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there is this kid "matt" who i really liked and still do...i was obsessed and me and him are kind of friends...we used to hang out every now and then and go to friendly's and carnival like things but then i went to colorado and my cousin asked him out for me...he said no and that he wanted to be single...scince that we haven't really been exactly "friends" at all anymore and im not nessaserilly ready to be b/f and g/f but i really want to be something like not just friends but best friends....i really like him and im desprate to get to be better friends but not a couple....rate 5s for good answers!!
-messed up in love (link)
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Tell him that. You don't need approval for you to consider him your best friend. Friends are just friends, best friends are just a personal feeling. The more you get to know each other the closer you will get. So communicate with him and it could happen. :)
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ok....... I am a femaile and i have a gay friend. We have been friends for soooo long now that we became best friends. well the problem is that i donr feel comfortable around him anymore. and im not sure that i want to be friends with him anymore. But i dont want to hurt him cuz i went throught alot of crap last year and he was always there for me and helping me through everything. i love him for that. But he is like always all over me now and now he doesnt talk to me much but i guess that could be because its the summer. i live in oklahoma and we went to texas with our church and we were walking to together and i got sick from riding all the rides at six flags and he got soooooooooooooo mad at me cause i didnt want to ride and big rides for awhile to settle my stomach. wat would this mean? is he getting tired of me? i need help. i will rate high for good answers (link)
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It sounds like you still want to be friends with him so, just talk to him about the hanging all over business. Whatever is making you uncomfortable, talk it out. Even if you have to wait until school starts.
It sounds like he has really been there for you in the past. That is what friends do for each other. Their sexuality really has nothing to do with friendship. If it bothers you then ask questions. Friends should be able to talk about anything and everything. Don't let his sexuality bother you, he still the same person he was before you knew about it. :)
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I know this might not sound like that big of a deal but it is for me!
Well my mom and me have been fighting a lot lately..........almost like every day. But its never my fault like i would say " Mom there's no more laundry detergent." the she would blow up and say " Of course we dont because you have to use so much" and then she would start yelling at me bacause i ask for so much stuff and that she has no money to spend and i hate! I really dont want to hear about her problems then when i say that i don't want to hear it then she starts yelling at me again! please help me and tell me what to do! im going to start school on tuesday, and i dont want this to mess with my head so please help ! (link)
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Sounds like your mom is under a lot of stress just trying to make ends meet. Try letting her talk to you and then try to be a little more understanding. Sometimes moms don't have a lot of friends they can rely on to talk about their problems with. It can get frustrating. While she shouldn't be taking it out on you, sounds like that is what is happening. Maybe a grandparent or Aunt could help you make her understand that she shouldn't take her frustrations out on you. :)
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Ok...So, I go to conciling and im on Medication. But, I still don't feel happy. I'm always down and I never want to do anything. I like being alone, always. And I try to change myself but it just keeps getting worse. Yes, I cut, But im really not a bad person. My family is dieing to get me to change and be like one of my friends. They told me that they wished I was like her....Any advice on how to change my ways and make my parents proud?? (link)
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The best thing you can do is let your doctor know that even with med you are still not feeling good about things. Your dosage and/or the med can be changed. Your doctor won't know it isn't working unless you say something so be very vocal about it. Be sure and tell your counselor everything. It will get better. Good luck. :)
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Last night i went to cousin's wedding. we were all having fun and stuff.(obeying all the rules)
but later into the night, I got risky but still being a good kid, I asked my dad if he thinks it is alright if I got some drinks. He said yes,i was now 15 and I could handle myself.
So... I drank a few glasses of wine with my parents and friends. my parents didn't object.
then I left with my friend's and got some beer.
My mom caught me drinking the beer and she got really vexxed. She said how I betrayed her trust and all sorts of crap like that.
I didn't tell her that dad said yes otherwise that would cause family disruption.
No I am in trouble for drinking 1 beer. 1!
and I want to know how I could apologize to my mom.
thanks for the tips. (link)
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First let me say this in defense of your parents.
Dad probably okayed it for you to have a few drinks at home where he could keep an eye on the situation. Neither seemed to object to you drinking at the party.
When you left with your friends and got beer, you then involved others who more than likely did not have permission to drink. That could have put your parents in jeopardy of getting in big trouble had the friends been at their party.
