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I took a pregnancy test and it said no, so hat other reasons are there that I haven't gotten my period?

You may have tested to soon. Wait a week and try again. If it is still negative see your doctor unless you have gotten your period.

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I am feeling really depressed lately. I dont know im irritable. Little things aggervate me. My husband and I are starting to fight more and sometimes i know hes not doing anything its just if he jokes around with my a flip out. i hate my job now im miserable. i have alot of trouble with my step son his behavior. i just know no what to do. my doctor is a idiot so going to see a doctor is a stupid idea. i live in a small town. when ever anyone says anything to me i just get mad or get an attitude.

You really need to be seen by a doctor to be screened for depression. If your doctor is an idiot find a new doctor. Depending on how depressed and type of depression you may be found to have you could be referred to a psychiatrist for treatment. No you are not crazy; depression is usually caused by missing or insufficient enzymes in the Brain. Because of this a psychiatrist is the best doctor to treat depression. So if you need to find a new doctor look for a Board Certified psychiatrist.

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So, I'm 15

I really don't like the way I look "down there". I've never had sex, but I do masturbate and this is really hard to talk about, because I don't talk about it.

I don't know if it's nothing or what but, something sticks out, outside of my vagina and I really don't know what it is, if it's my clitoris or what.. I'm just scared it's abnormal, I don't want to go to the doctor and be embarrassed..I don't believe I have an std because I'm still a virgin..will some one please help me out here? ://

I once saw a documentary that said there are 5 different types of vagina's. Okay so what, fact is regardless of how they look they all work the same and to be honest they are all beautiful.


As a guy I can tell you I have never seen an ugly vagina. While I have a preference for unshaven pubic bushes I like the vagina itself to be shaved and that is as far as I go in describing for anyone my preference, although I do like long labias.

If you have started through puberty and are having your periods then it is also time you see a gynecologist for yearly female check ups. If you're concerned that whatever you are seeing down there is wrong it would be noticed by the doctor during your exam. If you have not had a gynecological check up yet I would suggest you talk to your mother about arranging for your first visit. This is an important part of women's health and something you need to have done.

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Well im 15 as i said and i would like to have a baby. Most pepole are telling me its a phase. Is it? Because i just feel the need to get pregnet and be a mom...i get all mad when i see other people with babies and i dont have one.

Wow, this is a tough question to answer. Sure, physically you can become pregnant and have a child. But is this a phase; I really can't say.


What I can say is you are way to young to have a child. If for some reasons your nurturing instincts are kicking in ahead of your time to be capable of supporting a child, in every respect that a child requires support, there are ways to satisfy your nurturing needs.


You could look into the big sister program. This is an excellent program where you help a child who may not have a mom to go to with her problems and questions. You are also working with girls who could otherwise get in real trouble without your intervention. This is a very rewarding program. I'm not sure of the requirements or if there is a minimum age to join but is something you could look into.


You could also check in with your local library into reading programs for the young. Tutoring after school and other mentoring programs. Check with your local parks and recreation for summer jobs that might be available to you in working with the younger children.


I'm sure if you look for them you will find places where you can satisfy you nurturing instinct without becoming pregnant to do so. You are far to young, there are far to many things that life holds for you, that you will miss out on. But most importantly it is not fair to the child to be born to a mother as young as you are. This leads most always to a lifetime of struggles for the two of you.


I realize your mother is probably the last person you want to discuss this with. The fact is she is the best person to talk to about this. In a sense she may be the reason you want to be a mom as she has done an excellent job of being a mom to you.


Please don't do anything rash. You will not only ruin your life, the child's life but there are legal responsibilities for the father even if he is an unwitting player in all of this.

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Okays. Thanks I will try asking them. There is one more thing though. This past week, this guys friend asked me to prom. They are all going in one limo together. She found out about this yesterday. I havnt said yes or no to the guy. He wants to go as friends. I am wondering if I should go or not? Prom is a very big deal to her n she's been preparing for months now, just so its perfect. I don't want to go and ruin her night just because I am there.. prom isn't a big deal to me and I don't really care about going nor do I like the guy, he is just a friend. I wouldn't mind not going, like I said I just don't want to ruin her nite. I asked her if me going would bother her, n she got mad and like 3times I don't really care what the hell you do just go if you want, just don't mess up his night, I don't care. I have a feeling though that she does care a little bit and im wondering if maybe I should just let her have her special night? Like I said I really don't care about going at all I would be going just to go, plus I have my own prom next year.. everyone is telling me go n mess up her night don't be dumb here's your chance. But I feel doing that isn't right if I still want her as my friend, also I was always taught two wrongs don't make a right.. I have no clue what to do and I have to answer this guy soon..(mind you she will only be at prom if the guy dosnt break up with her before prom which is friday)

Sorry for the delay; I can only spend so many hours in front of the computer before my eyes start to cross.


