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we've been daten on and off lately. im 15 and he is 19 i know its illegal but we feel strong feelings for each other. and i owe him the chance of being with him since he is putting everything on the line for me. so my question is should i be with him or avoid a relationship? (link)
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Actually, so long as you don't have sex he won't get into trouble. If you should though, he could go to jail.
I don't think letting a guy go to jail for you would be a very good idea. So, if you think sex is something you won't be able to avoid then I wouldn't pursue the relationship right now.
If you think you can muddle through as a couple who abstains from sex until you are legal then it would be okay. With parents okay, of course. :)
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It is something you should discuss with him. If the temptation will be to great you could always date with other couples around until you become "legal". If you are both committed to making it work it can be done. You will just have to be tough and determined! :)
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Recently I tried out a phone chatline service and had a conversation with a supposed police officer. he seemed to be cool, not one of those all serious by the book type guys, rather laid back and open about alot of things. especially, his "freaky-type" ecapades. here recently alittle too open. in a conversation this morning, quite early I might add. the phone rings and it's the police officer, expressing his desires to be intimate with another male. not wanting to scare me off, he put what he wanted to share with me in the form of a question. like "you might not approve of what I did this weekend with this young guy still in high school whose build was simply too desireable to pass up." I encouraged him to divulge more information. he went on to say that the guy was kind of hestitant at first. but later relaxed and enjoyed the experience. his plan is to see the guy again this weekend saying he was going buy the young guy a few things. I was shocked. the policeman even shared with me his interest in another young guy. but, because this one is 14 he may wait awile. what if anything can I do? I'm in Mississippi and the police officer is in Lousiana. he also shared when he was younger his male cousins raped him. after which he came to enjoy the feeling, and because the guys he messes with are so young he uses no protection. I really don't know what to do, this is a law officer whose duty is to protect and serve surly he knows the consequences of his actions, or maybe he's abusing his authority. (link)
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He isn't a police officer. He has told you that because if he said "hey I'm a pedophile, trust me", you wouldn't have.
You might just trust a police officer though.
If for some odd reason he IS an officer...hes a stupid one.
You tell your parents, you tell the police. It is YOU he is interested in, hes just trying to see how you react to what he tells you.
NEVER give a stranger your phone number. I don't care who they claim to be. If you gave him any more info, you make sure your parents and the police know this.
Go tell now. Do not put it off!
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i asked a question a little while ago about if i should go in to work or not, when i have a paper due for school. i wound up calling my boss & saying that i can work friday if i don't have to work saturday, which she was okay with. however when i got off the phone my sister told me (she was being serious) that what i said sounded retarted. she said i was like "i um have an apointment with my mom um i mean i have an apointment and i can only work friday if she can change, i mean if my mom can change the apointment to saturday, so i wouldn't be able to work then." obviously saying i have an apointment with my mom souds reatarted & now i am embaressed. if by any chance they want to know what apointment it was, what do i say? i don't make apointments with my mom. i also feel embaressed that i almost sounded like i was stuttering (& lying, perhaps) when i told her this. what should i do?!?! (link)
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I don't think they will ask about it. They are much to relieved to have Friday covered and an extra day to find someone if they need to have someone cover Saturday.
They will simply think you were nervous. :)
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i have a thesis paper due on tuesday that i really need to work on and alot of other work to do this weekend. i was planning on doing it friday night. i just got a call from my work, & they are wondeing if i can work on friday b/c there was a "mix-up" on the schedual & neither of the other 2 girls can work. i really don't know if i should...i know it's not my responibility because i wasn't the one orignally on the schedual (the other 2 girls had the mix up) but i would feel bad/guilty telling them i can't. when my boss called i by accidently said "i need to see how much of my paper i can get done today" but I WILL NOT GET ANY OF IT DONE and now she know's i don't have any other excuse. WHAT DO I DO? should i work? if not, what can i tell her? (link)
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If you don't think you will be able to finish your thesis or other school work if you work on Friday, then don't work.
Just tell your boss you are overwhelmed with school work at the moment, that any other time you would have been glad to help, just can't do it this time. :)
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I have to do a report on leprosy for one of my classes, but i can't seem to find anything on:
-How you can get the disease
-If the disease is communicable
-If it is caused by a birth defect or heredity
-And if it can be prevented and how
I found everything else, so if you can find ANY of these things, *not necessarily all of them* I would be glad to give you a 5. Your help is greatly appreciated. (link)
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I think you will find almost everything you need on this site. :)
http://www.wrongdiagnosis.com/l/leprosy/intro.htm
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Hey everyone, I need help - FAST ! Please just read my situation and try to help me I'm in deep trouble I think.
