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should i let him in?
this guy and i went out for about a year...we broke up about four months ago, and signs are showing that he wants me back....his girlfriend cheated on him, and its sad and everything. I love him so much. for the past few months i've been with a guy, and all i could do was think about him....but now that i'm about to have that chance to be with him, i don't want to take it because he's hurt me before, and i don't want it to happen again. a part of me feels like he is only running to me because his girlfriend is not there anymore, so he wants to use me to forget about her. I'm just so confused. I don't know what to do or if i'm making the right decision, what do you guys think? thank you!:D
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i understand you can't stand to see him in pain but ask yourself this is it worth breaking up an
happy home , you say you are seeing someone do you won't to leave him for your ex? how do your current treat you? my advice for you is leave the ex where he's at and stay with the current once an person hurt you they can always do it again.
Love yourself first
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If he hurt you once you never know if he could do it again. If you are in a relationship now then I wouldn't ruin it for a guy who might do whatever he did to you again. This guy you are with probably loves you a lot and you don't want to ruin this because if the signs aren't right, then you would've broken up with a great guy. I'm not saying you have to take this advice. Its your choice. Just take some time to think about it. If you really, really have feelings for this other guy then you might have to break up with this guy now unless you can get over him. So just take some time and seriously think about it.
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Trust your instincts. If you feel he is
about to use you to get over what he's lost,
you're probably right. See if he is still
wanting you a month from now.
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I wouldnt take him back, for the obvious reason that he hurt you once. chances are he needs to get over her or he realized what he's missing out on. I wouldnt ruin your relationship now for a boy that might screw you over again.
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