So, that is what you need to apologize for. Your parents trusted you to be home drinking under their supervision. You left and endangered others. Tell mom you realize that you took things to far (possibly due to drinking) and that you understand now that your actions could have gotten them into trouble as well as yourself. :)
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ok i have never had acne or pimples or anything like it but its starting to show that im gonna get them like im getting little bumps then you can feel but you cant see unless oyu look really really close and i was just wondering what i could do to prevent them from showing and to prevent them from comming back. ill rate for good answers thank you ! (link)
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Maybe some of the info on this site will help you. :)
http://www.acne.org/
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okay so yea.. i have a huge problem with crackin my knuckles nd there like big now :( dose any one know how i can make them smaller nd or stop my habbit? please nd thanks i rate 5s
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If you have big knuckles it is probably something you inherited from your parents. Crackin' those knuckles may not be a great habit to have, but it has no affect on the size of your knuckles.
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I'm looking for lyrics to a Leanne Rhymes song. It isn't very popular but they've played it on CMT a few times. I really don't have a clue how it goes but it says something about her going on a date with the preachers son. And the in the chorus she says something like "it proably wouldn't hurt this bad if I'd never seen your face" I know that's very vague but if anyone has a clue what the name of the song is or at least what her latet album's name is then let me know! PLEASE! (link)
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Oh the joys of google! Here you go :)
Leann Rimes - Probably Wouldn't Be This Way Lyrics
Got a date a week from Friday with a preacher's son
Everybody says he's crazy
I'll have to wait and see
I finally moved to Jackson when the summer came
I won't have to pay that boy to rake my leaves
I'm probably going on and on
It seems I'm doing more of that these days
[CHORUS 1:]
I probably wouldn't be this way
I probably wouldn't hurt so bad
I never pictured every minute without you in it
Oh You left so fast
Sometimes I see you standing there
Sometimes it's like I'm losing touch
Sometimes I feel like I'm so lucky to have had the chance to
love this much
God gave me a moment's grace
'Cause if I'd never seen your face
I probably wouldn't be this way
Mama says that I just shouldn't speak to you
Susan says that I should just move on
You oughta see the way these people look at me
When they see me 'round here talking to this stone
Everybody thinks I've lost my mind
But I just take it day by day
[CHORUS 2:]
I probably wouldn't be this way
I probably wouldn't hurt so bad
I never pictured every minute without you in it
Oh You left so fast
Sometimes I see you standing there
Sometimes I feel an angel's touch
Sometimes I feel like I'm so lucky to have had the chance to
love this much
God gave me a moment's grace
'Cause if I'd never seen your face
I probably wouldn't be this way
Probably wouldn't be this way
Got A Date a week from Friday with a preacher's son
Everybody says I'm crazy
I'll have to wait and see
Other songs in This Woman album :
»Leann Rimes - I Dare You Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - I Dare You Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - I Got It Bad Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - I Got It Bad Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - I Want To With You Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - I Want To With You Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - Probably Wouldn't Be This Way Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - Probably Wouldn't Be This Way Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - Some People Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - Some People Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - Something's Gotta Give Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - Something's Gotta Give Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - The Weight Of Love Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - The Weight Of Love Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - When This Woman Loves A Man Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - When This Woman Loves A Man Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - With You Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - With You Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - Won't Be Lonely Long Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - Won't Be Lonely Long Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - You Take Me Home Lyrics
»Leann Rimes - You Take Me Home Lyrics
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I'm 15/f. There's this guy that I like, but I'm afraid to try to talk to him, b/c a friend started saying things about us that aren't true. So I don't know what he thinks about all of it, so it might be a little weird for me to talk to him. But I really like him. What should I do? I'll rate 5's for good advice. (link)
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For one thing you need to have a little chat with the rumor starting friend. Let him/her know it isn't something you feel one friend would do to another.
Don't let rumors keep you from talking to your guy. Talk and ask what he thinks about the rumors going around. You should be able to talk to your boyfriend about anything and everything. :)
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13/m. me and my girlfriend have been going out for two months now. but im a pagan which most people think is devil worship but thats really not the case. but the point is shes christian and i dont want her to think im a devil worshiper, cuz im not, and break up with me so should i tell her about my religion or keep it ro myself?? plz help me (link)
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Since religion is a big part of some peoples lives I don't think you should keep it from her. I do think that you need to explain to her in great detail what your religion is beforehand so their is no misunderstandings. :)
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a short amount of two weeks, and only two weeks. Last time I saw him he tried to touch my chest as we were kissing and I pulled his hand away and I got extemely uncomfortable around him that night. He knew I was too. Here I am a week later and he tried to do the same thing again tonight. I let him for a second then just stopped kissing him and got very quiet after that and just continued to watch the movie. We kind of have this joke about how I don't like my stomach so he was laughing about it and he kind of pulled my shirt up just so you could see my stomach just a little bit. So I pulled my shirt back down, but he put his hand under it. I laughed cause he was tickleing me too, but then he moved his hand up. I pulled his hand out right away and luckily my mom came to pick me up after that happened.
