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best friends


Question Posted Saturday May 21 2011, 2:05 pm

Hey im the 16 year old girl from before. Thanks for that I didn't really look at it as I would be hurting her both ways. They are also soppose to be going to prom together this week. I know he is going to break up with her to go with this other girl to prom. Do you I would still be hurting her if I went to her and said "hey I know were not talking, and you don't like nor trust me that much right now.. but I still care about you as my best friend had there are a few people who aren't being very real with you right now.. so please just be careful about the person your beginning to like alot.. I just want you to be okay." And then I just left, I dnt want to force her to have a convo with me.. but im hoping if I go to her n tell her she will see that im still there for her. Im afraid if I don't tell her she will just think I wanted her to get hurt. She wont see it as me not wanting to get involved and make things worse.

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adviceman49 answered Saturday May 21 2011, 2:14 pm:
Like I said the best think you can do is not get involved. I know you want to protect her but I don't think she will see it that way regardless of your best intentions.


Just be there fore her as a friend when the hurt does come her way.


You know I have one other thought on this. You parents probably know this girl far better than I do. Why don't you talk with mom or dad about this. They will have a greater insight into her and you.

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