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Okay, Me and my boyfriend are thinking about doing it in a hot tub or a bath. How does this all work? Does he put a condom before he goes inside me and then we go into the pot. Me and him both want to use protection. He doesn't want to make any risk. But what if he is inside me without a condom, and when he is about to ejaculate , he pulls it out and ejaculates into the water? What happens then? Is there a risk of getting pregnant or? (link)
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Always have him wear a condom. In the water
or out. NEVER allow penetration without a
condom ever. Its to big a risk, even if he
doesn't ejaculate.
It isn't necessary that he have one on
before getting in the water. He does need
to put one on once he gets aroused.
As has already been mentioned, pulling out
does not work. I don't recommend it at all.
Very high risk method of birth control.
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I can kind of understand why my dad doesn't want me alone with guys, but at the same time, I really do need to start to be more independent. The thing is that I am 16 years old and I think I am pretty mature. I haven't really screwed up anywhere; I get amazing grades, make an effort to help around the house, and I'm generally respectful to my parents. I'm sober too, which isn't the case for my brother. They don't trust him very much, but they let him go out with a girl if he wants to. It's a pretty messed up double standard. Lately, there's a guy who I really like and we aren't exactly dating but it's understood that we both like eachother. Anywyas, I want to talk to my dad about this, but talking to him makes me really nervous because he just says something like "no you can't go" without giving me a reason. He doesn't say, "I don't want you to have a boyfriend" he just says no to everything. Even when it's me and another girl and the guy, my dad is still skeptical. I want to be honest with him but it doesn't work. When I tell the truth about who I want to hang out with, he is against it. So I've had to lie a lot lately to hang out with him, but I'm tired of it. I talked to my mom and she said she knows I already had a boyfriend once so obviously I can do whatever I want, but my dad is very hard to read. Can someone help me out. Thanks (link)
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Ask your mom how to go about approaching
the subject with your dad. If anyone knows,
she does. Maybe she can at least tell him
that he isn't communicating well with you
and that you should be able to talk to him.
Make sure you let dad know that you really
want to be able to come to him about things
but that he sometimes makes it very difficult
to do so.
Also realize that it isn't you he doesn't
trust, but the guys. He knows how they can be!
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17/f
Recently my best friend and I have stopped talking. We are finished. Previously, we spent approximately eight hours a day together without problems. When I needed her the most she began to avoid me and we had an irreversible fight. I realize it is time to move on.
The problem, however, is that this reinforces my nature to avoid making too close of relationships (friends or romantic). I would never want to feel vunerable or alone after a break up so I put up walls to avoid getting into committed relationships. Is this healthy behaviour? I prefer not to trust people or become overly attached to them. Should I make a conscious decision to stop putting up these walls? Thanks for your advice, I really appreciate it. (link)
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Its probably not real healthy behavior. :)
You will meet many people in your life.
Some will remain in your life and others
will just be there a short time. You learn
something from them all. Even what type
to avoid so you DON'T get hurt.
So stop putting up walls. You might miss
out on some great friendships. Not all
your relationships will be long lasting
at any age, but you just don't avoid
having them.
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*i'm sorry, this might be a bit long.. but i need to say all of this so it'll make alot more sense.
sooo, i just got a boyfriend... ever since 12/29/08
he's sixteen and i'm fifteen.
what i mean by he's not that active, is not in a sexual way.. but i mean in a relationship way.
before we started going out, he SAID that he liked me.. but didn't really seem like it.
he doesn't text or call me as much as he did before, makes it seem like he was losing interests in me. and whenever i texted him, he only texts back when he WANTS to. makes me feel like i'm just there, because he WANTS me to be there.
before, i couldn't take it anymore.. so i texted him saying that he was confusing, and he FINALLY texted back asking why. and i said "tell me this honestly, do you like me or not?" he goes "yeah.. why does it seem like i don't?" and i said "somewhat" and he goes "why" and i said, "because you SAY that you do, but it doesn't seem like it." and he told said "that's because i'm not sure if you like me" that kind of made me go like "what the heckk?" because I'M the one that's been texting him, and he's the one that hasn't been answering. but, we worked that out... but he can't really use that excuse anymore since we're together now.
my last couple of relationships, i didn't take really seriously. but this time, i would actually try to make this one work out. but the relationship can't work out if only ONE person tries to make it work, right? SUPPOSEDLY i'm the first girl that had ever gaven him 'butterflies' and really liked before going out with. he says so, but it sure doesn't seem like it. i'm not sure if he's busy or what not.. but after we went out, my boyfriend doesn't even seem like a boyfriend! our last conversation ended with "HAPPY NEW YEAR!" and "YOU TOO!" *ends...
i would talk to him about it, but it'd probably end up the same as before.. i'm not even sure if he even takes this relationship seriously or not. because i don't want to, if he isn't going to.
sooo, the questions that i'm wondering is.. what do you think is running through his mind? do you think he lost interest? what's your opinion on this? what should i do?
your response is very important to me! please & thank you (: (link)
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You do need to talk to him. Write a long
letter if it makes it easier. Find out
how he feels.
