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ok i have this pimple that is like smaller than a pin head. the only problem is that it is so full of like puss and junk that it is white. i have tan skin so it REALLY shows up. the other thing is that it is like right where the outside curve of my nostril meets my face. so it is sort of hidden in a crease but still really noticable. my mom wont bring me anywhere to go get anykind of nutregina or anything so i need a home remedy on how to get rid of this bugger. like putting some kind of food on it or something. i need help and i need it fast. (link)
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LOL, don't put food on it! Could make it worse.
I would suggest you gently scrape the top off, but those in that crease can get really sore and yukky. Try putting hot compresses on it, maybe a washrag with as hot water as you can stand.If you keep doing this it should bring the pus more and more to the top until it eventually will break on it's own and then hopefully dry up.It may take awhile so be prepared for that.Hope it helps:}
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me and my family are fighting alot lately.. I have a really bad attitude! and I need help! please give me advice! FAST! I'll try anything! (link)
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First you have to get over the bad attitude.Remember that your family members may be big pains in the ass at times but they have your best intrests at heart.
I don't know what causes your attitude so I don't know what to suggest for you to get over it.If it's an anger thing, go outside and scream or get a punching bag and take your rage out on it.:}
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i want to have sex for the first time. what are some procosions to take. and does it hurt? i also heard that you bleed your first time is this true? thank you i rate well. (link)
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1. Condoms, birthcontrol.Preferably both.Condoms to hopefully prevent AIDS and STD's. BC to prevent preganacy.
2.It can hurt.You can bleed.
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Is it possible to be suicidal, but to not have attempted suicide...? (link)
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Suicidal is having thoughts of suicide.
Suicide is the act of killing yourself.
So yes indeed you could think about it but not do it.
People who are suicidal need to get professional help or talk to an adult about their thoughts though because they are nothing to mess with.:}
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i dont know everyone always says "your to abusive" because ill hit guys and stuff just messing around but i guess that is my way of flirting with them but it dosent work aparently what are some ways i could be nicer or just flirt in a more gentle way? thank you. (link)
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Do you like knock them down or something? Who is saying that you're abusive the guys or your friends?
If it isn't they guys saying this and your just giving them a little tap on the arm and not causing them pain I don't see a problem.
If it is girlfriends maybe they are jealous of the attention you get.
You can blow kisses or just talk in a flirty way. Most of those things just come naturally and are hard to just do if that isn't your thing.Just be nice and that is usually enough for most guys.:}
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ok...there is this girl at my school who is like friends with everybody...and shes is friends with me ...well at least i think... but everytime somebody has a party she is the one who hands out the invitations and she looks right at me and doesnt give me one (we talk all the time ) does she have a problem with me? (link)
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Ask her. Only way to find out.Since she talks to you all the time I don't think she has a problem with you. so, just ask her why.
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Hello,
When I am sitting in class, doing my work, and i become slightly bored, i partake in a slightly disgusting habit.
I bite a sliver of a nail off of a finger, keep it in my mouth, then use my tongue to position it so i could slide it out the front end between my two front teeth. I continue doing this at least 4 to 6 times, then swallow the nail.
I am interested in stopping this habit for myself, because I don't think anyone notices it. (link)
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Thats exactly what it is a habit.You've probably been doing it for awhile.Habits are hard to break! Try putting one of those altoid mints in your mouth instead.They are small enought to mess with and give you something to do.Hopefully you can't stick one through your front teeth, but it will keep you occupied!
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My girlfriends bummed because I'm down on myself. She's wondering how she could boost my self-esteem. Any ideas? (link)
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This is a really rotten answer for you but the only one i've got. What do you think? You are the only one who can answer that one for her!
How come your down on yourself? Snap out of it okay? She might get tired of trying to boost you if you don't.
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My cousin is staying over my house for like 2 months and in the begining i thought i wasn't giving my sis any time with her but now i feal like they are leving me out of the picture. I was just in the room they are in and they sorta kicked me out, now i can hear them just laughing away. i don't know what to do and i know i sound really selfish but i want some atention from her to. should i say anything or just leave it alone?
what should i do?
