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Why does he do this?
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There's a guy in some of my classes that (since yesterday) wants to show me his penis to prove to me that it is longer than 3 inches.
LOL
You're probably thinking, wtf?, but there's a story behind this (it deserves a good explanation)
My school is an environmentally friendly school and we have a class that part of our grade is doing outside work, so i was working with him and two of my other friends and they were having a very sexual conversation (it was all guys that i was with, so you can see why. They're horny 13 year olds!) and he randomly asks me if i want to see his penis. And i laughed and said no. Then he said yes you do. and i said no i don't, and it kept going like that back and forth for a while. Then he starts to call my name and everytime i look but not down there just at his face, but one time he actually pulled his pants down! (only in the front, like as if he was about to pee, and i only knew that from the corner of my eye) Of course i didn't see it, but i knew that it was out.
And today he did it again in the same class and everything except this time he wanted to prove it to me that his "thing" was longer than 3 inches. (did i mention that on both days he had a boner? Yesterday it looked really short, like through the pants) so that's why he did it today, but what does this mean, does he like me, is he sexually attracted to me, or what because i asked my friends and they have no clue, just like me.
Please, feel free to anser my totally random question, please! I would be so... greatful for any answer/opinion/comment you have. I'll take anything.
Thank you for any answers in advance.
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Next time he gets that thing out kick him in the nads. That will put a stop to it. If it doesn't then dude has major issues that only intervention with a shrink can rectify.
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i think hes just messin with you
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What this kid is doing is totally wrong. It is called sexual harassment for one. His exposing himself to you for is actually a sexual crime for another. You said no and he has to know that no means no.
By sexually harassing you and flashing you he has most definitely broken school rules for which you need to report him. You need to report him for two reasons; first this is the only way to get him to stop. Second: This will teach him and his friends that his actions are unacceptable. They are unacceptable now and they will be unacceptable in the future.
If he is not taught now that his actions are unacceptable. As an adult, if he were to continue with these type of actions, he could face very serious criminal penalties. The school will follow their rules for disciplining him for this type of behavior. At the very least his parents will be notified and he will be instructed to stop and to not harass you in any way in the future.
My advice is to tell your parents, teacher and school principal. Do not look at this as being some type of tattle tale for if his behavior is not correct now he will continue to do what he is doing and even grow boulder; to the point someone may get hurt. By reporting him now you will save him from himself and keep someone else from being hurt. These are good things.
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I'm with Zane on this - this behavoir is very close to abusive. Does he like you? Maybe. Is he attracted to you? Maybe.
Is he using this situation, and your discomfort and confusion, as a turn on for himself? Is he getting of on it? Definitely yes.
And that's not okay. It wouldn't be okay if he were running around in a large overcoat in a public park exposing himself to strangers because he enjoyed it sexually - and it's not okay when he does it to you.
It's totally natural to be curious, but for your own sake (and safety) and as a learning experience for this guy, you need to tell him to stop. That it is sexual assault (it is.) and that if he does it again you'll tell a teacher. And then you need to follow through.
This is entirely inappropriate behavoir. If he doesn't get that, you need to help an adult explain that to him. If he were 10 years older this behavoir would get him fired from his job, beaten up at a club and arrested on the street. It's absolutely, 100% not okay.
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This "guy" is being totally inappropriate, Every horny little boy has raging hormones but believe it or not there is such thing as going to far and Mr. Peener here crossed that line more than once. My advise is to report him, Seeing he is doing this in public he could get in trouble for public exposure and if you don't report him you could also getting in trouble for not saying anything. Does he like you? I really can't tell you but from what it seems like all he wants is to get in your pants that's it. Even so, Would you really want to date someone that childish?
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