One thing I can tell you for sure is that
most guys do not think the same as we ladies
do! The same things aren't as important.
What we think of as being ignored, they
think of as "I did tell you happy new year!"
So just talk to the guy. :)
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so im 18/f
i have friends, but its that i commute to college, and i only talk to like two of my friends from high school.
i've been talking to this girl, emily. she use to go out with my cousin. she is in 9th grade though, in high schoool. i'm a freshman collge. the thing is, she gets me. she is the only one who understands whats going on in my life, because she is going through something similar too. i just feel weird hanging out with her though. i dont want people to be like wow she is hanging out with a freshman from high school, you know? but i love the girl, she is like becoming one of my close friends! like i said, i can trust her and i know she wont judge me. thats hard to find. but in my mind, i always feel like people think i dont have friends and i'm a loser for hanging out with a freshman. and i mean i really want to hang out with her, she is a nice girl and so what am i to say? oh i cant hang out with you because your like four years younger than me? NO! i want to hang out with her, but i feel stupid at the same time.
any thoughts, suggestions, comments, ANYTHING!? (link)
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People are friends for a lot of reasons.
If you have a lot in common, don't let
the age difference get in the way! There
probably won't be a need to often say,
"This is my friend Emily, shes just a
freshman in high school". Shes just
your friend Emily.
You will have to remember that she is
underage for drinking and that sort of
thing. Don't get her in trouble! Other
than that, enjoy the friendship. True
friends are hard to find, don't let
one get away!
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There is this guy that I known sence I was 8 years old...I start dating him when I was 15...He was 23..At first he did'nt want to go with me cause I was to young.But off that we were together one whole year. We parted like 2 weeks after cause my mother kept threatning to press charges..So the plan was that we get back together
when I hit 18.2 years pasted and it's like hella tru.He wants to marry me and all.But he want to wait till it hit our aniversary date(My 27th), we had when I was 15(awww)..Right now I'm single and almost 18 on the 30th of this month.......
Yeah I've been mingeling sence time went by.He's in a relationship right now but, plans to break up with his girl friend soon.He's going to his dads wedding in March..He says he refuses to catch the thing that guys are supose to catch if they want to marry next.(he siad because he is not going to marry his girlfriend) He don't want her to think that.
He said that our love is meant.And that he wants to be with me till death does us part.He said that he'll ask me in person on his knees with the ring and all.And he said he will not take no for a answer. I said Yes...
Then I start thinkin about it later on in the day..I cried I was sad.I was mad and confussed...I was thinkin like .What about his girl..When is it gonna end ..Is he gone tell her way b4 then..What should he do if he's making plans to marry me? What Should I do? Because I'm in love with this man. (link)
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You won't like this answer. :)
I would suggest you have no further contact
with this guy. At least not until he is
available. He sounds like just another smooth
talker out to get a little on the side.
If he truly wanted a relationship with you,
he would have broke up with his girlfriend
by now. Hes just telling you what you want
to hear to get what he wants from you.
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hi im a 16 year old boy and me and my x girlfriend were playing with eachother about a month ago. i didnt cum inside her but i mite have got seamen on her vagina she has never had sex before, so she is still a virgin, and as soon as i did she changed her cloths. Her period is late but she took a pregancy test and it said that she wasnt pregnent but her period is still late could she be pregnent? (link)
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There is a very slight chance she could be,
but its not very likely she is. Anytime
you get semen anywhere near the vagina,
pregnancy IS possible. But if she is it
would be very rare.
Most likely she is worried about the
possibility. That can cause her period
to be late. Teenage girls are also
not very regular as far as getting thier
period. They can also skip one without
being pregnant.
Since she has already had a negative
pregnancy test, she is probably not
pregnant. Just remember in the future,
wear a condom. Even if you don't intend
to actually have sex. Be safe. :)
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where can i buy Costco Kirkland Signature by Borghese Professional Cosmetics Brush Set.?
my friend bought it at costco i went to the website it aintt there!
also, where can i get a good brush set? for cheap like under 30 dollars (link)
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Not all of a stores products show up on their
web sites. If your friend got it at Costco.
you will probably find it there. :)
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im 15 and 6 moths pregenat. The boy that got me pregenat has a girlfriend but we still talk. Were always arguing and i dont no if i should move on or try to work it out (link)
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You move on as best you can. He already has.
