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She's going to get herself raped!
OK, so I have this friend Jassy. And she is making a huge mistake. She met a guy over the internet and started dating him. He, of course, lives on the other side of the country. And, being the idiot she has always been, is meeting with him over the summer. Now, if you are willing to travel 3,000 miles across country like he is, you are not 14 like he says he is.
Therefore, my friend, Jessica, and I are trying to convince her not to meet him. Jassy thinks she's safe and can trust him but she can't. Jessica felt the same about her neighbor and he molested her. Her neighbor is someone she's always known. Imagine what someone my friend doesn;t even know could do to her. Jassy keeps saying it can't happen to her. She's just being so ignorant!! What should I do? She can get extremely hurt. Sorry this is long, but my friend is putting herself in danger!
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your friend is putting herself in danger you should sit down and talk to her and if she gets mad and still doesnt believe you go to your number one advice colomnust your mom she could sit down and have a chat with her and her mom. and straighten things out there is lots of things that could be happening if you dont do anything your friend could come home preagnet.he could rape her .i dont know if she ever had sex before but if she hasent mabeey thats why she wants to meet him so bad .your her best friend you need to protect her .for all she knows she could be dating a 40 yr old pervert.
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First of all... how can you be "dating" anyone over a computer screen? It's so easy to think someone is wonderful because they typed something meaningful to you. Most of the time the fabulous person on the other end is just some pervert/pedophile looking for sex with a child.
You need to show her the facts and statistics and horror stories about that kind of thing. Why else would a guy be interested in a kid 3000 miles away? Come On - Wake her UP!
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Talk to her and let her no your there for her and if she still carries on and don't believe you then make sure she doesnt go alone!!
Tell her what a big mistake shes making and wat the consciencequences can be...
Good Luck
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Tell her parents. She's putting herself in so much danger.
She might be mad at you for a while, but you're saving her from being possibly raped and/or killed from an online predator.
Good luck!
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definitly be there for her. no matter what. if you are to scared to talk to her parents then tell your parents and they will for sure do something about it. a good way to get them to stop talking to to block him from her buddylist and delete his screen name when she isnt around. make sure you delete it though because she could scoll down to see who is offline and see he is blocked. if none of that works then in the summer find out when they are supposed to meet and be prepared like having yours and her family around without her knowing incase something happens. he definitly isnt a 14 year old if he is going to travel that far. hope everything is okay and works out. what ever you do just stick by her side as much as you can. <3
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invite her somewhere for the whol summer
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TELL HER PARENTS! TELL A COUNSELOR! TELL SOMEBODY, honestly if you care for your friend you would do it! NO MATTER WHAT, don't think twice about her safety becuase she might get rpaed an then you will regret not telling anybody.
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Tell her parents!
Yes she will get very angry. You though will know that you kept her from possibly being killed by an online predator.
You are very right in your thinking that a 14 year can't just up and travel 3,000 miles to visit someone they met online. What explanation is she using for that one?
You would be doing the right thing to tell her parents. Your friend is much to trusting. :)
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