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9yrs of loving him 3yrs of being in love
There is this guy that I known sence I was 8 years old...I start dating him when I was 15...He was 23..At first he did'nt want to go with me cause I was to young.But off that we were together one whole year. We parted like 2 weeks after cause my mother kept threatning to press charges..So the plan was that we get back together
when I hit 18.2 years pasted and it's like hella tru.He wants to marry me and all.But he want to wait till it hit our aniversary date(My 27th), we had when I was 15(awww)..Right now I'm single and almost 18 on the 30th of this month.......
Yeah I've been mingeling sence time went by.He's in a relationship right now but, plans to break up with his girl friend soon.He's going to his dads wedding in March..He says he refuses to catch the thing that guys are supose to catch if they want to marry next.(he siad because he is not going to marry his girlfriend) He don't want her to think that.
He said that our love is meant.And that he wants to be with me till death does us part.He said that he'll ask me in person on his knees with the ring and all.And he said he will not take no for a answer. I said Yes...
Then I start thinkin about it later on in the day..I cried I was sad.I was mad and confussed...I was thinkin like .What about his girl..When is it gonna end ..Is he gone tell her way b4 then..What should he do if he's making plans to marry me? What Should I do? Because I'm in love with this man.
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Holy christ.
Do not marry him. Do not say yes. At best he has serious emotional issues, at worst he is some kind of deviant. He's 26 and wants to marry an 18 year old, and whatever you want to think, thats bad.
Age is not just a number, if he relates to you this well there is something wrong with him, because I promise you are not up to a normal 26 year old's level of maturity.
There are danger signs left and right here. You're ignoring them. He has a girlfriend he is lying to and going to break up with. This shows you that trust is not important to him, nor is doing right for rights sake.
You should forget this man, honestly. But if you can't you should date him consistently for at LEAST a year.
Just don't be surprised, hes incredibly immature and trust means little (as you've seen with the other girl). This kind of guy WILL cheat on you should the opportunity be presented to him, and he will go searching for someone to cheat with when you two start having normal and very real relationship problems it will result in a divorce. Both of you seem to be laboring under the misconception that relationships are just love and romance.
You won't be ready for marriage for a few years. If you marry this guy, its going to end in heartbreak and divorce.
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You won't like this answer. :)
I would suggest you have no further contact
with this guy. At least not until he is
available. He sounds like just another smooth
talker out to get a little on the side.
If he truly wanted a relationship with you,
he would have broke up with his girlfriend
by now. Hes just telling you what you want
to hear to get what he wants from you.
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I think you two should sit down and just talk about things get everything sorted out so you wont have anything to be worried or confused about its better to get everything out in the open then to go crazy thinking about the ways things culd be or what should happen and what you two could do i hope i helped good luck:D
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