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wat should i do?
ok so this guy asked me out. and i dont know if i like him or not. he is really nice and cool and i dont want to hurt his feelings by saying no. but i dont know if i like him!
i dont really know him. i only hung out with him once. im so confused. i dont know what to do!!!!!!
PLEASE HELP!!! ill rate 5's for anything.
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Ok, first, chill. It's not the end of the world if it turns out you don't like him.
You've only hung out with him once and he asked you out, that's called a date. Since he doesn't know you either i doubt that he'll be heartbroken if you don't like him, even though rejection stings in any form.
So here's what you do:
You go on the date, talk to him, relax, there's really no pressure on you, it's just a date, it doesn't make you a couple or anything.
By dating him, you'll get to know him better, and by doing that you'll find out if you like him or not.
CHILL
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Go out with him. What are you going to lose? By going out you can get to know him and if you dont like him then it wouldnt be such a shocker if you guys brake up, atleast you gave it a try. If you dont want to out with him tell him you barely know him and that you want to get to know him before or if you guys go out. good luck ;)
-beckss
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Go out with him anyway. You got nothing to lose and you may find out you like him. If you don't, well then at least you gave him a chance.
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ok well mabey say something like i dont really know you that well but i'd love to hang out with you sometime, dont go to a movie because you cant really talk mabey go to the mall or something like that. then after you feel like you know him well enough then mabey ask him if he still wants to go out with you. and if he dosent then mabey you could stay just friends. hope it helps.
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ok, dating him after only hanging out with him once, might be 'too soon'. I think that you two should hang out by yourselves and then eventually the two of you go out with friends and see how he interacts with your friends. By hanging out with him and having alone time, you'll see if you really like him. Then maybe you'll make up your mind on whether or not you want to date him. Just tell him that you would like to hang out with him for now and get to know him. and if something happens between the two of you, you're all for it. And if nothing happens, then you guys can be friends.
i hope i helped!
~4evaurs_21~
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id tell him that your not sure since you dont know him and you want to give it a week or two and get to know him a little better then youll give him an answer.
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I think that you should go out with him. Tell him that you are not making a big commitment, and to not be surprised if things don't work out. You've only hung out with him once, but at least that's something. Make sure you talk with him a lot and hang out a lot and get to know each other a lot more.
♥ Kendall
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i think you should go out with him because once you are going out you can get to know him more and hang out more and you have a reason to. then you can get to know him better and maybe like him better. hope i helped =] ..molly
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if you go out with him you can get to know him.
he might just be the greatest guy in the world, and you wouldnt even know unless you gave him a chance. you said yourself he's really nice and cool, so what could it hurt? give him a little time and if you decide you dont like him, just tell him its not gonna work out, he should understand.
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The point to go out with him is to know him more. I think you should...you might realise you relly like him!
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You go out with him and see if you like him.
If you don't then you don't go out with him any more.
Of course, there is also nothing wrong with saying that you would like to get to know him better first. :)
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