I live off the moto- "forgive and forget" I'm forgiving him, but it makes me feel really degrated and small that he'd try that two weeks into this realationship. He's really sorry and he knows it made me uncomfortable, but I don't know how to act now. I want to show him it's alright, but I don't want him trying again... what do I do? Should I feel uncomfortable? (link)
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Feeling uncomfortable when someone is trying to put the moves on you and you don't want them to is perfectly natural.
If you don't like it you need to tell him and make sure he understands it. Talk to him before it even gets to that point. A simple, I am not ready for you to touch me in an intimate way should be enough. If he continues to try after that, then that is a total lack of respect for your feelings. If that happens you will have to decide if this is really a boy you want to spend your time with. NEVER be pressured to do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. :)
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theres tis girl who is totally obbsessed with me, shes attractive looking but i dont really think that it would work, and besides i already have a girlfriend. i wanna tell her that i dont like her but she cried cuz i wouldnt tell her if i liked her so i dont want to totally crush her heart so is there a way that i can tell her i dont like her without her getting crushed into amillion tiny peices (link)
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Just tell her you like her as a friend but don't want to be her boyfriend. There really isn't a way to keep from hurting her feelings about it. All you can hope for is to ease the blow. :)
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Okay, for starters, I'm 30, male.
I've been with my girlfriend for over 6 years, she's such a sweet person and I love her, but you know the excitement of the beginning has faded.
Now there's this girl, she's our common friend and she's amazingly beautiful, she's something special. What's amazing is that she never had a stable relationship although she certainly would like to.
Now I feel something changing inside me, my way of thinking about this other girl; can it be love? I don't really know, because we're pretty different and I don't think we could have a durable relationship, but somehow I feel an overwhelming attraction for her, and I DO know sex with her would be incredible.
Being such a sensitive person as I am, I am going through a horrible time, the only thing positive being my loss of appetite; my gf has noticed it and I and I have more or less dismissed it as a temporary situaton because of work, friends and all (it's been a hard year in those aspects), but she's probably thinking there may be a relationship problem behind this.
Now what to do? Shall I tell her? this could destroy our friendship, and I would really regret that (I guess it depends on how sympathetic and understanding a person you are), but I know I could give her some of the love and attention she deserves... I am also thinking about telling my girlfriend, she deserves sincerity, but who knows where this could bring us... At the moment I am thinking about telling the other girl, just to get it off my chest; she will probably reject me, but keeping it inside is hurting me. Telling my gf is in my mind too, but I'm not sure about it.
I can't help but feel this mixture of love and attraction/lust for her, and it's killing me. I don't believe denying it would rid me completely of her. I guess you can love two people at the same time, though I never thought I'd be in this situation myself. Damn, damn heart... (link)
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If the girl you are attracted to is any kind of good friend of your girlfriends she is going to turn you down. That being said, You'd better think long and hard before saying anything to either woman about your feelings. Chances are good you could be the big loser all around if you do.
You say you love the girlfriend of 6 years. That is the only SURE thing you have here. And 6 years is a big investment of time. Are you sure you want to risk throwing that away for a POSSIBLE fling?
That first thrill of conquest does fade over time, but if two people love each other it is replaced by bigger and better things as time goes on. Right now you see yourself as a possible big rescuer for this other girl when having a relationship with you would be no more "stable" than any of her past relationships.
I don't think what you are feeling is love, I think you may feel bad for her, you may think you are what she has been waiting for all her life, but that is doubtful. She is a good looking girl and the unknown is the attraction. And unless you have sex with her you DON'T know the sex would be incredible. The idea of sex with her might be but, in reality you have no idea.
Women are very intuitive and your girlfriend is probably worried. I don't believe you ease your mind/guilt by hurting someone you love. For this reason I suggest that unless you decide to pursue the other girl you say nothing to your girlfriend about what you are thinking. Unless you break up with her, which if you plan a pursuit of someone else you need to do BEFORE the chase. If you tell the other girl and she rejects you, you can be about 75% sure that she will tell your girlfriend.
