy get apart from her. Im sorry to tell you this, but your stuck with those feelings. To find out if she does like you, ask your friends to ask all her friends as well as her. Hope I helped♥
--Caden--

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sry its long but ill rate 5's unless its mean

okay well on thursyday of last week i asked this guys ian out and he said no because he doesnt like me in that way. well i tried and it took me like 2 days but i got over it. well wednesday we had study hall instead of band and ian took my seat so i sat beside him and me and him talked the whole time and then his friend matt who was on the other side of him told me that ian liked me and then i saw ian yell at matt for something and then today in math class eric (( ians best friend and my cousin)) told me something and i think it was about ian and then ian yelled at him and i think he told him to shut up! whats going on here!?

I think he just wants to get to know you and maybe he does like you but he doesent want to tell you bc he is worried of what your reaction will be. He probably wants to get to be friends with you and move on froom there. If you are wandering how I know this, I am trying to do the same thing with a girl I like.

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Ugh this makes me so upset because I'm way too obsessed with my boyfriend. Granted i do love him and he loves me I just feel like I have to be with him all of the time. I don't really hang out with my friends that much because my whole life is based on him. We almost broke up because I don't like him to not pay attention to me after I had spent 5 hours with him that day. We are on a break right now, but I need some help because we are getting back together on Monday. But I would talk to him and still crownd him while we were on our break. We've been together for over a year so it's not just a fling. I want to do anything I can to save our relationship. I really really love him and I don't want to lose him. Can someone please give me adivice?

It sounds like you are too clingy to him. Give him some space. Find some friends you can hang out with when he is with his friends. I have a brother that had a girlfriend that was too clingy and he broke up with her. Do you think she was haapy? I dont. I would definatly give him some space. Its okay to be with him for a long period of time occasionaly.

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16.f...My good guy friend, also on my tennis team with me, started to like me over the summer. He like talked to my bff about me, to find out if I liked him? Atleast that's all she could/would tell me. We went on like 2 dates to a movie a couple months ago but I decided I wasn't that into it. So, it's been a few months and I'm successfully tried to not talk to him as much so not to lead him on or anything. But I just found out that he still likes me hardcore-his friends call me and are like "do you like jared?" UGH it's just really annoying. So, now i really just don't like him in that way and now *partly bc of his friends calling me, who by the way i have never met* well, I just don't know what to do. I thought we had moved passed that but boy was I wrong. What should I do?!

First of all, dont avoid the guy, I know what'll happen bc it has happened to me and it gave me the dark side of my personality. Just walk up to him and tell him that you dont mind being friends as long as he dosn't do anything lovey dovey and tell him to tell his friend to quit calling you. After I have been avoided, I appreciate just being friends with the girl I admire.Hope I helped♥
--Caden--

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im really confused right now. i went to be last night knowing that my boyfriend loves me im making good money and im doing good in school. but this morning i woke up and my heart, not like litterally like i was having a heart attack. but like someone had broken my heart and i was very confused and i havent really figured it out. its like all day i couldnt smile i couldnt find a reason too. when my boyfriend called me i was very short with him and kinda rude. and whenever he'd say he loves me i was just like o ya love you too. and thats not me. im usually totally lovey dovey. im really afraid he is going to think somehthink somethings up and i dont want him too because there isnt anything wrong with us at ALL. I just dont get it :-/. im really thinking its because my dads five year reunion is coming up not like a high school or friendship reunion but the reunion of his death. and it seems like its always harder when its a 1 year or 5 year or 10 year anniversary you know...so this year im really sad. this whole month has been horrible. everything i think about makes me cry music makes me cry, laughing makes me cry and work makes me cry. my heart hurts so bad its like aching...its horrible how do i make it go away...uhhhh what do i do? why do i hurt like this? gezze this sucks.........

Talk to friends and family about it and thy will help you get over your problems. Tell your boyfriend how you have been depressed. Try getting some excersize, relax in the sun and that will help you to not be deppressed. Keep yourself busy and you wont think of it anymore.
Listn to happy music {like Sheryl Crow}or something fastbeat like techno instead of slow and sad music. I hope you feel better :].
Hope I helped♥
--Caden--

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i use windows media player and all my music comes from cdzinc.com. now none of the music works and the site is different. does anyone know if the site is like down for good or if its being fixed or if there is another website like it?

http://www.xanga.com/music_galore

You can scroll down to a list of bands and click on one. A list of songs should apear, right click on it and click on "save target as" and it will ask you what you want the title to be and where you want it.

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I'm very shy but I want to be more outgoing, i'm popular but I think I would be more popular if I was more outgoing, What should I do?

You should talk to your friends see what they talk about, ect, and talk to others about those things. join in clubs and sports teams, and most importanyly, be yourself.