This is my thinking. Two wrongs do not make a right. At this late hour it would be wrong of you to tell this boy you are not going to go to the prom with him. He would probably not be able to find a date and would ended up either going dateless or miss his prom altogether. This is wrong. She said it, "just don't mess up his night." So go to the prom. just don't mess up her night as your friends are advising that too would be wrong.


As for going in one Limo together. She told you"just don't mess up his night" so she should understand why you are there. If she spends the night fretting about it, it is her problem not yours. Have good time and thank the boy for inviting you.


Once again I think this is something you should also discuss with your mother. I think she will agree with me that you should not worry so much about your friends feelings as to ruin the boys chances as to attend his prom.

Have fun and remember you are too young to drink so don't. You can have just more fun sober then you can drunk.

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Hey im the 16 year old girl from before. Thanks for that I didn't really look at it as I would be hurting her both ways. They are also soppose to be going to prom together this week. I know he is going to break up with her to go with this other girl to prom. Do you I would still be hurting her if I went to her and said "hey I know were not talking, and you don't like nor trust me that much right now.. but I still care about you as my best friend had there are a few people who aren't being very real with you right now.. so please just be careful about the person your beginning to like alot.. I just want you to be okay." And then I just left, I dnt want to force her to have a convo with me.. but im hoping if I go to her n tell her she will see that im still there for her. Im afraid if I don't tell her she will just think I wanted her to get hurt. She wont see it as me not wanting to get involved and make things worse.

Like I said the best think you can do is not get involved. I know you want to protect her but I don't think she will see it that way regardless of your best intentions.


Just be there fore her as a friend when the hurt does come her way.


You know I have one other thought on this. You parents probably know this girl far better than I do. Why don't you talk with mom or dad about this. They will have a greater insight into her and you.

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I'm a 16 year old girl and my best friend is also the same. A month ago we got into a very big fight. It was mostly my fault, I lied to her about a few little things and made a big fit over the fact that she had told someone else I lied. I only lied because I saw her hanging out with a different type of crowd and I was afraid if I wasn't the same as them I was going to end up losing her. I've been through alot in my life and I've had alot of people leave n screw me over.. I just didn't want that to happen with her. She's very important to me and I was only scared. I keep trying to explain this too her lately but she dosnt want to talk to me or even give me a chance. I know this means she only cares because this is what's she does when she's afraid of getting hurt, she pushes people away. Well now I know her boyfriend is cheating on her and I dont know if I should just karma take its place since she's being so mean to me and not letting me talk.. or if I should b "nice" like I always am to people, and tell her? All my friends are saying let her get hurt like she's hurting you by pushing her away.. but I guess im kinda hoping if I do the right thing and tell she'll see im not trying to hurt her. I just don't know if I should let our relationship go or not, we're real close like sisters..

I think whatever you do in this case will only hurt your friend. If you tell her that her boyfriend is cheating on her she may feel you are trying to hurt her because you are hurt that she is not talking to you. When she finds out on her own or if someone else tells her her boyfriend is cheating on her she is still going to be hurt.

If she asks you if you knew and why you didn't tell her you simply say; You didn't want to hurt your relationship anymore than it has been and felt it would be better for someone else to told her.


As her friend the best thing you can do is to wait fro the inevitable to happen and then be there to help her through the hurt.

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Hi, idk if this is the correct category to be asking this question but I sorta figure that this is the closest?

Anyway, I'm 22 year old female and I'm confused about well, if I'm straight or lesbian or bi. (I'm female despite my username.) I found myself looking at other girls a lot lately. I look at their chests and their legs and that's it. I don't have any sexual thoughts about it. I just look.

Also, I have a boyfriend(whom I love very much) and when we make out, I do get turned on though the overall experience in bed is just ok. I enjoy it but sometimes, I don't know if I'm just faking it or am making myself enjoy it. Plus, we don't really talk that much about what we like. I get more aroused when we like talk about our fantasies when we chat or when I read heterosexual erotic literature. Idk if it's just that well, I'm the first girl he did more than kiss and me, him, so we're both inexperienced.