He needs to take responsibility for his child.
Let the courts deal with all that.
Good luck. :)
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I am Jake's first gf. He is 19. He was always busy with studies and stuff before so he never interacted with too many girls let alone have sexual feelings for them. So he told me that he does have sexuAl desires but cant fulfil them as he cant have an erection. I'm not gonna leave him or annything coz I love him but then, I think in the long run it will get me frustrated. We do talk about sex and he does get turned on but without the erction. How do i deal with this? Is there any cure? What would you have done if you were in my place?
Thanks for the help... XOX (link)
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A 19 year old shouldn't have a problem getting
an erection. If he does he has a medical problem
of some sort, or may possibly be gay and in denial.
There is usually always a cure with medical help.
Getting a guy to admit to needing help, and then
actually getting it, can be hard to do.
You are right in thinking it will cause problems long term. The longer you do nothing about a
problem like this, the easier it becomes to
ignore it. At your age, you honestly don't need
the frustration it will cause.
I think you need to see that he is getting
medical help for the problem. Make sure he
actually sees a doctor to try and remedy the problem. If he doesn't, you end it now before
you get involved any more. Sex isn't the main
reason for dating anyone. It is however a
healthy, normal part of an adult relationship.
I can't advise you to stay in a relationship
they will cause problems for YOU in the long
run, if it isn't dealt with now.
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I'm a freshman in high school and turned 14 about 5 months ago. Over the summer I started dating this guy, whose name will be X for the sake of saving space and keeping my identity somewhat hidden. X is my first boyfriend and he's a great guy. Our problem is that we go to two different schools. I barely get to see him. The last time we hung out was about 2 months ago. We've been keeping our relationship a secret because my parents are extremely idiotic and think that their daughter (me) shouldn't have a boyfriend until she's 16 at least. So because of this I can't leave my house to see him because I know they won't take me anywhere. A few weeks ago my dad found out about me and X because my brother was a snitch and told him. My dad yelled at me for a while but never told me to break up with X so I haven't. I love X but its pretty much impossible to see him unless he sneaks over like last time. What the heck should I do? (link)
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Keeping in mind that if he sneaks over and your
parents find out, you will probably be in even worse trouble and be forced to break up, its not
a good idea.
I had the same dating rule for my kids and
believe it or not, they got along fine. You
need to talk to both your parents. I'm sure
your dad has already mentioned this all to
your mom anyway. They may agree to allow you
to see this guy with supervision or with a
group of kids. They may even decide since
you approached them about it in an adult
manner, INSTEAD of sneaking around, that its
ok for you to date.
Try it and see, don't call them idiotic,
they are just trying to protect you from
very real trouble. Good luck. :)
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i am a 37 year old male and in financial dire straits. not enough space here to go into details. shame and depression have caused both spouses to lose jobs and any quality of life. we have become reclusive and no longer take phone calls or visits from anyone. mother has known of our difficulties for 1+ yr from other sources, since im too ashamed to speak to her. she hasn't attempted to call in 6+ months. i never thought she had finances to help, but today i learned thru a bank error that she has $62k in savings. should i be upset that she has not offered help? (link)
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A child of 37 is not entitled to be supported
by a parent. You can be mad at her if you want
to but once you turned 18 and became an adult, her job of supporting you was over.
It sounds to me like your depression is the
thing that is holding you back. It would help
if you got ongoing help for that problem. If
you are seeing a doctor for this and you
aren't being helped, change doctors. Get it
under control. Mental breakdowns of
any sort are not your parents fault.
It sounds as if your mother has worked very
hard for what she has. It is hers and she
doesn't have to share with anyone. It is
possible that the money you think she has is
your sisters and not hers. She is not the only name on the account.
Between you and your wife, you should be
able to make a living of some sort. It
may be you have to move to more affordable
housing...you do what you have to do to get
by on your own.
Good luck.
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My stomace been felling werid past week at night's and i also been feeling like thoughing up in the morning's and in the after noon's and sometime's at night's and i been getting so tiered alot lately also and to day i went to the bathroom and when i pooping it was hirting so after word's i check and half of it was light brown then the other half was dark brown and i saw some blood in with the poop and am scare cause my grandfather had something like that before he pass away and i don't no why i feel like this way lately i feel like crappy but i really don't no what it could be and i hope that you could give me some answer's that could help me like i said i no that it run's in my family but i never ask them what it mean's cause i never think of it and am also don't no if stress could causue it or not thank you for reading me
ps
thank's again
from
CareBear (link)
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If you are worried about it, you need to see a doctor. Blood in the stools can be something as
simple as a hemorrhoid, as well as something
more serious. There is no way we are able to
tell you what it might be in your case. Stress
alone would not cause it. If something that
causes rectal bleeding runs in your family, it
would benefit you to think to ask about it.
