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in a real mess..HELP ME!!
i have liked this guy at my school for 2 years, n we got put in the same class this year. well he is really quiet and shy and never talks 2 anyone or is at school much. i wanted 2 see what kinda person he was, so i got his aol s/n off a friend n added him, however i didnt tell it was me. we became mates n started talkin for like 5 hours at a time.. he confided in me a lot of stuff, like about his bad childhood and depression etc. he says i'm one of the few people he really likes. n he tells me people spread shit about him at our school n he has few friends cause hes shy. he thinks i go 2 another school. oh and i sent him a pic of a friend of mine whos a pro model.
i feel awful bout the mess i've got myself into, cos he is really attached 2 me now.. keeps saying what a wonderfull person i am, and how beautifull i am. he also wants to meet up.
i dunno if i can tell him it was all a lie cause hes really fragile. im movin school soon cause we are moving, n all along i was plannin on telling him how i feel on the last day. i asked if he knew "me" and he said he did know who i was, but had never spoken 2 me before (i listed a bunch of people from school and said i knew them) i was thinkin of saying 2 him.. you should talk to my friend (me) shes nice... and she said some good things about you when i asked her bout you, and shes movin school soon.
i know it was sick to do this but what do i do now? how do i fix all the damage i could have possibly done? i didnt mean for it to go this far. i was only plannin 2 talk 2 him once. i guess its good he likes the girl hes talkin 2 cause thats my personality, but he doesn't know its me! please help. i've liked him for so long. thanks.
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Wow...what a nice story.
I think it's a good thing to tell him on the last day. Tell him why and tell him what you just told us...You really like him. Ask him if you and him can contact each other still.
If fate is on your side, he'll say yes.
If fate isn't...another door will open.
Lucky you! I wish I had the e-mail who I like.
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There's only one logical thing to do (since you're not gonna get surgery to look exactly like your friend): Tell him the truth. It's gonna be hard because I've been in the somewhat same situation.
It's better to talk with him in person (since you won't be able to keep him on the cpu or don't know what his face expression is saying if you tellhim on AIM or YIM whichever you have..MSN?)
In that class you have with him, ask him if he knows (write your sn here). He's bound to say yes. And then you're just gonna have to break it to him by saying that it's you. Tell him that you like him and that you wanted to know more about him but you messed up a lot by sending false picture[s] and some fake info. But that he was talking to you. And not some other person. You weren't faking who you were...just the pic and the school info.
It's gonna be really reawlly hard but it's better to get all this out of the way before it escelates to a worse situation, right? Tell him that you'd understand if he'd hate you but that you really wish he would understand and that the friendship you guys had won't be affected by your mistakes.
I'm sorry you're going through this =X
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Well babes i have to say you seem like a great person, not a lot of people would do what you did and it seems you have helped him a lot. It is easy to get carried away when you like someone and i can understand how u got into this situation. He may be fragile but you have a good friendship and telling him would be your best option. You may not have been truly honest with him thus far but if you are leaving the sooner you tell him the better, don't do it on the last day because that is sure to make thing's worse for him. As for the picture, send him one of you and tell him your sorry. Thing's will turn out fine and im sure he would love to have a friend at school. You never know, by doing this he might start going to school more often just for the chance to see you. chin up darling if you are honest thing's will turn out for the better. love jem xxxxxxxxx
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