And lastly, I remember panicking when my boyfriend asked me if I liked gay guys. I didn't immediately hear the guys bit. My brain stopped at gay and I panicked. This also happened when my guy asked me if I was dressing up to impress other girls. It turns out he was quoting an article but yeah, I sorta panicked for some reason.

Any insight would be greatly appreciated.

From what you have written I would say you are not a lesbian. As for looking at other women I don't think I could put that in to the category of being bi-curious either. To me I think it is more of checking out the competition. Sort of how do you stack up against others.


As for do women dress up to impress other women. I read somewhere that women do dress up more to impress other women than they do to attract a man. How true this is or just how the study was conducted I don't know. I do now that when I attend corporate functions all the women there are dressed the 'nine's" as the saying goes. Since most of the women there are married they are not looking to attract a mate. They are dressing for success, that being the moving up the ladder either for themselves or their husband. In that case it means passing muster with the higher ups wives.


As for sex itself; you are correct sex is generally better when partners communicate. Communication is key in almost everything we do, including sex. If I'm your boyfriend how do I know what your likes and dislikes are if I don't talk to you. How do I know that you are not just putting up what the way or things I'm doing when we make love just to please me. The same is true of me when you are making love to me.


It is not gay that I like my wife to suck and nip at my nipples. If I had not said something to her she would never of done so even though she wanted to; but thinking I would think her doing so would make me feel gay she didn't. Fact is when she does it sends a wild feeling right to the center of me.


Most of the girls I went out with where more vaginal, at least that is what I thought, so I always concentrated my attention more on my wives vaginal area than her clitoris. Turns out my wife is more clitoral and needs more clitoral stimulation to turn her on. I would never had known this if we had not talked about our likes an dislikes. What we would like to try and not try.


Yes, even role play can be a very big part of some peoples sex lives. Sex does not have to be reserved for the bedroom. A popular role play is the maid and the master of the manner. Your imagination can take you from there.


The fact that you are both sexually inexperienced says you will have questions and fears. What is important is to communicate. Just like you both want to learn about each others bodies, you need to learn how to make love to each other that gives each other maximum satisfaction. To do this you have to communicate.

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if a singular thought process is nothing more than a chemical reaction that occurs within the walls of our skull then what is so special about them? why do thoughts or feelings hold relevance they're just chemicals. and all we are is an even larger conglomeration of chemicals then why do we hold value on human life? is the chemical composition that makes my body more important that the thousands of other organisms that die every time i take a breath? why should my choice in the regards to the span of my life hold relevance to anyone?

This is a really deep question you have asked. There are some different ways to answer this question depending on your reason for asking. something I would like to know before I answer
you.


If your reason is for purely intellectual reasons most of the question can be answered with available on-line research.

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Hi, everyone. My boyfriend who is 18 just got a ticket for being with a minor who was in posesion of weed. Although my boyfriend did NOT have anything on him he got a ticket. Can an officer really do that when he had done nothing wrong? Or could the ticket be from being with the minor? Also, my boyfriend has a past record, could this have somthing to do with it? And will he go to jail?

I'm guessing here but the ticket your boyfriend got is most likely an appearance summons, ordering him to appear in court. They are sometimes referred to as a desk appearance ticket. For whatever reason the Officer had it was not felt an arrest was required and a summons to appear would suffice. Failure to appear will result in an arrest warrant being issued.


As to whether the Officer can issue the ticket for the reasons you gave. The fact that the Officer did says they can.

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I just got asked out by one of the most popular kids in my grade. You could tell he really wanted to go out with me. I don't like him, but practically all of the girls do. They keep telling me that I should of said "yes" to him. They also say, "You were so dumb for not saying yes! Any girl would want to be asked out by him!!!!"
BUT I DON'T LIKE HIM!!!!!! Should I go back and say "yes"? Or say "no" and be real? I'm only 11! Help!

Just because something is the popular thing to do does not always mean it is the right thing to do or it is the right thing for you to do. This is what I told my son when he was growing up.


My mom was more direct; she would say just because Billy jumps off the Brooklyn Bridge does that mean you have to too. Extreme example but that was the way parents were back then.


Both what I said to my son and what my mom said to me really mean the same thing. Don't let anyone force you into doing something you do not want to do. Just because this guy is the most popular guy in school does not mean you HAVE TOO DATE HIM. For whatever reasons you have they are the right reasons and do not let anyone ridicule, shame you or in anyway force you into changing your mind.