Okay, so after school today my boyfriendwas at baseball practice and he had to get something from his locker, and kissed me goodbye and at the time I was looking in his bookbag for his cellphone. Then he left and I was looking at pictures and then my friend came and was like "You should see his texts they're dirty." So I was like okay so we saw a girl's texts to him, lets call her Ashley. The texts weren't that bad but they were like 'I wanna hump you' and stuff like that. So my friend said "Wouldn't it be funny if we told Ashley off?" I was like "No it's not our phone." So my friend said "yeah okay whatever." She wrote "ur a whore" and then she had to go but I said "Don't you think we should at least delete the message so that he (my bf) doesn't see it ?" She said "No because then we have evidence that he sent it ." At the time I was not thinking at all and thought that it would work . But now I realize that obviously he's going to know that he didn't send it.
Well, here it gets worse. He called my other friend that is a guy, let's call him Trevor. Well my boyfriend called Trevor and told him how he thinks I told Ashley that she is a whore. Then Trevor called me and made me confess that it was my friend and it turns out my boyfriend was on the phone listening to mine and Trevor's conversation. At least my boyfriend knows the truth, but I dont think he believes me because while I was in the shower he sent me an IM that what I did was a bitchy thing to do.
The problem is, I didn't write the text ! I mean I know I probably should have stopped her but I went along with it. Now my boyfriend is PISSED at me. What can I do?
I'll rate 5's for anything (link)
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You have already confessed to being there when it happened. There isn't much else you can do but apologize.
How did your girlfriend know there were texts that were "dirty" on YOUR boyfriends phone? I think you may need to talk to her about it. She had no business messing with his phone.
You also need to find out who Ashley is ( if you don't know already) and find out why shes sending your boyfriend those kinds of messages.
Good luck. :)
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is a pap smear painful? and what exactly does the doctor do?
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This site will answer all your questions. It is a good site to find all sorts of info, so look around a bit when you're there. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/pelvic_exams.htm
Oh, and it may be a bit uncomfortable, but they don't hurt.
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A lot has happened to me: parents have cancer, getting a divorce, was rapped (twice), have depression do drugs, smoke and i told my friend alex and he can relate (depression and sorda my supplier) and i told my BEST FRIEND allie and one more person cuz she said she new ppl who are on drugs and i needed some more..and she told.a bunch of people AND the school councilor alex tells me she was trying to help but ive been getting a lot of questioning lately and i hate it.but then again, i wanted an adult to know, but i dunno if i should be mad at her i mean i AM REALLY PISSED!!!!! but still..PLEASE HELP ME!!!!
much love.. (link)
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You can be pissed all day but don't be mad at one who seems to be one of the best friends you have.
She is only tying to save you. Because she is your friend and wants you to be around a while.
Take help wherever you can get it. Sounds like you need it. Talk to the counselor...get your life back on track. :)
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My mommy told me that she used cocoa butter (palmers) wen having me and my bro and that it didn't leave any visible stretch marks and yeah she doesn't have any 4 real.
So I'm FAAT...harsh but tru. So I have these stretch marks on my breast and my stomach. I'm losing the weight...SLOWLY. So I bought the cocoa butter and I used it jus now so I was wondering..do they fade the marks or make them disappear? And how long will it take?
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stretch marks will sometimes fade or disappear over time. Not always though.
Here is a web site that will help you out with them. :)
http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_body/skin_stuff/stretch_marks.html
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What is anemia? My friend said that when you get it you have it for the rest of your life or something? Is that true? What happens when you get it? Ill rate 5s. (link)
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There are as many answers to that as there are types of anemia. Really there are many.
Here is a web site. If you have a particular kind in mind you will find it here. :)
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/000560.htm
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ok this is juss a curious question about my friend.
they were messing around, she was totally clothed & there was sperm near her, barely on her, but the thing is since she was totally clothed, nothing would've gone through right?? she said she even had a pad on, cause obviously she had her period.
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Not to worry. She isn't pregnant or anything.
If no sperm enters her vagina, she is fine. Nothing went through to any place that mattered. :)
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Hello I'm going to the beach and i have a question i want to skip my period and i don't know if thats possible i'm not on birthcontrol pills so i don't know if there is anyway can you help thanks (link)
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Sorry to say that you can't stop your period.
Sure would be nice if we could! :)
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okay so i couple days ago i had sex for the first time. and it wasn't technically "sex" i mean it was because he was in me but only for like 2 or 3 minutes. and he didn't cum in me or even after at all. we didnt use a condom but he didnt cum or anything and he knows for sure. and i am supposed to get my period in 2 weeks and today i had a really big sticky like thing of discharge in my underwear does this mean that i am going to get my period or what exactly was it i have seen it before but this time it was a lot. (link)
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Never ever assume that a young teenage boy did not "do anything". It takes them no time at all and they have very little control...even if they'd like you to believe they do. Trusting in that line of thinking is very dangerous for girls!
