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boyfriend not as active.
*i'm sorry, this might be a bit long.. but i need to say all of this so it'll make alot more sense.
sooo, i just got a boyfriend... ever since 12/29/08
he's sixteen and i'm fifteen.
what i mean by he's not that active, is not in a sexual way.. but i mean in a relationship way.
before we started going out, he SAID that he liked me.. but didn't really seem like it.
he doesn't text or call me as much as he did before, makes it seem like he was losing interests in me. and whenever i texted him, he only texts back when he WANTS to. makes me feel like i'm just there, because he WANTS me to be there.
before, i couldn't take it anymore.. so i texted him saying that he was confusing, and he FINALLY texted back asking why. and i said "tell me this honestly, do you like me or not?" he goes "yeah.. why does it seem like i don't?" and i said "somewhat" and he goes "why" and i said, "because you SAY that you do, but it doesn't seem like it." and he told said "that's because i'm not sure if you like me" that kind of made me go like "what the heckk?" because I'M the one that's been texting him, and he's the one that hasn't been answering. but, we worked that out... but he can't really use that excuse anymore since we're together now.
my last couple of relationships, i didn't take really seriously. but this time, i would actually try to make this one work out. but the relationship can't work out if only ONE person tries to make it work, right? SUPPOSEDLY i'm the first girl that had ever gaven him 'butterflies' and really liked before going out with. he says so, but it sure doesn't seem like it. i'm not sure if he's busy or what not.. but after we went out, my boyfriend doesn't even seem like a boyfriend! our last conversation ended with "HAPPY NEW YEAR!" and "YOU TOO!" *ends...
i would talk to him about it, but it'd probably end up the same as before.. i'm not even sure if he even takes this relationship seriously or not. because i don't want to, if he isn't going to.
sooo, the questions that i'm wondering is.. what do you think is running through his mind? do you think he lost interest? what's your opinion on this? what should i do?
your response is very important to me! please & thank you (:
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I can only guess that if he loves you, not all guys like saying that over and over just to make it special. Tell him this is troulbing you and see if he and you can work it out
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You do need to talk to him. Write a long
letter if it makes it easier. Find out
how he feels.
One thing I can tell you for sure is that
most guys do not think the same as we ladies
do! The same things aren't as important.
What we think of as being ignored, they
think of as "I did tell you happy new year!"
So just talk to the guy. :)
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Alot of things could be running through his head. How did his past relationships end? Have you told him about yours? Did it make him feel uncomfortable? You said that you didn't take your previous relationships serious and maybe thats what he wants. I know you already talked to him but i think you should again this time about what type of relationship he wants. And make sure you tell him what you want even if its not what he wants. Good Luck
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