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advice(Rating: 5) Thanks :-) Ill make sure he does! :-)
(Rating: 2) Rating changed from a 1 by L2 moderator. You may not have found the advice useful but it is NOT harmful OR abusive. -------------------------------- First of all, I'd like to see you walk straight out the door in the middle of a heavy thunderstorm, when your car is on the opposite side of the building. I didn't choose for the self check out to only be on one side of the store, and for the few cashiers left at night to be busy. I can't recall ever having gone through a self check-out without one or more associates being present, either. Secondly, I explicitly said that the man explicitly made the claim I could have sneakily added extra items into my bag at the check out, and claimed that was his reason for checking me. If he had explained that it was just some routine thing, and had not outright accused me of doing something he wouldn't have been able to see, from across the long width of the store, it would have been different, and I would not be as bothered. And Wal-Mart commits too many offenses in general for me to care about its losses due to shoplifting, honestly. Wal-Mart can more than afford to pay their employees and factory workers a living wage, and heck, even further reduce their product prices. I'd shop at other stores more often if Wal-Mart hadn't driven them out of business.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for your awesome advice. It was perfect and I'll absolutely do as you've suggested. Thanks again!
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the advice. I broke up with her. She was texting someone that initially as a wrong number. Exchanging pictures and what not. So, Im guessing she probably was cheating all along.
(Rating: 5) I'm really nervous and this was really helpful. Thank you!
(Rating: 5) Thank you for your response it has inspired me. I've even shown it to my father with hopes that it would do the same but I have only seem to make things worse and there continues to be no understanding, my parents now think that I am forcing the issue because I am doing drugs :(
(Rating: 1) You did not give me any coping skills like I asked. The reason I asked for coping skills is because I cannot afford medication or professional help. I have no job and no source of income
(Rating: 5) Thank you for the advice. I don't want my parents to know about my possible depression, so I will speak to a therapist online. My parents already keep their eye on me too much because of my medical history. Thank you so much!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much. Time management is EXACTLY my issue and I don't know why that didn't occur to me before. I get so frustrated because it always seems like everything is there but one missing piece and I can't seem to figure out what it is. I think in many situations it's timing/planning issues that hold me back from reaching my full potential. I tend to think conceptually and sometimes "see with my mind" so to speak, rather than with my eyes. Planning and time management is something I need to work on.
(Rating: 5) Thanks! I'm not in the least bit shy though, but I would like to find myself. I know somewhere is the person I truly want to be, I just can't seem to pull it out of me :/
(Rating: 3) Thanks, but The self harm I usually do is use my fingernails to claw up my arms or legs when I get really irritated. A few years ago it was a little more than that, but I am happy many times, and usually every day, it's just a time just about every day I feel like my whole life is wasted and that it couldve been so much more and that I have to get away.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for the perfect advice. I appreciate it very much and you have made me feel so much better.
(Rating: 5) Thanks, that was wonderful advice. You're completely right and thank you so much for your help.
(Rating: 5) this is incredible. I absolutely loved the words that you used. I really like how you included that I appreciate what my parents have done for me, but that this is where we are right now. Thank you so much!
(Rating: 1) I'm not going to sue my father. He's a good father. You don't tell a kid who found out her father whom she clearly loves has another wife and a kid to sue him. I'm an emotional mess right now. Telling me to sue my father does not help in any way shape or form
(Rating: 5) Thank you. But he's also paying for private photos as well.
(Rating: 3) Thank you for the advice. I do appreciate it. I wanted out of the marriage so bad that I gave him everything and took all the debt. I needed out. Seeing a lawyer is too expensive but I will consider lowering my monthly payments.
(Rating: 5) Thank you for answering this. I really feel you saved my life since I was sitting here thinking about killing myself. Thank you for helping me!
(Rating: 5) Thanks. I talked to my music instructor and he's gonna have me do some exercises to make sure im holding my instruments the right way. I also talked to my parents and im going to see my chiropractor. My mom has had similar symptoms and hes really helped her.
(Rating: 4) Thanks for the advice btw I live in Canada so I'm legal age here
(Rating: 5) thank you so much! this was very informative and made me realize that what I need is to set boundaries, not hide from them. thank you
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much!
(Rating: 3) thank you so much. but he did know i was a 19 year old girl! but this made me feel so much better. thank you!
(Rating: 5) I did give him information on where I bank. I live in Canada by the way so it's one called BMO. The only thing he knows is that and that I've had my account for over a year. I will take all the other steps into consideration. Get an second opinion as well because indeed this is quite the situation. Thanks for your help
(Rating: 5) Thankyou this was the most helpful <3
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much. I definitely won't lie to her, I just hate letting my friends down. But thank you for helping me out!
