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Member Since: October 9, 2005
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Last Update: November 7, 2005
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ok im in a lot of trouble...here it goes, me, one of my best friends staci and her cousin nick got drunk at a party at her house(were all 13 and this is our first time getting drunk)...her aunt let us drink...so me and nick had like 5,6 straight shots and staci only had like 2. so me and nick were smashed and staci was a lil drunk...we went on stacis trampoline and we finally fell and were just laying there...i dont know i was being weird and was saying shit like"i love you guys, your the best, im glad we did this together." and i looked over at nick and we started hooking up he had his hand on my ass and i didnt mind, i had my hands all over him(not on his dick or anything) and we were making out for a while, my other best friend jessica likes him alot. but i was so drunk to even remeber that. staci finally relized what was going on and pull us off of each other and we were like what are you doing stop..and then she started freaking out and was like i need to call jessica i need to call jessica..and nick was trying to talk to her and i was like nick i love you and he was like yea i love you to..and he looked over and gave me a lil kiss. well jessica came over to stacis house and put me to bed and i fell alseep

this is wat nick said to staci about wat happened
-he said i was ontop of him and he would of stopped but he couldnt(while we were hooking up he kept saying i love u to me and he could of said stop, so that was a lie)
-staic said someone was holding her hands down he said he wasnt(like i said my hands were all over him so his one hand that wasnt on my ass must of been holding her hands down)

so now staci and jessica hate me and they believe what nick says and he was lying and they wont believe me..i cant even look at them any more and i tried to tell them when you get drunk you dont really relize whats going on..and jessica said she asked her sister and her sister said that u do relize whats going on when your drunk im soo mad and upset at the same time..i dont know wat i can say to jessica and staci so they know im sorry and that i was drunk and it wasnt really my fault (link)
ok well first of all when you get drunk it is different for lots of ppl andyou might not have realized it at all, so i sugest that you talk to nick and see what he says to you, ad if tells you a hole different story then try to get all of you guys in the same room and just talk about it and explain that you are sorry but you honestly didnt realize and that if you had been sober you wouldnt have done that because they are your good friends and you dunt do that to friends so just try explaining to them what happens and if that doesnt work the came back to the site and tell me what they said


i am involved with a married man i dont love. i am with him because i have no other financial assistance. he is very controlling, obsessive and he threatens me , even locks me up in the house and demands to know my every move. i can live with my mother but i am scared through past experiences that they might disown me again and i have a 6yr old son. what should i do? i am 26yrs old, female. (link)
my advice to you:


i was in the same situation as you acccept he was my step dad and you knoe what i was a fraid to move in with my dad because i thought he would be mad at me for leaving in the firts place, but once i called him and i explained evrything with him he took me in because it wasnt a good place for his dauter it doesnt matter how old you are your parents will love you no matter what i think you should just explain to then what is going on im sure they will understand..........and if they dont do it for you ask then to do it for your son, because it isnt a good environment for him either!!!


I get jelous really easily. If I see my friends together without me, I instantly get jelous. I like get into this depressed state and start thinkin know one likes me. Or if they`re talkin about a good time they had together and I wasn`t there I get all upset. I really hate to feel this way, I know I can`t be their WHOLE lives. What should I do ? (link)
well my advice to you is:

it is not a burden to be jelous but sometime it can get out of contol just think to yourself next time you get jelous that it is not the end of the world and you can always see your friends tomorrow and always remember that you are beautiful no matter what and that anyone who doesnt like you obviously doesnt no u. a way that i help coping with my jelousy is take a deep breath count to ten and im all good y don't u try it............


I have strep throat but my doctor told me that after 24 hours of beign on my medicine i wouldnt be contagious anymore. IF i went to a movie with my boyfriend tonight can I kiss him? Will it get him sick even though I have been on my medicine for a little over 24 hours. I NEED GOOD ADVICE I RATE HIGH! ANSWER THIS ASAP I NEEED TO KNOW (link)
well you can kiss him on the check but just to make sure he doesnt catch anything till it is fully gone


Ok My cat has just had 3 kittens. They are 1 girl and 2 boys. I have named one of the boys Shaddow and I need to more names 4 the girl and boy cat! I don't want happy names I like darker names! Thanks! (no Smarts either please) (link)
-duesk
-thorn
-luna
-saliem
-Xavier
-lusafer
i hope this helps


yeah i play volleyball outside 4 days a week for a long time. of course i sweat so yeah...but like i get these bumps on the backs of my legs (i think theyre sweat bumps). i take a shower after volleyball everyday, but they still dont go away much. they get red and its embarrasing cus we wear really short shorts. anyone have any stuff they think i should use or just plain old advice? big thanks.
mucho love. (link)
well i had that problem before there is a creame out there that you put on your legs in the morining and night but i think is is persribed so you would have to go to the doctor's


last year i was new to my school i i met my best friend there. but now this year she dosent tellme anyhthing and dosent trust me she ignores me sometimes andwe get into alot of fight, she has new friends and she telles them her secrests but to me she dosent even tell me who her crush is i feel we cant be frineds anymore but me and her are realy close when we are getting along. what should i do? female 13 (link)
well first you should confront your friend and ask her what is wrong and if there is anything wrong to figure a way you can both comparmize




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