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getting drunk just gets u in trouble!
ok im in a lot of trouble...here it goes, me, one of my best friends staci and her cousin nick got drunk at a party at her house(were all 13 and this is our first time getting drunk)...her aunt let us drink...so me and nick had like 5,6 straight shots and staci only had like 2. so me and nick were smashed and staci was a lil drunk...we went on stacis trampoline and we finally fell and were just laying there...i dont know i was being weird and was saying shit like"i love you guys, your the best, im glad we did this together." and i looked over at nick and we started hooking up he had his hand on my ass and i didnt mind, i had my hands all over him(not on his dick or anything) and we were making out for a while, my other best friend jessica likes him alot. but i was so drunk to even remeber that. staci finally relized what was going on and pull us off of each other and we were like what are you doing stop..and then she started freaking out and was like i need to call jessica i need to call jessica..and nick was trying to talk to her and i was like nick i love you and he was like yea i love you to..and he looked over and gave me a lil kiss. well jessica came over to stacis house and put me to bed and i fell alseep
this is wat nick said to staci about wat happened
-he said i was ontop of him and he would of stopped but he couldnt(while we were hooking up he kept saying i love u to me and he could of said stop, so that was a lie)
-staic said someone was holding her hands down he said he wasnt(like i said my hands were all over him so his one hand that wasnt on my ass must of been holding her hands down)
so now staci and jessica hate me and they believe what nick says and he was lying and they wont believe me..i cant even look at them any more and i tried to tell them when you get drunk you dont really relize whats going on..and jessica said she asked her sister and her sister said that u do relize whats going on when your drunk im soo mad and upset at the same time..i dont know wat i can say to jessica and staci so they know im sorry and that i was drunk and it wasnt really my fault
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This is why 13 year olds shouldn't drink. Just wait a while and things will probably start to smooth out. They'll believe what they want to believe. Try to find something else to do for fun in the future, too.
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arrite, well im 16 i drink all the time. shit like that has happened to me but alot worse, you have to give them a little time to cool off, try talking to them online. if it doesnt work.. write them a note apologizing and explaining the situation. if that doesnt work, call them.. and then finally go to there house.. sit them down and talk to them.. there your bestfriends.. tell them when your drunk its a diffrent world, you seriously dont have any control, especially if it was your first time... my bestfriend finally forgave me. if you try all that. ask me for more advice and i will tell you exactly what to do. im so sorry this happened to you, some people are just stubborn and too immature to realize how drinking effects your brain. good luck sweetheart.
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dont listen to the ppl who tell you not to get drunk until 21..i mean if thats really a goal for you then hell ya go for it..but honestly your jussst beginning your teenage years..lots more drinking opportunities to come..im not saying go out and get smashed all the time..but i have a feeling every *once in awhile* you will have a few drinks. it happens
about this situation..there is nothing you can do except talk to everyone involved..talk to jessica..talk to the guy and have him tell the true story..give it time and hopefully things will work out. if i found out my good friend hooked up with this guy i like...i would probably be feeling kinda mad..but i would probably let it go after a few days ..you know after i came around and realize..so give it a couple days..wait it out..stick to your story..hopefully this will blow over
-meliss
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i think that you should first talk to nick and ask him why he would lie about what happened, and to please tell your friends the truth. I know you were drunk when it happened, but that isnt always a good excuse. just talk to jessica and tell her that you never meant to do it and that you never meant to hurt her. just try tlking to her about it until she understands. hope this helps ♥
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OK missy, first, off dont ever get drunk again till your about 35! haha j/k but what you did was wrong and you know that your way to you to drink.i totally agree though, when you are drunk or high you have really little control over what your doing. Get them together for a final time and say ok listen, i no getting drunk was wrong and yes, taht WAS my decision. but i had little control over my actions and im sooo sorry for that. please forgive me nothing with nick meant anything and you know how much i love you so i would never do anything to hurt your feelings please accept my apology and can we go back to being good friends i miss you. give them time to think about it and if they go for it, great if they dont give them more time and its also their loss if you think of it that way. move on. GOOD LUCK :)
Christina
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Well, first, learn from your mistake. You're way too young to drink AT ALL, and it makes it worse being a female, since female bodies are more sensitive to drinking and the like. So don't drink again until you're 21, and even then, don't become drunk.
Anyway, all you can do is talk to them. Ask "Hey, can I talk to you guys?" Make sure they're not in a bad mood and make sure you're alone. Tell them in a calm, mature way that you were drunk and that you couldn't think straight because of that. Tell them that you're sorry and that you'll never, ever do it again. Tell Jessica that you would never do that intentionally and that you never meant to hurt her.
That's pretty much all you can do. Don't freak out or yell at them; it does no good. Try to refrain from using cuss words, too. Be very mature about it.
If Staci was there when it happened, she should know the truth. Ask her what SHE really saw.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
♥Manders
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This is why drinking to excess is stupid.
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Getting drunk is bad. But when you are drunk you cannot control what you do. You may remember what you are doing ut you cant contrl yourself. If you just let things go like dont drink. Then the others will and he will try it on someone else. If they didnt believe you then they shouldnt be your friends. If you wait then they will find out the truth. Or talk to the guy and record and get him to admit the truth then show your friends what a sum bag he really is.
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Even if your version is the truth, the other girls don't want to believe this 'great' guy would do that and they don't have the self-esteem to dump him. The best thing you can do is just NEVER put yourself in that type of situation in the first place.
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ok well first of all when you get drunk it is different for lots of ppl andyou might not have realized it at all, so i sugest that you talk to nick and see what he says to you, ad if tells you a hole different story then try to get all of you guys in the same room and just talk about it and explain that you are sorry but you honestly didnt realize and that if you had been sober you wouldnt have done that because they are your good friends and you dunt do that to friends so just try explaining to them what happens and if that doesnt work the came back to the site and tell me what they said
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You should find a witness that wasnt drunk and have him tell staci and jessica you drank
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You could purpously get caught with another guy
and that'll make them think you dont love nick.
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Ask nick to tell them that you were drunk.
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