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I really need help on this one.
There is this girl i have been talking to for the past 2 or 3 months, there practically isnt a day that went by where we didnt talk, she told me how she wanted to hang out and vise versa, and all of that. well we finally decide to go to a movie the other day, and keep in mind she is a quiet girl. well i had fun, it was a good moive, and she seemed to have fun, but i am not 100 % sure she did. she is kinda short with her answers to me now, but i think it might be due to the up coming christmas holiday (tomarrow). In a couple of days, I want to know if I can just come out and ask her if she is intrested, and if she would like to go out again. is that too creepy and forward. What do you think i should do?
Rob 20 & male (link)
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It wouldn't be at all creepy or forward
if you asked her if shes interested in
going out again. Don't waste any time,
you don't want her to think YOU didn't
enjoy yourself. Go ask her her now. :)
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I am 17 and a senior in high school. I have been talking to a 15 yr old freshman. The thing is, he likes me. I know I do like him, too..so that's a factor. Anyway, he calls me, and we talk on aim a lot. He wants to hang out soon. He isn't like me at all, but yet..thats what i like about him. So, when we were on the phone and stuff.. like when people are in the room and they're talking to him, he tells them how i'm 17 and acts like its a big deal. BUt, when people leave the room he is really interested in talking to me. The thing is, I don't know if I should go out with him because of the fact that he is 15, and I will be leaving to college (which I know im going to, I already got accepted) in the next 7 or so months. I don't know if I should get into the relationship. 1, because i dont know how serious the relationship will be..(i mean, he's a freshman..) and 2, because I will be leaving.
any advice, please? (link)
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The age difference isn't a big deal, though
you have to wonder why he wants to make it so
when others are around. Immaturity is probably
a good guess. :)
The fact that you will be leaving for college
soon, with a whole new world to explore, may
be more of a factor. If you want to date him,
no big deal. But keep in mind that you might
get pretty attached.
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this guy and i went out for about a year...we broke up about four months ago, and signs are showing that he wants me back....his girlfriend cheated on him, and its sad and everything. I love him so much. for the past few months i've been with a guy, and all i could do was think about him....but now that i'm about to have that chance to be with him, i don't want to take it because he's hurt me before, and i don't want it to happen again. a part of me feels like he is only running to me because his girlfriend is not there anymore, so he wants to use me to forget about her. I'm just so confused. I don't know what to do or if i'm making the right decision, what do you guys think? thank you!:D (link)
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Trust your instincts. If you feel he is
about to use you to get over what he's lost,
you're probably right. See if he is still
wanting you a month from now.
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i love my boyfriend of 5 months and he's the best thing that ever happened to me....but i feel that i cant concentrnate on anything else that much because i'm always thinking of him...and like when im in class and i dont like what we're doing (pretty much every day) i think about him all the time...i dont like to be like this cause then i dont understand what were doing in class and stuff but i would never break up with him cause i love him so much.
what should i do?
16/f (link)
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Don't break up over it. You would still think
about him...maybe even more! Its actually very
normal, what you're going through. It will go
away after awhile.
Just try your best to concentrate on your
work while at school. Its hard but you can
do it!
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i know theres a certain cream to reduce stretch marks but what is it?
and is there anything to reduce cellulite?
thanks in advance! (link)
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Cocoa butter will help with stretch marks
but won't make them go away. They will fade
some with time. They are damaged skin and
more like scars than anything.
You can diet and exercise but there is
no magic formula to make cellulite go away
either. Wish there were!
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Ive been experimenting with weed and i have these weird panic/anxiety attacks... what can i do to prevent that from happening??? (link)
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From what I have read, and this is not at
all uncommon, you probably need to seriously
consider not using it any more. Here is a
quote from an article I will link you to.
"Some people may use marijuana with little
negative side-effect. Others, more
dangerously, may trigger an effect that will
impact greatly on their lives."
I want to tell you I believe its use should
be legalized. I don't tell you this in an
attempt to scare you into quitting. But like
alcohol and smoking, it affects everyone
differently and not always for the good. :)
Heres the article for more information,
should you care to read it.
http://www.concernedcounseling.com/communities/anxiety/paems/newsletter/marijuana.htm
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how do i get myspace 2.0 i've been trying the whole costomize profile but they dont have it anymore? (link)
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Here are Toms instructions. According to
this if you use IE6 you are unable to upgrade.
http://blogs.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendID=6221&blogID=447772043
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