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okay so i couple days ago i had sex for the first time. and it wasn't technically "sex" i mean it was because he was in me but only for like 2 or 3 minutes. and he didn't cum in me or even after at all. we didnt use a condom but he didnt cum or anything and he knows for sure. and i am supposed to get my period in 2 weeks and today i had a really big sticky like thing of discharge in my underwear does this mean that i am going to get my period or what exactly was it i have seen it before but this time it was a lot.
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The discharge is probably nothing to worry about as sometimes this is just something that happens.
However, I can assure you that as long as he was inside you, it was sex. Neither of you has to climax for it qualify as intercourse.
You should never ever have sex without protection unless you have been together for a LONG time, know for sure that neither of you is carrying an STI or STD and you are trying for a baby. No matter how long he was in you, sperm would still have been being produced.
When a man becomes aroused, he (to put it nicely) leaks. This 'leakage' is sperm that escapes before he climaxes and as long as he is aroused, this sperm can leak out at any time. So regardless of whether he climaxed inside you, you can still get pregnant.
So there are two things you need to do. You first of all need to begin using condoms and I would recommend you also speak to your doctor about going on the Pill. Using both at the same time is the best way to protect yourself against infection, disease and pregnancy. Condoms can still split and are less effective than the Pill. If you take the Pill as well, you know you are truly safe. It is what they call going 'Double Dutch' in Holland.
You also need to get yourself a pregnancy test. The best ones normally work from 4 days before your period is due so I would recommend you do this.
Please try to remember that although sex may be enjoyable, there will ALWAYS be consequences you may have to deal with when you have sex and you need to prepare as best as you can againt these.
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Thats technically sex..Maybe not you but it is sweetie..
Also because he says he didn`t cum doesn`t mean he didn`t pre-cum..Alot of guys don`t know they do that && it can also have semen in it..
You having discharge is normal..
If you don`t get your period on time it could be that having sex effected your cycle so you might want to get a pregnancy test to make sure..
♥Dez
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Firstly, yes technically it was sex.
Secondly, guys do no when they come or not, despite what those other chics say.
Thirdly, He may have been bull shitting you though. He may have come and told you that he didn't so you wouldn't worry so much. and there is no way telling if he came or not, you can't tell. Only he can. (I a talking if he comes inside you, cause if it is otherwise, you can see = =
That discharge stuff you would have to listen to other advicenators advice on that, I don't know.
and just a tip; YOU are wacked! That is biologically the worse time to have sex. But that is when you feel hottest right?
If you ever have sex again without a condom, never do it again two weeks before your period.
the safest time is three weeks before your period. YOu won't feel hot, but there is no way of getting pregnant on that day.
Good Luck,
Cj
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some guys can't even tell when they do or not so never ever trust that i recomend if you do that again please at least wear a condom. you probably arent pregnant but there could be a chance but very low. but the discharge is probably just coming bigger and more since you just expanded your hole from having sex so its easier to come down. but that probably means that your gonna get your period soon. if you dont get it in the time or maybe a week later i recomend you get a pregnancy test also. hope everything is alright <3
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Not to scare you, but that is still technically "sex", and he may have ejaculated. Many guys can't prevent themselves from ejaculating, and it doesn't take ver long. Even if they don't, there is still pre-cum which does contain semen. I don't know if you're going to get your period, but stressing can cause you not to, so just calm down. Don't worry about pregnancy until you see more symptoms than this.
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Never ever assume that a young teenage boy did not "do anything". It takes them no time at all and they have very little control...even if they'd like you to believe they do. Trusting in that line of thinking is very dangerous for girls!
I hope it means your period is on the way. If it is something that usually happens then probably so. If you don't get it by the first part of may, take a home pregnancy test.
I sure don't want to scare you. But honestly, young men do not have the control it takes not to ejaculate on demand. :)
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