Question Posted Wednesday December 24 2008, 1:21 pm
I really need help on this one.
There is this girl i have been talking to for the past 2 or 3 months, there practically isnt a day that went by where we didnt talk, she told me how she wanted to hang out and vise versa, and all of that. well we finally decide to go to a movie the other day, and keep in mind she is a quiet girl. well i had fun, it was a good moive, and she seemed to have fun, but i am not 100 % sure she did. she is kinda short with her answers to me now, but i think it might be due to the up coming christmas holiday (tomarrow). In a couple of days, I want to know if I can just come out and ask her if she is intrested, and if she would like to go out again. is that too creepy and forward. What do you think i should do?
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Thursday December 25 2008, 1:03 am: I wouldn't worry about it. She is obviously still talking to you as much. Just with shorter answers. I think you should ask her if she is interested in going out again. It sounds as if the two of you had fun and enjoy each others company. Good Luck and Happy Holidays. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
Professor_Kaos answered Thursday December 25 2008, 12:20 am: honestly i wouldn't worry about it or her answers. the best way to tell is to just ask her out to do something again. i would make a suggestion of dropping the movie idea though. you can't talk really when watching movies. you need something where there is more of a chance of interacting. you can always say something like "i need to go shopping for a few shirts and i'd love a second opinion." but you'd be able to talk and there are plenty of chances at the mall to try on ridiculous hats and stuff for a joke. there are food courts so you can grab a bit to eat and talk and sort of have plenty of things there that can stir up conversation. even though the mall is generally somewhat boring, it can be a very good casual date place because it can stimulate conversation. [ Professor_Kaos's advice column | Ask Professor_Kaos A Question ]
shelbz7077 answered Wednesday December 24 2008, 10:18 pm: I think you should come out and tell her about it. Don't make it like too awkward though. Tell her how much you like her and for how long and say something really sweet. Maybe do it in person over dinner or something. That would be nice. I hope this helps you. =] [ shelbz7077's advice column | Ask shelbz7077 A Question ]
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