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(Rating: 4) Thank you !
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(Rating: 3) i'd like to respond to this question with a: actuallyyyy her mother controlled the phones in the house for a long time. stealing working bits of the phone so she couldnt call anyone. her mother is also a master brainwasher if she can isolate you in the house, which she can do because the homes there are far and few between and she does not drive. i am well aware that you dont have to keep in touch everyday to be someones friend. im 27 and im grown so thank you but i can go months without talking t a friend but we always pick back up right where we started off as if no time had passed at all. i do not have juvenile friendships where i expect to stay in touch even WEEKLY. lol. im a married woman with a family to care for. if anyone should have more free time its my friend.
(Rating: 5) Thank you, this was very helpful. My parents are starting to come around, and I have been living as a man for the past several months, wearing men's clothes and using the men's bathroom. I'm definitely a lot happier now too. Thanks so much! =)
(Rating: 5) I cried and cried after reading your advice. I want to thank you so much for opening my eyes. Sometimes it just takes someone else to see if for you.
(Rating: 3) Thanks for the advice, it was useful! The only thing I would say is that I think you focused too much on the sex side of things. It was probably my fault for mentioning it (to me it was just another symptom of the problems we're having) but above all else we are best friends, and have always been very open and honest with each other and able to talk about and share everything. It wasn't a case of 'the sex is great, let's move in!'
(Rating: 4) In my understanding, cheating is a verbal act in as much as it is a physical act, just that maybe my definition of it in this scenario was not the best. In this age of social media, I tend to think that certain conversations create the opportunity for cheating to take place, say in my boyfriends case. He did confide in someone. No problem. I do that too alot. The potential to cheat comes about when: 1.One begins to feel like their partner does not meet their level of adventure and maybe there could be someone out there who can. 2.One begins to feel constrained by being 'held-down' in a relationship. I think of it like, why should I have to ask when I can be free and do it with whomever I want?
(Rating: 5) you make a great point! Thank you for the link. I really like how you described it as the lifeboat. That is exactly how I feel, but, I just didn't know how to describe it.
(Rating: 5) Helped a lot. And the age of consent is 16. I live in Ontario Canada
(Rating: 5) Thanks for your great advice. I really appreciate it and I feel better now knowing that I'm not a bad person if I quit trying with them. Thanks again.
(Rating: 5) Thanks. Sorry it took so long to get back to you. I really appreciate your help. Thank you so much.
(Rating: 5) Thank you for the response! It really was helpful!
(Rating: 5) Thank you for your time in answer my question.
(Rating: 5) Thank you, this is helpful!
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(Rating: 5) Well i think you're right I'm going to enjoy the crush because eventually it will go away :) Thank you and i will make sure all my showers are cold :D
(Rating: 5) The list thing really helps! Thank you!
(Rating: 4) Thank you or the advice although you assume his father doesn't know his father isn't my ex husband his father knows and just says let me no what they tell you that's it.
(Rating: 5) You hit so many points that I needed to hear. Thank you!
(Rating: 4) Thank you.
(Rating: 5) Thank you, it actually ended up not being an issue
(Rating: 5) Thank you for the wonderful advice!
(Rating: 4) I am 20 years old haha :) but thanks so much.
(Rating: 5) Wow you know a LOT about stuff! Thanks for all the advices!
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(Rating: 5) thank you for the great help, and not making me feel stupider than I already did! :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you for the easy to understand answer. I am afraid they will be mad at me if I call 911, but I will say something when I see the doctor for sure. Thank you again!
(Rating: 5) very straight up, thanks!
(Rating: 5) I'm sure you're right.. thank you.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much. Shes just waiting for her green card so thats why she cant work yet. I would feel so guilty leaving her homeless but I just feel unapreciated.
(Rating: 5) Due to me moving out of state I had to wait 6 months to file for divorce. I just filed last week and papers are drawn up I hired an attorney I filed child support but still hasn't even been processed
(Rating: 5) Thanks, I've been taking your advice and its going great. I really appreciate it and am glad that you pointed out those things about depression.
(Rating: 5) thank you!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so so much for all the information and advice. I highly appreciate it and it was very much needed. I also appreciate the support and not judging me. Thank you so much!