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Thank sweet Moses someone other than me likes Interpol!

I love interpol.

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what is limewire? do you download songs for free on it? or what?

5's

You can download music for free!!!!!!!

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hey ok so i like to run a lot but since its getting colder, i can't run everyday like i like to do. i also do crunches everynight. but i'm getting this belly and i really wanna be able to get rid of it...how can i do that since i can't run??? **i do have a tredmill if running is the ONLY option...i'd really like some others to tho
thanx!!!

What I usualy do when the weather is not good for outdoor walks, I go to the mall to walk in the corridors. You could get an exersize ball to bounce on. I have one I bounce on when I am thinking of what advice I could give. You could go to the gym.
--caden--

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My sister is my guardian and she told me last year that if my grades arent great then im going to a christian school..Now my grades havent been great and now i have to go but i realllllly dont want to.. so how can i convince her to let me stay in my school?.. this christian school is very small and has a really strict dress code! HELP ME!! ASAP!

This may sound wierd but, actualy you should thank her. You'll make great friends and people won't judge you by how you look and what you wear. If you want to stay because of your recent friends, exchange email adresses, phone numbers, ect. But I think you will enjoy christian school.
If you'r not convinced, try asking her for another week or two to improve your grades, and if you have something that you find difficult, you can ask anyone, even your sister.

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I have a lot of screen names. But I want new one and I cannot think of ANYTHING. HELP!
My name is Kendall, so you can make something out of that. I cheer, umm I LOVE FOOD hahah but im not fat.

Cheerforfood
Kmouth
Thehungrycheerleader
kendallsHungryOx
xOhungrybabeOx
cheer4kendall

Thats all I can think of.

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ok im in a lot of trouble...here it goes, me, one of my best friends staci and her cousin nick got drunk at a party at her house(were all 13 and this is our first time getting drunk)...her aunt let us drink...so me and nick had like 5,6 straight shots and staci only had like 2. so me and nick were smashed and staci was a lil drunk...we went on stacis trampoline and we finally fell and were just laying there...i dont know i was being weird and was saying shit like"i love you guys, your the best, im glad we did this together." and i looked over at nick and we started hooking up he had his hand on my ass and i didnt mind, i had my hands all over him(not on his dick or anything) and we were making out for a while, my other best friend jessica likes him alot. but i was so drunk to even remeber that. staci finally relized what was going on and pull us off of each other and we were like what are you doing stop..and then she started freaking out and was like i need to call jessica i need to call jessica..and nick was trying to talk to her and i was like nick i love you and he was like yea i love you to..and he looked over and gave me a lil kiss. well jessica came over to stacis house and put me to bed and i fell alseep

this is wat nick said to staci about wat happened
-he said i was ontop of him and he would of stopped but he couldnt(while we were hooking up he kept saying i love u to me and he could of said stop, so that was a lie)
-staic said someone was holding her hands down he said he wasnt(like i said my hands were all over him so his one hand that wasnt on my ass must of been holding her hands down)

so now staci and jessica hate me and they believe what nick says and he was lying and they wont believe me..i cant even look at them any more and i tried to tell them when you get drunk you dont really relize whats going on..and jessica said she asked her sister and her sister said that u do relize whats going on when your drunk im soo mad and upset at the same time..i dont know wat i can say to jessica and staci so they know im sorry and that i was drunk and it wasnt really my fault

You should find a witness that wasnt drunk and have him tell staci and jessica you drank
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You could purpously get caught with another guy
and that'll make them think you dont love nick.
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Ask nick to tell them that you were drunk.

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Does any1 know of any slow paced christian songs that has a slow pace and a guy with a deep voice singing in it. I like songs like those.

Third day---All the heavens
Todd Agnew---Grace like rain

I remember crying when i was listening to one of these, I dont remember why i was. I do remember my bro {Jesus freak} taking me home from spring hill{camp in Mich} in his jeep.

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14/f....i just started high school and have made a lot of new friends...some are popular and some are not. i hang out with the non-popular group every single day at lunch but i always have the other Popular group in the back of my mind. in my heart i know i want to hang out with the popular group not just for the guys or w/e but b/c of the people. easy right? i should hang out with the popular kids if my heart is set on it. WRONG...i kinda, sorta dont want to stop hanging out with the nonpopular kids b/c of their whole group, the guys, friends, etc...but i dont know which group..please help..thanx

Ok, if by the populars you mean teen queens, then i would definatly hang out with the nonpopulars because if you become a teen queen, you will most likely have a rep of being fashionable and hot, but some ppl will think your a biotch. you dont want that to happen do ya? But just thats my opinion. Look in your heart, see who realy are the best friends.
Only you can pick your friends.
--caden--

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