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I am 17 and a senior in high school. I have been talking to a 15 yr old freshman. The thing is, he likes me. I know I do like him, too..so that's a factor. Anyway, he calls me, and we talk on aim a lot. He wants to hang out soon. He isn't like me at all, but yet..thats what i like about him. So, when we were on the phone and stuff.. like when people are in the room and they're talking to him, he tells them how i'm 17 and acts like its a big deal. BUt, when people leave the room he is really interested in talking to me. The thing is, I don't know if I should go out with him because of the fact that he is 15, and I will be leaving to college (which I know im going to, I already got accepted) in the next 7 or so months. I don't know if I should get into the relationship. 1, because i dont know how serious the relationship will be..(i mean, he's a freshman..) and 2, because I will be leaving.
any advice, please?
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I know a few freshman's dating seniors. It isn't too big of a deal about the age. This is all your choice if you want to go out with him. If you get into this relationship then be aware that you guys might get to attached and then you'll be leaving. But he is a freshman and you don't know mature he is so then again he might not be too serious. So this is all up to you. So just think about it and see what he wants from this. If he even wants a relationship and from what you are telling me, he does. Good luck and I hope everything goes well for you!
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The age difference isn't a big deal, though
you have to wonder why he wants to make it so
when others are around. Immaturity is probably
a good guess. :)
The fact that you will be leaving for college
soon, with a whole new world to explore, may
be more of a factor. If you want to date him,
no big deal. But keep in mind that you might
get pretty attached.
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Age is nothing but a number, but your right in a few ways. A freshman isn't going to be serious about a relationship. I'm a freshman and I don't want a long relationship. Also, you don't know if this guy is going to just use the fact that your a senior to his advantage. And you don't want to get to deep in this relationship just to leave. But YOU need to decide if its worth it. No one can decide for you not me not your best friend not even another person on this site. Make a pro and Con list. If the Pro's outweigh the cons then go for it. As a senior do you want to be tied down your last year? Maybe you should just have fun and keep this guy as a close friend. I don't know though, this is your desition. If this is confusing then drop a question in my inbox and i'll explain.
You probally don't want to hear this because it's going to make you even more confused, but if you really like this guy his age and your age shouldn't matter.
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