I will leave you with this thought that I read recently. The majority of people (men/women alike) who cheat on their partners regret it immediately afterward. The actual sex with the other person never equals the anticipation and pursuit of it. Once done there is a tremendous amount of guilt involved and regret. Is that minute of gratification followed by guilt and regret worth destroying what you have now with your girlfriend of 6 years? Please think about it before you do something you might regret.
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I'm a 3rd year high school student and I stay at the dormitory. The freshies in the dormitory wanna make friends with me. I'm just wondering if how could I make friends with them. I know I should make the first move because I'm older than them and the're new at our school. (link)
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It doesn't matter who makes the first move towards friendship so long as someone does! Just be friendly and talk to them and everything should work out just fine. :)
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Well, I met my boyfriend a couple of months ago. We hit off quite well :) And just recently, this 5th of August we decided to "hook up", become an "item", whatever, we're together.
Anyway, we've never really talked as much as I'd like to. I've told him that and I've said I miss him and talking to him when texting with him. But that doesn't seem to be working... we talk around... 30 - 60 minutes a WHOLE WEEK. If that much too. That would be a good week!
I don't know what to do anymore. We're both on the nervous side when we meet and rather quiet but I don't know what to do... I don't want to lose him, I think there's potential. But, he doesn't seem like HE wants to put any effort into it. So I was wondering, what should I do, seeing as I'm the one concerned about the relationship in the first place,?
Note; I'm 13 & female. (link)
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Both of you have to put forth the effort or it just won't work out. Talk to him and ask him if he won't just at least try to talk more. If he doesn't you may need to find someone who will. He may be to immature for a relationship. :)
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There is this boy who has had a crush on me since 4th grade. But i never really liked him. I like this other boy. What should i do? (link)
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If you don't like him you don't have to date him. You can still be friends if you want too though. Just tell him you like him as a friend but don't have girlfriend feelings for him. Be polite because it takes some courage for a guy to admit he likes you. :)
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well i lyk this guy, he lyks me too..and now we're going out.and now..i feel lyk im not free..i want to b free..i want to be single again..but i dunno wat to do, i really lyk him..should i break up w/ him? (link)
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If you don't want to be tied down you really should break up for now. That doesn't mean you can't date him or others, just don't date any one person exclusively. :)
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what exactly is a condom ,where do u put it, do girls where them, and what do they do? is there a certain age to buy them? (link)
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condoms are used for birth control and protect you from STDs.
Boys wear a condom on their penis. Girls do not wear them. However if they think they may get in a situation where it might be needed, they can carry one around for protection. NEVER have sex without protection. some STDs are very dangerous and some life threatening (AIDS).
I honestly don't know if there is a certain age you have to be to buy them. I have never seen a sign posted so I will assume there isn't. A quick call to your local health department could tell you for certain.
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Allright, I've liked this girl I've known for a while, but everytime I start to make a move she hooks up with someone else. I know I'm waiting too long, I just don't know when the opprotune moment. For the past year she's been going out with my best friend. My best friend recently broke up with her girlfriend, but he told me what he was going to do beforehand.
She's one of my best friends; I've known her nearly all my life. And someone found out. That someone told her everything. She's not acting any differently towards me and I don't know what to make of my situation. Should I back off? OR should I hope for the best. Please, I don't know what to do. (link)
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If she is free at the moment....go ask her out. Today! :)
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please help if i am sneaking out of the house tonight to meet my boyfriend outside cuz he lives by me! my moms window is in the front! and mine is in the back and i have a back porch should i tell my boyfriend to meet me on my back porch?! give me tips on how to sneak out w/o my mom findin out (link)
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I know you won't like this opinion and its a little to late anyway, but I will give you my 2 cents worth of advice anyway!
Sneaking out is not a good idea. If you get away with it once you will do it time and again. One of these days the odds will catch up with you and you will get caught. When that happens mom is not going to be real happy with you. She won't be happy with your boyfriend either. She may even say you can't see him for a very long time. She will make sure you can't too. So, it is really not worth the risk. At least now you get to see him now and then, that is a lot better than never.
Then mom will no longer trust you. It will take a long time before she does. She will consider you to be immature and will not give you what freedom you have now. You are probably at the age where you are wanting more freedom and privileges. I would hate to see you throw all that away on a sneak out. So, if you have already done it and got away with it, I hope you will reconsider next time. :)
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