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A possible pedofile


Question Posted Thursday April 6 2006, 4:11 pm

Recently I tried out a phone chatline service and had a conversation with a supposed police officer. he seemed to be cool, not one of those all serious by the book type guys, rather laid back and open about alot of things. especially, his "freaky-type" ecapades. here recently alittle too open. in a conversation this morning, quite early I might add. the phone rings and it's the police officer, expressing his desires to be intimate with another male. not wanting to scare me off, he put what he wanted to share with me in the form of a question. like "you might not approve of what I did this weekend with this young guy still in high school whose build was simply too desireable to pass up." I encouraged him to divulge more information. he went on to say that the guy was kind of hestitant at first. but later relaxed and enjoyed the experience. his plan is to see the guy again this weekend saying he was going buy the young guy a few things. I was shocked. the policeman even shared with me his interest in another young guy. but, because this one is 14 he may wait awile. what if anything can I do? I'm in Mississippi and the police officer is in Lousiana. he also shared when he was younger his male cousins raped him. after which he came to enjoy the feeling, and because the guys he messes with are so young he uses no protection. I really don't know what to do, this is a law officer whose duty is to protect and serve surly he knows the consequences of his actions, or maybe he's abusing his authority.

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Additional info, added Thursday April 6 2006, 4:37 pm:
I forgot to mention that I'm a female over the age of 21. that's why it's disturbing why this man would be so open to sharing such detramental information to me..

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Nallie answered Thursday April 6 2006, 11:52 pm:
I wouldn't believe for a minute that this man is a police officer. Not that an officer wouldn't do anything immoral or illegal because it happens. However if he were honestly a police officer he most likely wouldn't tell anyone about his illegal activities.

It's not your job to determine what he is or isn't, but it is your job to report the information to your local police. You may be saving the life of a vulnerable young boy who fell into his trap. If he has your number, he can find your address so of course you want to be on alert.

The police will know best how to investigate and they may need you to help gather evidence by way of numbers, conversations etc.

If he calls you again before you talk to the police don't give him any hints that you are on to him or he might skip town or even worse.

As far as why he is sharing the information, some pedofiles especially ones who choose teenagers are also narcisstic or antisocial and think their behavior is acceptable. They tell people who they believe are not a threat..it's like bragging and it's part of the whole sexual game. They think the boys or "children" asked for it or want it. YUCK what a perv!

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storageanddisposal answered Thursday April 6 2006, 5:08 pm:
It's apparent to me that a lot of freaky people go on a lot of phone chatlines. I would stop answering this guy's phone calls. Do you have any information on this guy aside from his apparent pedophile escapades and his claims of being a cop? If not, then I would just end communication with this guy. There's not much you can do if you aren't sure who he really is. This guy is disturbed, why would you want to continue to talk to him anyway?

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UHOHxOMFG answered Thursday April 6 2006, 4:51 pm:
i would definitly tell the police in your state. just tell them all the stuff that you just said and give them his cell phone number so they can look into it. they will deff do something. but if i were you i would just stop talking to him. ignor his calls. dont call him. you know that stuff. just be careful. hope i helped <3

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daniknos answered Thursday April 6 2006, 4:32 pm:
I would speak up and tell some one with some athority. even if had been treated like that its not right for children to young to deal with that.

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karenR answered Thursday April 6 2006, 4:28 pm:
He isn't a police officer. He has told you that because if he said "hey I'm a pedophile, trust me", you wouldn't have.

You might just trust a police officer though.

If for some odd reason he IS an officer...hes a stupid one.

You tell your parents, you tell the police. It is YOU he is interested in, hes just trying to see how you react to what he tells you.

NEVER give a stranger your phone number. I don't care who they claim to be. If you gave him any more info, you make sure your parents and the police know this.

Go tell now. Do not put it off!

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