(Rating: 1) So you don't accept questions in your inbox? I don't want you to reply to any of my questions again or I'll report you to the owner of this site for harassment. I'm serious
(Rating: 5) Thank u! U r right in assuming that I'm an only child. I was happy to see some advice from a mom! God bless you and your son. Xoxo
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much. It always helps to hear from someone who has been through something similar to what you've been through, or in this case, what my parents will be going through. Thanks again for the great advice and God Bless you for your help.
(Rating: 3) Photos of my friend.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much.
(Rating: 4) thanks a lot and by the way can I know your good name please.
(Rating: 5) I really appreciate the feedback, I honestly didn't know about alot of the things you mentioned, I am definitely looking into everything you told me. It is very appreciated. And thanks for being mature and not cracking Any jokes at the auto correct mistakes
(Rating: 5) Thank you. I'm looking at my legal options now.
(Rating: 5) Thank you! This definitely helped ease my mind.
(Rating: 5) Thanks for taking the time to read . I appreciate your honestly . It's nice to get an outsider's perspective
(Rating: 5) thanks for the advice i really appreciate your response i forgot to mention i asked my doctor and she said there no medicine that can control my constant bathroom issues
(Rating: 5) Thank you this really helped me
(Rating: 5) Thanks honey! Yes,he says he loves me,and has mentioned,all he does is look and doesnt intend of being with any of them,but solely me only,Still it hurts because my photos should be enough for him! Thanks dear one!!
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(Rating: 5) That really helped!
(Rating: 5) Thank you. I'm so glad that you responded because sometimes we feel like we are being selfish when we really aren't. Some things are for us and others aren't. Thank you again :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much. You're advice was perfect and I'll definitely take it.
(Rating: 5) Thank you for the great advice. I love your ideas and I really appreciate you taking the time to answer my question. I can't tell you how much you've helped me come up with the ideas and the confidence to write a good story.
(Rating: 5) Thank you for this wonderful piece of advice. :-)
(Rating: 5) Thank you. You were a big help. Thanks for the warning of what could happen if a drug addict goes to jail.
(Rating: 5) Wow,your words really melted my heart. Thank you <3
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much. I believe in my state, the mother is indeed the only one with a right to name the baby. I'd never realized that before.
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(Rating: 5) yes of course this is just synopsis of everything i believe there are too many details unless you would like to read a book :) Nonetheless, I appreciate a straightforward answer. I know at 24 I am considered an adult by right but in my dad's eyes since I still rely on him, I suppose I am not an adult. Thank you for taking time to read this and provide a solid answer
(Rating: 5) I will go to therapy and try it out, thank you so much for replying!
(Rating: 5) I am writing my list right now! I will get back to you if it works :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you
(Rating: 5) Thank you so, so much and God Bless you for your advice. I'm sorry it took so long to get back to you and I also apologize if having to give me advice brought back bad memories for you..I cannot tell you how much I appreciate your help.
(Rating: 5) I will try this and let you know how it works! Thank you :)
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(Rating: 3) Rating changed from a 1 by L2 mod...karen
(Rating: 4) I'm not sure if I recognized how much trust I put in him until this happened. I am angry because this makes me really insecure whereas before I knew what I had to offer, now not so much.
(Rating: 5) thank you :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for your advice! It means a lot that you took time out of your day to provide me with such an awesome answer (: Blessings, xoxo
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the info!
(Rating: 5) Thank you, there was no abuse, she lied about everything and I got in the middle of it. Lesson learned. :(
(Rating: 5) Good advice. Maybe I will let them try it next year! They will be a little more mature then. Thanks.
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(Rating: 5) Thank you for your answer and I have tried talking about it to multiple doctors and they all say I'm a "disturbed child" and I have talked to my dad it was and intentional homicide he planned the entire thing! He admitted all this to me last week when I went to visit him. I'm not suicidal and I'm not seeing a pycologist because my mom doesn't believe im that sick. But still thank you for caring enough to answer my question and seeing if I'm alright you are a truly kind hearted person! Thanks once again!
(Rating: 5) Thank you. I just wanted to see how to tell him that I am thankful but thats all there is.
(Rating: 5) Thanks! My thought exactly and yes the gift has already been bought :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you for finding this for me :) I'm glad I can talk with more like me, including online. Thanks again!
(Rating: 5) I understand people do not wake up gay. I am bisexual. I like women, my husband knows this, as far as the anal intercourse we tried it once months ago, he said he didn't like it, (obviously it feels different from vaginal sex) but a few days ago he attempted to do anal, I asked him last night why would he want to try something he said he didn't like and he said because we have lubrication this time. (I didn't tell him I thought he was lying) I nodded and said oh OK. I will test myself. For myself and my son. And no he doesn't look at gay porn. Its just a guy and women. I have looked in the browser and history. Nothing. I know everyone here is trying to help me, I have people saying he very well could be, and others saying I might be overlooking everything. I am stuck. I don't know what to do or say anymore. In the end I will get hurt anyway. Whether I stay or leave.
