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What does it mean when he says "whatever happens happens"
I don't usually confront boys about how they feel about me. i've known this one boy for about 3 weeks, and we've talked every single day and before it used to be like we were rushing to talk to each other. we had amazing conversations.
this week, there has been a decline. i can tell that we both don't really put our all into conversations, that there are bigger priorities in terms of people to talk to. so i called him, and asked him what he thought we were, just friends?
he told me "yeah.. we're just friends.. but whatever happens..happens.." "of course we'll be friends, but down the line, i don't know."
what is that supposed to mean? can you break it down for me, because when it happens to me i have such a hard time understanding exactly what he means by that!
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I'm pretty sure that he wants a little more than to be just friends. If he just wanted to be friends then he wouldn't of said whatever happens happens and he doesn't know what will happen down the line. I think he wants for to happen, but he's just not ready to take the leap of asking you out. Just focus on being his friend and maybe drop a few hints that you like him so that when he gets the courage to ask you out he won't be afraid for you to say no. Hope i helped. Bye bye
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It's really self explanatory...whatever happens down the line...happens. It means wait it out don't rush into anything. He obviously doesn't know what to do yet...if you rush into things, your relationship is most likely goin to turn out bad...like you said there will be a decline after a few weeks
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Boys are very hard to understand. But..what he means is that he is your friend, but if you want to take our relationship further, then that is fine with me. You don't have to have a GREATTT conversation with the same person everrrry day. But, if you do that is good. If you don't, thats fine too. There will be off days and maybe he just wants to give you a little space. I say, go for him!
♥ Kendall
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normally when a guy says that he means that he considers you a friend for now but he isnt going to say that you cant be more than that but there is other options for him and he isnt going to commit time to you and make you a priority but if something happens between the two of you at some point... thats fine with him. some guys say that and mean though that they dont want to commit to you but if something happens there more than willing to go with it... but they dont want to date... (sorta like friends with benifits but the benifits arnt garenteed to you or him like he doesnt care. its all him floating up stream for him... as long as it doesnt hurt him its all good.) so it could be either or a little of both... but then agian he could be one of those realllly shy guys that just likes you and is to shy to say it so he hid it by saying that... which do you think it is? i dont really know the guy so i cant say for sure which of the 3 it is but since you know him your gonna have to think of the tone he said it in and how it sounded and which one it is. but thats what it means. :)
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he's saying that right now you're just friends, but the more you get to know each other and the more you hang out, then maybe in the future you guys will be more than just friends.
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He considers you friends for now.
But, he doesn't rule out the possibilities that in the future you may be more than friends.
The opposite could also be true...you might not be friends forever, but I think he probably means it could be more than friends someday...whatever happens, happens. :)
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