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Friends and girls
Allright, I've liked this girl I've known for a while, but everytime I start to make a move she hooks up with someone else. I know I'm waiting too long, I just don't know when the opprotune moment. For the past year she's been going out with my best friend. My best friend recently broke up with her girlfriend, but he told me what he was going to do beforehand.
She's one of my best friends; I've known her nearly all my life. And someone found out. That someone told her everything. She's not acting any differently towards me and I don't know what to make of my situation. Should I back off? OR should I hope for the best. Please, I don't know what to do.
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You should really see if she likes you. And if she does try taking her to the movies or something and be quick so she doesnt get another boyfriend
hope i helped!
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If she is free at the moment....go ask her out. Today! :)
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You don't know what she knows, someone found out something, that someone might have told her who knows what, those stories almost always get twisted around, do you want her believing you like her cause you allegedly think her scew big toe looks funky?
go straighten out how you feel about her, while you're at it you might as well find out how she feels.
Prepare for the worst, hope for the best.
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I'd like to apologize if any of this sounds harsh:
It's a human relationship, involving emotions, other people, and mistakes. Expect the worst before ever hoping for the best.
If she knows, and she's not acting any differently, that's probably a signal to back off. If you've been 'making moves' on her, and she doesn't respond, or hooks up with someone else.. that's a sign also. Girls are pretty intuitive into that sort of thing (I think half of them even make up signs). But if she's not doing anything about it that means, to put it simply, she just thinks of you as a friend.
You can talk to her, and see if it changes anything, but usually you can't change someone's feelings by talking to them. You can try though.
My advice is basically to back off, and find someone else... someone who isn't just your 'friend'.
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You should always hope for the best. You never know she could like you she just might think it will be kind of awkard because before she found out everything you felt about her she probably thought of you as a brother she never had. Just keep your head up and I think you should tell her how you feel about her even if she already knows from somebody else. She may think it was a joke or something you never know, until you try or ask about it. Like I said before to someone else girls love sweetness in a guy, well most. But still try and hope for the best to talk to her about it. Never back down before you try. Hope I helped!
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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she probably hooks up with someone else everytime you make a move because she is scared on what your friendship will be like if you guys break up. i say hope for the best, and dont back off. act yourself in front of her, especially if she isnt acting any differently towards you.
if she knows that you like her and she is not backing away, she might like you as well.
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