(Rating: 2) Hi, I appreciate your answer but she does not supply more than 50% of my maintenance and did not help me pay for books, tuition, or any of the sort.
(Rating: 2) The advice was interesting, but it wasn't my question... (I'm not saying I want to achieve orgasm, I want to feel aroused in general when being in bed with him)
(Rating: 5) Thanks! You are right!! Ill consult it with the eye doctor
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much. I will ask my lawyer. This is a difficult thing to go through.
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the advice. I have started looking for another job. You were very informative and nice about your answer. I've seen many answers on here that have a negative spin to them.
(Rating: 5) Thank you for such honest,caring advice. You totally understood my question and answered my doubts completely. I feel much better after reading what you said. Again, thank you so much.
(Rating: 5) She is bisexual and single, she told me herself. And I recently asked her and she has no plans for valentine's. I also wanted it to be more of a date thing but the age difference so...
(Rating: 5) Thank you. Really put some things into perspective!
(Rating: 5) Re reading my question I see I didn't phrase things well. Basically I am attracted to females. Every part of them. With guys, I think some guys are hot, (but there are lots of lesbians who can appreciate a hot male) and some guys personalities are really good too but it's rare to find a guy whose personality I really like. BUT I don't have an interest in having sex with them. I've done little things with guys and it doesnt feel good or right. But it sucks cuz the rare time I do find a guy who is attractive and has a great personality, I have to turn him down. And then I wonder if I just fear sex more in general or because I can't pursue sexual activities until a romantic aspect has happened
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(Rating: 4) Thank you :)
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(Rating: 5) thank you so much for the help <3
(Rating: 5) I always look forward to the advice you give to people :) perfect advice sir, just perfect but no I don't think it's that serious. Like I said, what he has to say doesn't affect me, he's a little shit. But yes, I should call him out on that lol anyways thank you for answering :) I always love to read what you have to say
(Rating: 3) Well, I appreciate the input and effort given here. But to be completely honest, it did a lot of explaining your method of hiring, and not very much of actually answering the question. What I actually gathered from this is, "Wearing slacks and a polo to an interview is an appropriate approach." Needless to say, not every day is an interview, and there are plenty of reasonable things to wear to an interview that aren't slacks and a polo. Thanks for the feedback though.
(Rating: 2) It was not over a month. I didnt know I was pregnant nor stress about it until I found out when I was 6 weeks pregnants.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for your wonderful advice. I've been thinking a lot about what everyone has said and you are all so right about everything. You made me feel so much better about school and about my life. Thank you again and God Bless you!
(Rating: 5) Thank you!
(Rating: 4) thank you!!
(Rating: 5) Yes, I guess this was what I was looking for, thank you :)
(Rating: 5) thank you. you are right!
(Rating: 5) Hello thank you for answeriing my question, the reason i put 15 male is because one of my freinds is a member on this site and i didnt want her to know it was me...i am 15 i havent changed my profile yet and i wanted to remain relativly anonymous because well...i didnt want the columnist on here to know it was me. thank you, your advice is always amazing
(Rating: 5) I'm not sure you understood what I meant by the question, but either way, you mentioned a point I haven't considered, so I thank you for that.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much. Your advice was perfect. I feel much better after reading it and I will remember and use all of it. Thanks again and God Bless!
(Rating: 5) Thank you!
(Rating: 5) that helps alot thanks! hope they are big someday! lol!
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the really good advice. You seem smart even if you don't believe 9/11 was an inside job but please do one thing to make yourself look as smart as you are "Alcada" isn't how it is spelled. I just don't want people to see that and think you are stupid or something. :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you SO much for the help!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for the wonderful advice. I'm sorry it took me so long to get back to you. I've been out of town and sick the past couple of weeks. I'm very glad that you answered my question. Your advice was perfect. Thanks again.
(Rating: 5) Thanks a lot for the info
(Rating: 5) I'm an older teen which is why I was embarressed to write my age ._. But thank you for your help :3
(Rating: 5) well right now im in graduate school working towards becoming a therapist. I dont make a lot of money now but I hope to be starting my career within the next year so maybe that will change. I have tried dating service but it hasn't really worked for me.
(Rating: 5) thanks, he is from the middle east. i purposely did not share that, because people tend to be judgmental in their responses. i think its a good idea for me to write them & for them to understand who i am, and that their son is being well taken care of. i hope it works out to..thank you
(Rating: 5) Thank you!