I hope it means your period is on the way. If it is something that usually happens then probably so. If you don't get it by the first part of may, take a home pregnancy test.
I sure don't want to scare you. But honestly, young men do not have the control it takes not to ejaculate on demand. :)
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OK, so I have this friend Jassy. And she is making a huge mistake. She met a guy over the internet and started dating him. He, of course, lives on the other side of the country. And, being the idiot she has always been, is meeting with him over the summer. Now, if you are willing to travel 3,000 miles across country like he is, you are not 14 like he says he is.
Therefore, my friend, Jessica, and I are trying to convince her not to meet him. Jassy thinks she's safe and can trust him but she can't. Jessica felt the same about her neighbor and he molested her. Her neighbor is someone she's always known. Imagine what someone my friend doesn;t even know could do to her. Jassy keeps saying it can't happen to her. She's just being so ignorant!! What should I do? She can get extremely hurt. Sorry this is long, but my friend is putting herself in danger! (link)
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Tell her parents!
Yes she will get very angry. You though will know that you kept her from possibly being killed by an online predator.
You are very right in your thinking that a 14 year can't just up and travel 3,000 miles to visit someone they met online. What explanation is she using for that one?
You would be doing the right thing to tell her parents. Your friend is much to trusting. :)
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I don't usually confront boys about how they feel about me. i've known this one boy for about 3 weeks, and we've talked every single day and before it used to be like we were rushing to talk to each other. we had amazing conversations.
this week, there has been a decline. i can tell that we both don't really put our all into conversations, that there are bigger priorities in terms of people to talk to. so i called him, and asked him what he thought we were, just friends?
he told me "yeah.. we're just friends.. but whatever happens..happens.." "of course we'll be friends, but down the line, i don't know."
what is that supposed to mean? can you break it down for me, because when it happens to me i have such a hard time understanding exactly what he means by that! (link)
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He considers you friends for now.
But, he doesn't rule out the possibilities that in the future you may be more than friends.
The opposite could also be true...you might not be friends forever, but I think he probably means it could be more than friends someday...whatever happens, happens. :)
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ok so this guy asked me out. and i dont know if i like him or not. he is really nice and cool and i dont want to hurt his feelings by saying no. but i dont know if i like him!
i dont really know him. i only hung out with him once. im so confused. i dont know what to do!!!!!!
PLEASE HELP!!! ill rate 5's for anything. (link)
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You go out with him and see if you like him.
If you don't then you don't go out with him any more.
Of course, there is also nothing wrong with saying that you would like to get to know him better first. :)
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im 16/female and i have diabetes type 1, ive had it since grade 2 and im still living. I need to know if anyone else who has this disease can help me. I want to know what would happen if my nondiabetic friends took insulin(what i use)and what would happen if i did pot. Thanks (link)
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If your friends used your insulin they could go into a diabetic coma. Letting them use it would also make you liable. Don't do it.
As far as marijuana use goes. According to this article, other than possibly making bad food choices, it would have no effects on a diabetic that others don't have.
http://www.diabetesmonitor.com/mj.htm
Not that you should smoke it. It is still illegal and you can be arrested for using it. :)
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What are those white squishy plastic things used for packaging called? I think they're styrofoam. Do they even have a name? I need it for a paper...
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They are called packing peanuts. :)
http://www.postalsupplies.com/packpeanuts.html
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i was talking to this guy via email about work...
as usual.and he replied efficiently.
Then one day, i asked him whom does he normally goes out lunch with (tru office email) and suddenly he just went totally shy and stopped replying my mails.
What is wrong with him? He's been avoiding me since that day..
I hardly know him.
Is he gay? (link)
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You scared him for some reason. I don't know that it means hes gay though.
He could be married or in a long term relationship of some sort. Maybe he just doesn't date at work. Is their a policy against it? A lot of places have some sort of rules against intra-office dating.
The only way to find out why is just to ask him. It could be he is just shy. If you really want to pursue the friendship, ask him to lunch straight out and see what he has to say. :)
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What is the difference between a moonroof and sunroof?
I need very good details. (link)
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What a good question.
I don't know what kind of details you'd want.
A sun roof is basically a window in the roof of a car. The glass slides open and shut. If you've ever seen people hanging out the top of a limo...that's a sun roof.
A moon roof is like a window too. The difference is it doesn't move or open.
Hope that helped you a little. :)
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