Lets call your reason for saying no a little red flag that popped up in the corner of your eye. When this flag pops up something is telling you that something is wrong. It is an inner warning that you should not ever over-ride out of fear of being ridiculed or shamed in any way. That red flag is a form of built in safety devise you have to keep you out of danger. Learn to heed the flags warning.

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I can pay for my own Amtrak ticket but me and my mom havent seen my grandma who lives far away in like 2 years... Shes getting older and I would hate to know that the only way i could see her was if she died :( My dad hates my grandma, they never have gotten along! My dad wont help us and neither will his side of the family... My mom and her side of the family dont have that much money (kinda poor) and my dad hogs his money all to himself. We have to come up with $91.80 for my mom to go roundtrip! I dont know who else to turn to! What do I do?

Have you checked the Amtrak fare deal portion of their website. They have half-price fares for children 15 and under, 15% discounts for students as well. They also have special fares from different points to different destinations. Amtrak occasionally offers companion fares as well so you need to continually check their website and be prepared to travel when they have these special fares.


Have you checked some of the low cost airlines like Southwest, Airtran, Jetblue and Spirit. They have some really low cost last minute fares available over the web only for booking. Usually these fares are on flights in the way early hours of the day and they use these fares to fill up planes that generally fly empty. The airlines call these flights positioning flights. They are really moving the plane from one airport to another to make up a flight that would originate at your destination airport but for some reason they could not park a plane there the night before.

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I earned about 320 dollars from coaching a little league sports team during their whole season. I'm 18 and currently unemployed. I applied for another job but haven't gotten a response back. I don't really know what to do with my money. I can either blow it all and buy clothes (I REALLY need to update my wardrobe.. i haven't gotten a new outfit for probably a year and half. I just really need some new clothes haha I'm sick of wearing the same stuff) Or I can put it in my savings, earn more money, and then spend all of that later in the summer (considering i only have 2 weeks left of school).

so should I spend it now? or save it and wait until I have more money to buy clothes?

Also- if you say I should spend it now- do you recommend any places or ideas on how I can get a bunch of clothes for a cheap price? I was thinking Platos Closet since there are name brand clothes (so they are still cute) but cheaper. I don't really care if they are already worn. I just really need some new clothes haha. Thank you so much!

I think you know the answer to this question and are just looking for affirmation that it is the right answer.


Since you are still in school you are not truly UNEMPLOYED, YOU ARE A STUDENT WHO WORKS PART-TIME AFTER SCHOOL JOBS. You will remain as such if you are going on to college.


Ifyou are going on to College then you need to continue to sock away the money you earn from part-time jobs so you can concentrate on your studies. This is very important especially for your freshman year. Regardless of how the tuition is being covered the more time you can dedicate to study the better off you are.


If you are not going to College then you are going to need money for a job search. Spend some money on an appropriate set of clothing to wear to job interviews. Put the rest in the bank.


Not wanting to be a total scrooge keep $50.00 out for a night of fun and leave the rest in the bank until you either find a job or you go off to school and need the money for books and things.

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Hi all, I just wanted to know somthing about my weight... I'm 13 5'3 and 126 lbs. I think I'm overweight. Yes, I do have a bf and he picks me up all the time, but I'm just barely off the ground.... like mabeye an inch?? Anyway I have huge thighs, both of my sisters are smaller than me and they call me thunder thighs. My gut isn't that big, and my boobs are a size B. But I that pink skin around my nipple is really big and covers the whole tip of my boob. So when he does pick me up I can see the look on his face that he is sorta struggling. Ok, there is more like a few questions about everything in here so bare with me. Every day at lunch he sits with this one whore who flirts with him all the time. She once kissed him on the cheek and said she was smelling his cologne. She keeps telling me that she will never flirt with him because she knows we are dating but she is a whore!! I keep telling him I'm ok with it but I'm not.. I love him and we kiss all the time. So today she kissed him on the lips and he kissed back. They say that they always pretend to be sister and brother but i am sooo mad at her!! What can I do to make her stop and not seem overprotective?? P.s. everyone always says he treats my like shit and I think so to. everytime he sit with her they always tell him to sit by me cuz we are dating bu he ignores them so what can i do? Sorry it was soo long... please help with all my questions!! Thanks!!!

