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Okays. Thanks I will try asking them. There is one more thing though. This past week, this guys friend asked me to prom. They are all going in one limo together. She found out about this yesterday. I havnt said yes or no to the guy. He wants to go as friends. I am wondering if I should go or not? Prom is a very big deal to her n she's been preparing for months now, just so its perfect. I don't want to go and ruin her night just because I am there.. prom isn't a big deal to me and I don't really care about going nor do I like the guy, he is just a friend. I wouldn't mind not going, like I said I just don't want to ruin her nite. I asked her if me going would bother her, n she got mad and like 3times I don't really care what the hell you do just go if you want, just don't mess up his night, I don't care. I have a feeling though that she does care a little bit and im wondering if maybe I should just let her have her special night? Like I said I really don't care about going at all I would be going just to go, plus I have my own prom next year.. everyone is telling me go n mess up her night don't be dumb here's your chance. But I feel doing that isn't right if I still want her as my friend, also I was always taught two wrongs don't make a right.. I have no clue what to do and I have to answer this guy soon..(mind you she will only be at prom if the guy dosnt break up with her before prom which is friday)
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Sorry for the delay; I can only spend so many hours in front of the computer before my eyes start to cross.
This is my thinking. Two wrongs do not make a right. At this late hour it would be wrong of you to tell this boy you are not going to go to the prom with him. He would probably not be able to find a date and would ended up either going dateless or miss his prom altogether. This is wrong. She said it, "just don't mess up his night." So go to the prom. just don't mess up her night as your friends are advising that too would be wrong.
As for going in one Limo together. She told you"just don't mess up his night" so she should understand why you are there. If she spends the night fretting about it, it is her problem not yours. Have good time and thank the boy for inviting you.
Once again I think this is something you should also discuss with your mother. I think she will agree with me that you should not worry so much about your friends feelings as to ruin the boys chances as to attend his prom.
Have fun and remember you are too young to drink so don't. You can have just more fun sober then you can drunk.
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