(Rating: 4) Hey, thank you for your input. I really appreciate it. I'll make sure to try that.
(Rating: 5) Thank you!
(Rating: 3) I do see some of your points but for me one hour out of my week to give them hope is stupid because of the fact they make fun of me because I don't beleived in their god. I am greatful for what my parents have done for me, but I would be more willing to participate in things that involve there religion of they respected mine. I don't disrespect there's and make fun of it.
(Rating: 5) even though i can't call the number you gave me beacuse am from way far from where you are and its really expencive thank you for the help anyways, i mean it!!!
(Rating: 5) Thank you for replying. I don’t have a primary care doctor. I did a walk in and saw a flyer about the annual physical. I figure I should do it since my mom was paying a lot of money for our insurance. It was a big clinic, with a lot of specialist and w/ MRI and radiology lab in the next floor, labs for other things are down the street. My mom went to it ten years ago. She said they were great and recommended them to me. They are all new people and doctors and have different schedules. She never asked me if I was comfortable with him being there, which didn’t sit right with me. I told the doctor I was having financial trouble and want to save as much as I can for hospital bills that I owe, but she disregard that too. I am so offended by this. I’m not going back to them ever again. I don't know about writing the complaint letter since my sister is going there too. I don't want them to treat her poorly b/c of me.
(Rating: 3) Thank you for your response. Her boyfriend has her cards with him, he manages her money. I don't want to overstep my boundaries with her and cause problems. From previous experience with her, I know that she would pick him over us and her kids no matter the situation. She might hurt us by not allowing us to see the kids like before. They just got the kids back from CS and we don't want to lose the kids again. My mom is trying to convince her to sign the kids over to us. She told me she allowed my sister and the kids to stay but not her boyfriend, that was the deal. My sister disregarded it now he is here and we are all upset. They are both 30+ and refuse to act like adults.
(Rating: 5) Thanks, I hadn't even thought about that. I'll take your advice.
(Rating: 5) I bought the vibrator and it is being shipped to me. I do live in a commune and is scared that I'll make embarrassing noises. Any advice how to discreetly masturbate?
(Rating: 5) Thanks for the help! You were correct! I double checked and still pregnant! Bout to tell Karens! Thanks again! :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for your response. I really do appreciate it.
(Rating: 5) Thank you!!! That was kind of my thought but I've never had the bleeding so you know where your mind jumps haha!!
(Rating: 5) Thanks you for responding. But they dont know her drug history. I mean if you seen her you wouldnt even think she was and she has been doing it for 20 + years. I just have a lot to think about and make an important decision
(Rating: 5) Thank you for answering my question so sweetly and non-judgmentally. I agree with everything you said. They don't need to be deal-breakers, but it is just important to acknowledge differences. We've talked a little bit about it but the issue is that he can't respect any of my opinions. And I think I will check out one of those centers that can find me a good roomate!!! God bless!
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(Rating: 4) Thanks it's not just that tho I mean he works 2nd shift if he gets mandatory he'll work a double. He'll come home tires I get that but daughter is having trouble adjusting to her own room she'll fall asleep in her bed wake up and come in our bed this morning he mumbles under his breath all morning until I finally get up
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much! I do have an anxiety med that does help calm my nerves,thank you!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much! And happy anniversary! My man loves God too,he just doesnt do what I do.I pray it all works out! Thanks again and you give good advice here!!
(Rating: 4) Thank you for giving me so much to think about. I know Mr.Wonderful probably isn't going to be so wonderful but I'd still like to meet him
(Rating: 5) Thank you. I'm planning to go to the non-urgent clinic today to have them look at it.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much, the example of your son has really given me food for thought. I really appreciate the time you have taken to reply to me x
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(Rating: 4) I see what you're saying and I respect it. However. She has not been engaged that long and they have no money. She is a very selfish person. I'm having a talk with her and demanding that they push it back. I've had to push my wedding back due to medical issues. Thanks anyway.
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(Rating: 5) You're completely right. We've had our differences, my dad and I, but I still love him and I should let him know by doing such a simple little gesture like calling him. Thanks for answering :)
(Rating: 5) Thanks!
(Rating: 5) Thank you for your well considered advice.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for your response. I truly appreciate from the bottom of my heart
(Rating: 5) I get your point. Problem is,where I live there are hardly any kinds of clubs. But I could try someone from college,there's bound to be someone with a common interest.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much for your advice, it truly helped and made me realize things I didn't see before. I'm still sitting on the fence, but you've made it a bit easier for me so I'll figure it out soon. I really appreciate the time you've taken to answer my questions, it's good to know there's still people out there willing to blindly help others(: