about

:.Hey x3
My name is Emily and blah blah blah.


:.I have a lot of personal, family, and friend issues of my own so a lot of times, I can probably relate to you a lot of times if you have personal, family, and/or friend issues.


:.I can offer a lot of information, help, and advice on family and friend relationships, love lives, depression, stretching/flexibility, weight loss, violin, being organized, dog training, forensics (public speaking), keeping up with school/extracurricular activities, eating disorders, writing (stories and poems), and probably a lot of other random stuff like what to drink when you eat something spicy and why.


:.Although I can help a lot of you guys on the above subjects, I don't tend to take my own advice so it can become quite an awkward/ironic/contradicting situation for me or make myself sound like a complete and utter hypocrite.


:.Hannah Whitall Smith once said, "The true secret of giving advice is, after you have honestly given it, to be perfectly indifferent whether it is taken or not, and never persist in trying to set people right." I agree 100% of it. Advice is advice and it is given when asked for. I give it and I leave it at that. It's up to the questioner/advice seeker to take it.


:.That point leads onto my philosophies in advice giving:
1. Advice is given when asked and no time else, unless your friend is about to irritate a black bear, then you should definitely advice your friend to back away and run for his or her life.
2. Advice is not critical, not judgmental, and definitely not biased. Advice is advice and should remain neutral.
3. Advice is to help, not to get 5s on every answer. As a result, my advice ends up being quite blunt and frank with a hint of rambling mixed in.

If you have general questions on the topics I can be a lot of help in (as listed above), most likely, they will be in my FORUM

If it is not, you can inbox me to request me to put it up.

:.If you want to ask me a question directly...
a)if it is not urgent and can wait a week or so, inbox me.
b)if it is an urgent question such as "I'm being eaten by a shark! What do I do???" first of all, I'm quite amazed that you can type while being eaten and second of all, e-mail me at cancel.life@gmail.com. I will answer you by midnight of that day (or if it's 11:55PM, probably by 3PM the following day).

advice

well i went to the docotors and i found out my older isster weighs less then me.and im not in the greatest shape ever. so i thought i' go ona healthy diet. my questiosn are

1)what are some healthy foods but taste good to eat for a diet?

2) how many times a day should i eat?

3) i always get lazy and dont feel exerciseing how can i stop this?

4) how do i curve the craveings?

5)what exercises should i do and for how long?


oh im 13/f

I'm proud of you for wanting to get healthy babe. IT's a hard commitment to make for a lot of people so you need to stay motivated.

1)Fruits and veggies are always awesome. Don't drink diet sodas or sugar free stuff thoug (diet coke, diet gingerale, splenda, sugar free yogurt, etc) They contain a toxic substance in there that causes cancer. YES CANCER. I'm very very serious about this. Also if you drink diet sodas, you will think "Oh that soda didn't have any calories" and will be eating more that you should. Try low fat yogurt, 1% fat free milk, etc.

2)Eat three meals a day (don't skip a meal because 1)it slows down the metabolism and 2)it makes your body store the fat because it won't know when the next meal will come in) And in b/w eat small healthy snacks (apples, banana, carrots with fat free ranch, etc)

3)Get up early in the morning (even during summers) around 7AMish. Go for a jog around your neighborhood. (Start out by walking...then jog at a really slow pace as if you were walking..just pick up those legs! And gradually increase your speed) Don't sit down to watch tv, stand up and do some squats or stretches, just keep moving. No matter how much you want to put off the exercise, think about this: every day that you don't exercise, fat is building up inside.

4)As I said, eat small healthy snacks.They will keep you satisfied (your stomach that is) and help you from over eating because you're hungry. When you eat meals, eat only whats on your plate and don't go for seconds. NO SECONDS. Instead of piling food on a [big] dinner plate, get a salad plate and eat from there (it will give the image of a full plate without so much food) Eat slowly because it takes your brain 20min to think that you're full. When you are full, don't eat anymore..no matter how much more food is on your plate.

5)Pilates are great for your body as well as yoga. There is a TV Prgram in the mornings called Dennis Austion workout. It's an hour long..two show each 30min long...anywhos you should find out when that comes on in your area and follow her exercises. Try to do them 5times a day...she gives you great advice and exercises and it's overall GREAT. You should always try to fit in walking/jogging around the neighborhood as much as possible (I jog for about 30min everyday)

If you want to know more about these stuff, just email me at xchoke_on_Dead_hopex@yahoo.com or just send me another question on here to my inbox because I have much more advice but I don't know if you need them. I can tell you whats good for your skin, hair, what clothing will give out the slim image, etc.
Have fun **emm[y]

[view]

My bestfriend is incredibly shy. At school everyone thinks she looks really depressed when she actually isn't and people mention that she seems to be glaring at them, whichc she also doesn't do. I have a friend group that she doesn't really fit in with and so she will hang out with me and my friends, but never talk unless I ask her a question. Even then she just usually says yes or no. She doesn't make much of an effort because she is tired and she feels that everyone hates her.

What can she do to be less shy?

Well, I was like that too when I moved schools (I moved to different schools every year, literaly)

The best thing you can do is invite her to as many things you can like seeing a movie or something like that with or without the group of friends. She might be overwhelmed if you invite the whole group because she may feel like the girls have known each other for years and that she can't fit in or something.

Spend one on one time with ehr and then add another friend to those times..then another, etc.

Bring her over to a sleepover and play a game that involves talking like truth or dare or (without the alcohol) go around saying thing that the people there doesn't know about you. (I forgot the name) Or pictionary and such.

[view]

13/F

I cant really talk to guys I like or anything.
I dont think that I'm very pretty, and I usually just act mean when they're around...
I need to be able to flirt or smthing?!
Thanks

Sweetie, don't worry. I was in that situation too. I mean I wanted to talk to guys and liked them but I would usually end up teasing them or being mean to them

But I learned to control and hodl back my mean comments or such and just talk to them like they were my [girl] friends. But don't discuss the femal anatomy or such stuff.

Just be casual and say hey, what's up or talk about a TV show that you think is stupid or good, and just be casual about your subjects. If you're going to be entering a new school year, that is the BEST time to change this whole thing. Practice by talking to guys online first. Be friendly. Read what you typed and see if that will have a negative or positive response before you hit enter or press send. Then at school, just act like youre talking to your closest friends =D

Have fun. Oh and the flirting thing...hmmm I don't know how to put this...but just be casual and natural and #1 rule: BE YOURSELF. That's what most girls can't do. They have to put on a fake mask to inpress themselves. Compliment them a few times or in a firendly way go down the halls with linked arms or give them friendly hugs. Although if you do that, there is a risk of making that guy your good friend which is not really good when you like them as a crush.

[view]

ok i recently made a friend and she came to me for advice and she had, had sex and the condom broke and don't know what happened and is afraid she is pregnent she is only 15 and her period is in the beging of the month (september) is it to earlie for her to know then??

Hmmm broken condoms aren't the news every teenager wants to hear...

First...to make sure if the period is delayed it won't be because of stress, she should seriosuly take her mind off it. I know it's extremely hard but a lot of times when periods come late, it's because they stress out about it.

When her period comes...well she's not pregnant. If it doesnt..wait a little while until the end of September? And get an EPT test.

Even if her period comes, she should still make sure and get a pregnancy test...

[view]

Do you guys know any recipes or something for home made facial masks to clear pores ? You know every day objects like milk eggs or something. Something that works & wont like make you break out as much. Id appreciate it if you gave me some ideas so I can clear my skin more so i dont have to buy as much products. Thanks for the help

Well, I have a few homemade ones,,and they are really really good and awesome and all of them helps clear your skin (acne, blackheads) and make your pores smaller (so your face looks smooth and flawless without all the foundation and concelers)

--In a small bowl, add a tablespoon of honey, about 1 and a half TBS of milk, and 2 1/2-3TBS of flour. Make sure it's thick enough to stay on your face. If it's too watery, add somemore flour and a little bit of honey. Heat in up in the microwave for about 15sec, or until warm, mix it all together and put it onyour face. Leave it on there until it's almost dry and then wash it off with luke warm water (If it's dry dry, don't force it off. Soften it with the water first then let it come off smoothly)

--Red ginsang [sp?] it's expensive but oh so so good. Get the thick liquid version and mix that with hot water in a small bowl (you don't need to put in too much...about 1teaspoon on the ginsang and 2-3 tablespoon of water) Add in a litte flour to make the solution thick, dip some gauze (with holes only) into it and put it on your face...leave it on until it's dry and again, wash off with luke warm water and don't yank the gauze off, soften it with the water if it's too dry and then take if off gently.

--Chestnuts...make them powdery (very finely chopped) Mix it with hot water and flour (make it thick) and spread it on your face...and do the same steps as the first one (honey, flour, and milk)

--Green tea. It's not a facial mask...but it's very effective. Make green tea (Green tea powder or bag with water..and only those two. no sugar, honey or anything else). Cool it down to room temp and soak a facial towel or several cotton pads in it...make sure it's pretty soaked..but not dripping wet and put it on your face for 5-10min. You can make a lot at one time and put it in a bottle or something and pour some out each time you want to use it =D

[view]

i have liked this guy at my school for 2 years, n we got put in the same class this year. well he is really quiet and shy and never talks 2 anyone or is at school much. i wanted 2 see what kinda person he was, so i got his aol s/n off a friend n added him, however i didnt tell it was me. we became mates n started talkin for like 5 hours at a time.. he confided in me a lot of stuff, like about his bad childhood and depression etc. he says i'm one of the few people he really likes. n he tells me people spread shit about him at our school n he has few friends cause hes shy. he thinks i go 2 another school. oh and i sent him a pic of a friend of mine whos a pro model.

i feel awful bout the mess i've got myself into, cos he is really attached 2 me now.. keeps saying what a wonderfull person i am, and how beautifull i am. he also wants to meet up.

i dunno if i can tell him it was all a lie cause hes really fragile. im movin school soon cause we are moving, n all along i was plannin on telling him how i feel on the last day. i asked if he knew "me" and he said he did know who i was, but had never spoken 2 me before (i listed a bunch of people from school and said i knew them) i was thinkin of saying 2 him.. you should talk to my friend (me) shes nice... and she said some good things about you when i asked her bout you, and shes movin school soon.

i know it was sick to do this but what do i do now? how do i fix all the damage i could have possibly done? i didnt mean for it to go this far. i was only plannin 2 talk 2 him once. i guess its good he likes the girl hes talkin 2 cause thats my personality, but he doesn't know its me! please help. i've liked him for so long. thanks.

There's only one logical thing to do (since you're not gonna get surgery to look exactly like your friend): Tell him the truth. It's gonna be hard because I've been in the somewhat same situation.

It's better to talk with him in person (since you won't be able to keep him on the cpu or don't know what his face expression is saying if you tellhim on AIM or YIM whichever you have..MSN?)

In that class you have with him, ask him if he knows (write your sn here). He's bound to say yes. And then you're just gonna have to break it to him by saying that it's you. Tell him that you like him and that you wanted to know more about him but you messed up a lot by sending false picture[s] and some fake info. But that he was talking to you. And not some other person. You weren't faking who you were...just the pic and the school info.

It's gonna be really reawlly hard but it's better to get all this out of the way before it escelates to a worse situation, right? Tell him that you'd understand if he'd hate you but that you really wish he would understand and that the friendship you guys had won't be affected by your mistakes.

I'm sorry you're going through this =X
**emm[y]

[view]

I have a problem with pimple on my arms. Well actually their like ingrown zits. I have no idea how to get rid of them. I already drink practically 4 bottles of water a day. But can you help me.

I don't know if this will work but...try this method

After you take a shower or wash your arms, pat the spot on your arms with green tea (mix green tea powder/bag with water, cool it to room temp or colder if you want, dunk a small face cloth in it, wrap or pat your arm with it) for several minutes 5-10min?

You've probably heard the saying, "You are what you eat." It's true — from your hair right down to your toes! Luckily, the same foods that keep you healthy and fit also help keep you looking your best! So here are some foods to definitely include in your diet:

**Citrus fruits help your body form collagen, which is essential to keep skin looking young and smooth!
**Tomatoes are rich in vitamins A and C and potassium — all of which help give skin a radiant glow!
**Garlic is reported to combat wrinkles and help restore tissue. It's like a natural anti-wrinkle cream!
**Dairy foods — like skim milk, low-fat yogurt, and low-fat cheese — help keep your teeth strong and your smile bright!
**Sweet potatoes are packed with vitamin A, which promotes clear, smooth skin!

Try rubbing orange peels or such on your arms. Green tea is a def for making your skin look smooth and perfect

[view]

okay im 14 years old and im having sex with my boyfriend i dont want ne lecture about im too young i have been with this guy for 6 years and i wanna hint to my mom that i need put on birth control...she has said shes gonna take me but she never does what can i say to hint her to take me...nothing involving the sex thing..i mean could i say my period is jumping around the month or sumthing like that plzzz help me lotsa love

kaitlyn

My friend usees BC pills because her periods are always heavy and she loses a lot of blood. Just say that you're having really heavy periods.

Um, when you go to check ups at a pediatric place, the dotcor usually has your parent go out and ask you if your'e sexually invovled or something like that.

You should tell her yes and that you want BC pills. The doctor probably won't tell your mom. She or he will say if she or he will tell your mom if you're having sex before he or she asks if you're sexually active

[view]

ok well i has lots of acne on my chin and my forheadi was wondering what i could get that really works but doesn't cost alot of money any thing would be great

Thanx in advance!

DO NOT USE LEMON JUICE YO! It has acid and when you go out into the sun, you'll have this certain spot on your face (where you put the lemon juice) that burns faster so you'll have a huge brown spot. (unless you put on a pound of sunscreen)

You should lay off greasyfoods such as fries, mayo, butter, pizza, burgers, etc. And if you have smaller fine red bumps, lay off red food likeketchup, tomatoes, hot sauce, etc.

Wash your face with just face cleanser (Not Olay soap bar or soap made esp. for acne (those soaps or differing gels and stuff like that the dermotologists give you to clear away the acne will hurt your skin in the long run) I use Cetaphil. It's a really gentle cleanser that softens your skin)

Wash you face twice a day with a cotton pad (just don't your hands) or face cloth. And at night after you've washed your face, you should make some green tea, cool it down to room temperature, dip cotton pads or face towel (like soak it in there) and put it on your face for 5-10min every night.

Make sure your hair is pulled up so hair doesnt touch your face and don't touch, pop, whatever your acne with your hands. If you're going to put lotion, sunscreen or something, make sure it's oil free and won't clog pores (read the bottle label) and no make up such as concealers or foundation. it will make your acne problem worse

[view]

Before I start, I DON'T suffer from depression.

However, I'm one of these people who finds it difficult to cope with erring on a regular basis. Unfortunately, I am the sort of person who makes a lot of mistakes and they are seldom tiny ones. At any rate, they are not tiny to me.

I lost a book, borrowed from someone else, which held a note inside that was very precious to me. I cannot find it anywhere and it has been missing for a week.

I also made a huge mistake at work today which has cost the company nearly £500. It could have been avoided had I successfully engaged that grey matter.

On top of it all, I forget EVERYTHING because I have the memory of a goldfish. I have some health problems which may be the cause of my memory problems but it isn't the point.

The point is, how do I cope with the periods of self-loathing I experience after making one of these almighty stupid (and avoidble) mistakes? Yes, everyone makes them but I'm very hard on myself because I make so many that affect other people. It makes me angry and upset with myself and I don't know how to deal with that.

Any suggestions would be gratefully received.

Well, I don't know about coping your self loathing periods.

But as for the memory thing, go ask your doctor if your health problems may be interfering with your memomry. Short Term Memory maybe?

Also before you do something, think about it carefully, see if there will be a huge negative effect. And if you are going to place an object, stay away from drawers or covered places. Put it up on like a surface or something

If you want, why don't you put a list of what you did, where you placed something and such to the smallest detail on a piece of paper and start a collection of it in a box or something...video tape the day?

During your periods of self loathing, think about the good things that you've done. Fun times, happy times and steer away from what happened and negative thoughts and memories and such.

I'm sorry you're having this prob...>.>

**emm[y]

[view]

i have these two pimples on my chin that are still under the suface of my skin. they are just red bumps. i just know that they are going to come out just in time for school and picture day!! so what can i do to make them go away before they come out?

Don't touch it with you hand. Um, wash your face twice a day every day with a cotton pad or something.

After you wash your face, make green tea and dip the cotton pad in there and soak it in the tea. Put the cotton pad on your pimples for a few minutes (5min or so?) Do that everyday and to any new pimples about to come out. Oh and make sure that the green tea is cooled down to room temperature and don't put anything else in the tea. Just the water and green tea power/bag

[view]

hey im 15/f i weigh 130 pounds and im 5'5. My friends are about my height and they weigh like 105-115. I have just a little bit of fat around my legs and tummy. I do crunches everyday but it doesn't help neither does running and i've been doing it for over a month. And whatever i do i cant seem to loose any weight no matter how hard i try! Is there any way to lose 15 pounds easily? I've stayed the same weight for almost 2 years. And ive been to the gym alot last year but havent lost a pound. Can anybody tell me what i can do to help lose like 15 pounds. I think i would look alot better if i did loose a few extra pounds. THANKS!

Well, 5' 5" height equals 125lb. That's the avg and normal and healthy weight. Anywhos working out is great but ig you don't keep it steady, don't eat healthy and such, it's not going to take effect

Eat a healthy breakfast--lay off bacons, butter, mayo, etc.

Eat a small healthy snack in between breakfast and lunch/lunch and dinner such as few baby carrots and fat free ranch, apple, banana, etc. It will help you from over eating at meals and such

Erm, peanut butter is all fat. Don't eat it too much. Same with bacon, butter, mayo. Try whole wheat instead of white bread. Um, skim milk instead of milk. Lay off candies, choco, ice cream, chips, and most junk food, but don't starve youself

As for the workout thing...you should do aerobics, pilates, or any other exercise five days a week for at least an hour. If you're consistent and work out correctly and hard, you should see some results in about 3 weeks.

Walk around the neighborhood everyday with friends or with your family/dog. etc.

Have fun =] **emm[y]

[view]

I;m 14 an I Have had a few boyfriends but the thing is i cant stay that long with them when ever i see them or they want to even just talk to me i get weird and break up with them but heres the weird thing when we are not togther i can do anything hold hands kiss hangout talk without getting weird but once i know where togther i get weird. Whats worng?

Maybe the words
-Relationship
-Boyfriend
-Going out
-etc

Is getting on your nerves and is making you uncomfortable. On the other hand when you guys aren't going out, you feel comfortable and such

Maybe you just like the guys you go out with as good friends...well the kissing part doesn't fit in though. Or it might be that you don't want to be tied down to one guy and you want to experiment with other guys at the same time without having to stay with one guy. Just take your time and lay off the bf thing for a while.

**emm[y]

[view]

Ok so, my bset friend of my whole life went out with this guy, who is also one of my good friends. They fought all the time when they were going out and he finally dumped her, because apparently he liked me the whole time. Now that he's single he keeps wanting to hang out with me and talk to me all the time and I think my best friend is starting to get jealous. Me and this guy have always been really close, we're like twins and i know if we were a couple it would be really fun and go well. But the problem is, I think i like this guy too. So what should I do? Go out with him and talk to my best friend about it? Or just wave him off and hurt his feelings?

Before you say the "yes, I wan't to go out with you" sentence, ask your bff if she's okay with you and her ex going out. Tell her that you want her true feelings and that you don't want her to hold anything back because you don't want any grudge b/w you two.

If she says or shows slight discomfort in this idea, don't go out with this guy. He's not worth ruining your friendship. But if you really, really, really want to go out with this guy, you should wait for about a month and see if you guys still have the same feelings for each other. If you guys do, you ask your bff again if it's okay and explain to her that you like her ex and you really don't want to ruin the friendship.

I mean...he is her ex for a reason and if she's jealous and wants him back with all that fighting and not share him with you, she needs to know that he is her ex for a reason. Well, don't tell her this paragraph =P

good luck **emm[y]

[view]

ok basically my school lunches are horrible. they serve pizza & bagels every day. their salad is watery & brown. you get my point. i need ideas for lunches to pack. i was thinking of either pb & j with fruit, but obviously i don't want that every day. anything that would be good?? just remember-- it will be sitting in my locker [i can use ice packs] & also i don't want packaged food such as 'meals'.

thanks!!

Ummm cold pizza from dinner isn't too delicious..

Try lunchables, ham and cheese sandwhich, chicken nuggets, soup and bread, mac and cheese, make your own salad etc.

those are all simple and good =]

[view]

ok so my friend lets say her name is L.D told my other friend lets say her name is N.S that i said N.S is a whore and i didnt. I told N.S that i didnt and she believes me. L.D is now telling N.S that i am lying to her and L.D wont talk to me.
What do i do?

Screw LD. Obiously that person has some issues with you or w/ herself. Ask herwhy they are doing this and if she have some little petty grudge on you.

And for NS, if she believes LD bs, then you should tell her this:

If you believe some rumor that has no support or facts, then you'd better think about it again. You're believing a pharase made up. I mean do you know who else heard me say that? How would LD know if I did infact say it (which I didnt). Ask LS to name the person[s] who heard me say you are a whore.

You can. LS can't. You know why? Because I didn't say it. You're believing some rumor that no one ca support

If LD and NS believe the rumor of you calling her a whore, then they are not worth your time

[view]

My mom pushes me with grades. She made me study all day for 5 days for one test, and I got a 77. Now I'm grounded for 2 weeks and have to study even harder and longer. I have no social life during the week and rarely on weekends because my mom always makes me study. I'm just not that smart. My first language is Chinese, so school in America is difficult and my mom doesn't care. She hit me with the textbook once because I didn't take notes like she told me to. My friends and I agree that I'm doing the best I can, and adding even more days of non-stop studying won't help. What do I do?

Well, if it makes you feel better, I was born in South Korea and myy first language is Korean.

Is the language getting in the way or learning things or understanding the question?

You should ask your mom to see if she can get you a tutor or ask your counslor if there is anybody in your school or high school that is willing to help you understand subjects better for free.

Don't put yourself down and say that you're just not that smart. Know this: Study for only 20min, take a 10min break, then 20min studying again. Your brain can only store up to 20min of studying at one time. So if you study for 1hr straight, it will remember the first 20min and have no memory of the rest 40min.

Everyone learns different ways so you should try and figure out which ways you learn the best. Trying reading and saying out the notes. e.g. "Edgar Allen Poe was a poet and a writer" if you need to memorize that, read it and say it out loud. If that helps, you learn by listening. Write it down and if that helps, you learn by actually doing something with it (writing it out, doing the action, acting it out, etc) Or just read it, study it, and if that helps (usually not) you have a photographic memory (which is rare)

Remember to take breaks every 20min, turn off all music, tv noise. Be in a silent room with NO distractions and focus on your schoolwork. Oh, and eat a snack before you start studying so you won't have to stop to go eat when you get hungry.

And about your mom hitting you with a txb,that's called child abuse and she should watch that. And tell her that she's pushing you too hard. She probably wants you to get good grades and have a good future. Tell her this:
I know that I haven't done to well on tests and getting good grades but I need social time too instead of studying study and more studying. I know that you just want me to improve on my test grades (or whatever else) and you think that making me study 24/7 is going to help. But it isn't. I can't keep studying and expect it to all get stored in my brain without any fun. Can I set aside friend time or fun time so I can socialize or have fun at least three times a week?

Put it in your own words. See if any of that helps. Good luck =X

[view]

Hi i am 13.Okay, I am really good friends with this guy i know( we will call him A) He is really really cute and super nice. I have a crush on him and when my bf was over we called are other guy friend and then called A and they told him I liked him. He and his friend talked alone for a while and then said he would think about and was not interested in starting a relationship in the summer and i feel that way to. But i am afraid if he says he doesnt like me which i think he does because he kind of flirts with me, what if when school starts i get nervous and dont talk to him what should I do because i really like him and he hasnt not talked to me yet since he found out that i like him? Please help me.

well, sweetie, friendship is so much more valuable than a relationship. relationship barely lead to marriage and usually you guys will break up leaving you and your best friend in an awkward friendship.

and when you say he\'s flirting, you really can\'t tell if he\'s flirting because everyone is different. he might\'ve just be like that naturally. i mean everyone says neal & i should go out because he \"flirts\" but seriously, we\'re really just good friends and he\'s like that with everyone..even guys and no he is not gay or bi.

and maybe he hasn\'t talked to you yet because he feels the same way as i do: he values the friendship more than relationship. maybe he\'s afraid to say no because he might lose you and your friendship and if he says yes, it will still be ruined.

when school starts, just talk to him regulary. pretend that this incident never happened and yes, feel free to hit those other guys who told a that you liked him =d

just play it cool. even if he says no. it\'s not the end of the world. just act normal as if this never happened =x

**emm[y]

[view]

ho do i find out what the right bra fit is for me, i mean i can practically fit into anything up to a small c so im not really sure what is right, im 15 and skinnyish if that help, oh and is theer a way to measure yourslef to find out?

Bra Size
1. Wear a comfortable bra and measure the rib cage just below the breast. If the number is 33 or less, add 5 inches to that number and that is your bra size. Over 33 inches add 3 inches to get you bra size. Both ways, rounding odd numbers up to even.

2. Then take measure the breast around the fullest part. When you subtract the last number (fullest part) by the among of your bra size, you'll come up with a number used to determine cup size by using the chart below (the A,B,C, etc. cup chart) For example if your bra size was 36 and your cup measurement was 38, the difference is 2" so you would wear a 36B.

Use this chart:

AA = 1/2"
A = 1"
B = 2"
C = 3"
D = 4"
DD or E = 5"
F = 6"
G = 7"

[view]

this boy and i have been hanging out this summer and we've gone as far as holding hands and stuff. he seems shy and hasnt told me he likes me yet, but my friends think its obvious because of how sweet he is to me. i dont know how to make the first move, and i just dont know what to do. i like him, but he hasnt told me he likes me back.

Why don't you go to the mall, playground, movies or somewhere public with a few of his friends and your friends.

Spend some alone time with him and tell him that you like him or just give him a peck on the cheek without notice and see what he does.

It's obvious he likes you but is too shy to tell so if he won't make the move on you, YOU make the move on him. Ask him out =D

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
eXTReMe Tracker