(Rating: 5) Thank you, I really appreciate your advice :)
(Rating: 5) Thank u so much for your concern. I m really obliged. But need to ask every body else.if any psychologist or doctor
(Rating: 5) This is extremely helpful, thanks so much! :)
(Rating: 5) THank you so much!! This was incredibly helpful.
(Rating: 1) Well i am not spending money on a doctor to hear what you already told me. I appreciate you honesty & advice. I rated your answer a one, because no one wants to hear that. Every single person in the worls young & old is bi-polar. Do not stop answering posts, as you have a gift..."i sincerely mean that."
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much!
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much!
(Rating: 5) That was an amazing answer...thank you so very much! I probably should see someone.
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much!
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much for the advice, I'll be sure to look into that test.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for your input. I appreciate it. Way less confusing.
(Rating: 5) Wow, I have been on this site for a while, but this definitely the best advice I have ever gotten. Thank you SO much!
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much!
(Rating: 5) You are awesome! Thank you so much for your advice!
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(Rating: 5) Thank you! :-)
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(Rating: 4) so u mean ill nt get preg??
(Rating: 5) Thanks, you made me feel a lot better. I will remember what you've said and I will ask my mom about counseling. I'm glad you answered my question. You sound like a great parent.
(Rating: 5) Thank you for the great advice! This was extremely helpful.
(Rating: 5) Thanks for answering my questions
(Rating: 4) THANK U SO MUCH.
(Rating: 5) YES I UNDERSTAND.
(Rating: 4) thnks.. ur advice is really helpful..
(Rating: 4) yes u r right. i told him all the truth about my past,that i was very tortured by my x bf. and thats why m telling lie to my present bf. but he doesn't hv faith and continuous making issues with my past and said so many bad words about my character and virginy. i really love him and want to be loyal with him.but i can't leave my study ri8 now!! he tell that he love me and trust me again if i prove that i m innocent and love him. i m very confused what to do !
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much! This was very helpful in decision making.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for your advice. Not that I'm glad for the misfortunes you've gone through, but it's just nice to hear someone can relate. Your phrases resonated with me a bit. I'll have to write them down on some note cards and place reminders around so I don't forget. I appreciate the time and advice you gave. Again, thanks so much.
(Rating: 5) I apologize for not putting on my question that he and I have talked about it and I have told him how I felt. He knows I am so lonely and always with our kids. I do love him, but there's no in love there if that makes any sense? Again thank you for your advice.
(Rating: 4) None of your beeswax is just something the girls at my school say... dont know why
(Rating: 5) Thanks for your advice. I realise now I didn't put enough info in the question. I work in a fast food restaurant, and the task is doing children's parties. I wasn't trained properly for the task, that's why I find it especially stressful (I literally showed up to work and was told "You are doing birthday parties today!" without any form of training, and then told "Don't worry you'll pick it up, its easy, ANYONE could do it." when I told them I didn't have training). I also had a terrible experience with an angry mother of the birthday child (she was angry that I made a mistake, due to no training, and even angrier that I'd never been trained). My manager at the time didn't provide me with any help and expected me to solve the problems provided by the customer without any correct training, support or experience. My work doesn't provide any support and is very unprofessional towards its employees. They hardly roster on enough people, expect one employee to do enough jobs for three different people, and don't care if you're stressed. The managers and bosses also react to things in unprofessional ways (e.g. cutting your shifts, talking about you to other employees and superiors, ignoring you and being rude to you at work, not giving you over time, etc.) I don't think there is any way for me to explain what the issue is to them, as it is mostly their fault. I obviously can't say that to them, so I guess I'll just keep refusing to do the task. I also think I need to find a new job! Another aspect is that I used to experience anxiety associated with social situations when I was younger. It has gone away now, but re-appears when I'm put on to do a child's party. I can't explain it because it is obviously irrational, like any anxiety or phobia. But the people at my workplace don't understand issues like this, and will treat me unfairly and talk behind my back (yes the managers will tell all the other employees about my weird anxiety and pick on me for it, I've seen similar things happen to others). Thanks again for your advice. I realise the issue is mostly related to my workplace rather than my assertiveness.


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