First things first. Depending on your frame size you are right were you should be or possible closer to being underweight. I checked on a body height to weight chart. As far as having heavy thighs; you are 13 and from your description of yourself somewhere into puberty. Your body is still changing. You did not say if your sisters are older than you, if they are then their bodies have changed more than yours and they have lost most if not all of their baby fat.


One other thing to consider is athletics. If you are in to athletics that require great leg strength, your thighs are going to be bigger than most as muscle is both bigger and heavier than fat. Everyone's thighs have fat tissue.


I don't understand what you are trying to say with this line; "my boobs are a size B. But I that pink skin around my nipple is really big and covers the whole tip of my boob." If your trying to say you don't like that or guys may not like it; relax, you are still going through puberty and your body is still changing.


Last but not least. YOU ARE NOT FAT. Fat is a word that is self defeating, derogatory and insulting. If you could delete it from you're vocabulary you should. Use of that word only destroys your self image and those that you use it on in a descriptive manner.


There are things you can do to help your body shape itself as you go through the changes of puberty. Talk to your physical Education teacher about different exercises you can do to tone up different muscle groups. Just remember muscle weighs more than fat. But this is good weight not bad weight.

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will an overdose of sleeping pills work, and be relatively painless?

No one on this website will tell you how to commit suicide. That is not what we are here for. What we are here for is to help you and to be here for you to help you through times like this.


Suicide fixes nothing and leaves behind a trail
of pain for those who love you. I can think of nothing you could have done or has been done to you that with the help of others cannot be rectified in some manner that is acceptable.


If you are feeling suicidal at this time pick up the phone and dial 911 now. The people at the 911 call center are there to help you and will send help to you. You can also call the; National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255): a 24/7 free and confidential, nationwide network of crisis centers. The crisis worker who takes your call will work with you to find some one in your town you can go to for help.

Please either call 911 or call the suicide prevention hotline.


To answer your question: There is no painless way to commit suicide. How do I know this? As a member of a fire department rescue squad I have seen my fair share of overdoses and other things. They are all painful not only to the patient but to their loved ones, and to us who try to rescue them.

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There's a guy in some of my classes that (since yesterday) wants to show me his penis to prove to me that it is longer than 3 inches.

LOL

You're probably thinking, wtf?, but there's a story behind this (it deserves a good explanation)

My school is an environmentally friendly school and we have a class that part of our grade is doing outside work, so i was working with him and two of my other friends and they were having a very sexual conversation (it was all guys that i was with, so you can see why. They're horny 13 year olds!) and he randomly asks me if i want to see his penis. And i laughed and said no. Then he said yes you do. and i said no i don't, and it kept going like that back and forth for a while. Then he starts to call my name and everytime i look but not down there just at his face, but one time he actually pulled his pants down! (only in the front, like as if he was about to pee, and i only knew that from the corner of my eye) Of course i didn't see it, but i knew that it was out.

And today he did it again in the same class and everything except this time he wanted to prove it to me that his "thing" was longer than 3 inches. (did i mention that on both days he had a boner? Yesterday it looked really short, like through the pants) so that's why he did it today, but what does this mean, does he like me, is he sexually attracted to me, or what because i asked my friends and they have no clue, just like me.

Please, feel free to anser my totally random question, please! I would be so... greatful for any answer/opinion/comment you have. I'll take anything.
Thank you for any answers in advance.

What this kid is doing is totally wrong. It is called sexual harassment for one. His exposing himself to you for is actually a sexual crime for another. You said no and he has to know that no means no.


By sexually harassing you and flashing you he has most definitely broken school rules for which you need to report him. You need to report him for two reasons; first this is the only way to get him to stop. Second: This will teach him and his friends that his actions are unacceptable. They are unacceptable now and they will be unacceptable in the future.


If he is not taught now that his actions are unacceptable. As an adult, if he were to continue with these type of actions, he could face very serious criminal penalties. The school will follow their rules for disciplining him for this type of behavior. At the very least his parents will be notified and he will be instructed to stop and to not harass you in any way in the future.


My advice is to tell your parents, teacher and school principal. Do not look at this as being some type of tattle tale for if his behavior is not correct now he will continue to do what he is doing and even grow boulder; to the point someone may get hurt. By reporting him now you will save him from himself and keep someone else from being hurt. These are good things.

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Cani have sex at 15?

The question should be can you or should you have sex at 15?

At 15 your body is physically capable of having sex, be you male or female. The problem is at 15 you are not mature enough to fully understand the consequences of your actions. In most every state in the U.S. you have not even reached the age of consent; which brings in some legal issues we won't go into as they may or may not apply.


At 15 years of age you should be just starting High School. Your High school years are some of the best years of your life. Do you really want to saddle yourself with a child at this time; for that is the ultimate consequence of having sex.


There is not a birth control method that is 100% effective in preventing pregnancy. There is no way to be 100% safe from an STD. These are two very good reasons for waiting until you are older and more capable of understanding and can take effective methods in the prevention of pregnancy and the contracting of STDs.


The fact that you have asked this question tells me you are not truly ready for sex. Don't let anyone force you to have sex before you are ready. Remember no means just that, NO. Anyone who doesn't respect that is not worth being with you.

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17/f 21/m

I dated this guy when I was 15 and got pregnant. I broke up with him when I was 4 months pregnant because he was very controlling, manipulative, emotionally abusive, intimidating...etc. He never hit me but he has left bruises on me because he grabbed my arms too hard. He got married, and I knew his wife before they started dating. He came to see the baby for 3 months, dipped for 8 months, came back, and now he hasnt seen her in a month or 2 'because of work'. He doesnt pay child support but I dont want to pursue it because I dont want him to get any kjnd of custody.

This week, he was arrested and I found out that he has been physically violent towards his wife the whole time. She sent me a picture of her black eye. She got a restraining order on him and she suggested I do the same. Now im terrified of him because he has anger towards me and I now know what hes capable of. I have a few questions:

-i really dont want him apart of my or my childs life because hes unstable and dangerous. Hes not on the birth certificate either. Is it wrong for me to cut off all contact from him and not let him see the baby?

-hes from peru and was not a citizen, but his wife is. Did that automatically make him a citizen? Or did he still have to apply? Because she wants to try to get him deported. (he already has a pretty large record)

Any other advice is welcome, thank you !

The first thing you need to do is see a lawyer. If you can't afford on contact legal aid.


A child's father has parental rights and obligations. While he does not have to act on his rights he is legally bound to his obligations to his child until that child is 18. There are both Federal and State laws to the effect of his obligations to his child.


If the child's father wants to see his child you cannot legally stop him or keep him from seeing his daughter. What you can do is make sure that when he does visit that your daughters safety is the top priority and that his visitation be supervised.


As to his legal obligation, this varies from state to state by how their laws are written. The Federal Law covers mostly the collection of child support payments.


By contacting a lawyer you can arrange for full legal custody of your daughter. At the moment you have what I would call custodial custody but not legal custody. If you boyfriend was to take your daughter and some how get her back to Peru you have nothing to prove you have legal custody.


You may not want child support from him and you may be able to waive that support in exchange for him giving up something he may want and be entitled too. This is what you need the lawyer for and what custody arrangements are all about.


The fact that he has been arrested, should I assume for domestic abuse, is in your favor. It takes the lawyers to get this all down in legal format and approved by a judge in order for you to safely and legally have custody of your daughter.


As to your boyfriends citizenship. If his arrest is a felony arrest and he is convicted his chances of becoming a citizen are greatly reduced. His marriage to a citizen do not in anyway help him become a citizen.


See a lawyer. Get the legal paperwork needed in place so you can relax and enjoy watching your daughter grow an prosper.

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I get my license next week. But, in order to get it I need 2 pieces of mail sent to my home with my name and address on it verifying that's where I live. I need a website where I can put my address in and them send me something, preferably just a brochure or something. I'd have a friend write a letter, but I just want to get it done quick and easy and not have to go out and get envelopes and all that. Thanks in advance. (:

You can go to any clothing website like lands end and request a catalog be sent to you. Problem is that this may take more than 2 weeks as most request are sent via lower class mail rates that delivery times can take up to 10 days or more.


You could just take 2 envelopes and address them to yourself, take them to the post office and mail them, All I think they want to see is that the Post office cancelled the stamp and delivered to the address shown. This should only, at worst take 2 days.


The reason for this is that many states, thanks to terrorism now want to see that the people they issued documents to are actually legal residents of the state. Mail delivered to that address is one way to verify this requirement.


I just thought of something. Today most schools verify addresses. Ask DMV if something from your school might satisfy their requirement.

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why does it burn when i pee?

Burning during urination usually indicates some type of Urinary track infection or possible STD. Whichever the case you need to see a doctor to have it treated.

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