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Don't let it bother you.Tommorrow it will be you and her laughing it up again! Maybe she was feeling a little like she was ignoring your sister and decided to give her some time today.
So I wouldn't get upset and say anything unless it becomes a habit.:}
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Hey, i was the one who asked a question about my boyfriend saying he's not in love with me anymore. Thank you sincerely for your advice, you were right. We just needed a break and now everything is back to the norm. (link)
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I am so glad!Thanks for letting me know.Hope it's all smiles from here on out!:}
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ok, i have a really big mouth, i can't keep a scercret & all of my firends get mad at me when somethihg slips. they never tell me a scerect any more, even though i am working on it. does anyone have any advise. plese help, if u can!!!!!
signed blabber (link)
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ok blabber, They have no choice. They can't tell secrets that are gonna be blabbed.They aren't secrets any more when that happens!
Keep working on it.Maybe someday they will give you another chance. Until then, well you just have to live with the consiquences of your actions.
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hey. my best friend moved last year, well during the summer of 8th grafe to high school, and well we haven't talked much. i text-ed her yesterday and we just texted each other back and forth for a little bit. i wanna ask her to come over and maybe hang out cause its spring break and all but i don't know what to do. can anyone give me any ideas? she's really preppy and her dad is the president of the school board and she's very riche she moved very far away and i want her visit to mean something! i rate well! :) Thanks in advance! (link)
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She would probably like to visit people she knew and go places that she misses.And of course just hanging out with you! If she was your friend before and she was rich then why do you think it would be a problem now? It won't be!
If she lives very far her parents may not let her come.If not, continue to write back and forth and keep in touch. There will be time to meet up later. Hope she can visit and have fun.:}
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Ok...im 14 and i have been made fun of since 4th grade....everyday i get called gay and it just makes me feel terrible...and i dont know why they do it ...i make good grades and im a good person... i jsut would like to know what to do... (link)
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It's hard to get people to shut up once they get started like this.I feel bad for you but, other than to say ignore them and don't let them know it bothers you I'm not sure what can be done.
The smarter ones will grow out of it.I know that doesn't help. Talk to your parents. Maybe it would be possible for you to go to a different school or something.
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Ok well I had a crush on a guy at school (a new kid) and I told my best friend (steph) and not (viv) I didnt tell her because I know she would do something stupid. Well steph knew the guy and talked him ad found some stuff about him 4 me. But then when viv found she got mad at me but then brushed it of then she did the stupidest thing she thought it would be funny if wrote this guy a nasty note and put y name all over it so she did it without telling me and then the next class when he was in my class he through it aint me and thought it was all me because it had my name all over I didnt say anything because I didn’t know what was even written on the note. So I told viv I didn’t want to talk to her again ands hen then started takin all my friends away from me and my ASB teacher started to notice that I wasnt with viv and started questioning me about it everyday until finally on the 3rd day I gave up and I showed him what has been happenin he called it sexual harrassment and said I should have to deal wit it so he gave it to the AP and viv got 2 weeks of cleanin bathrooms and in school suspension and for some reason I feel guilty I don’t know y but I do. Did I do the wrong thing? We on spring break and when we start school again I don’t know what to do can u plz help me? Sry for it bein so long! If you answer it I will give you 5’s!! please and thank you. (link)
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I think you did the right thing.Viv should not do things using other peoples name without their permission.She got off easy if you ask me.
About the new guy. If he doesn't already know about the mix up, and that you didn't write the note go explain it to him. If he doesn't know what is happening he may think you are a real whack job. You don't want that.
Tell him I had a little crush on you, My friend found out and decided to ruin it for me.I didn't write that note to you and I'm sorry if you found it offensive.The teacher found out and has punished her for it. Just thought you should know what was going on. :}
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I have liked this guy for a while and we have become pretty good friends...but only over the internet. we go to the same school and we know what the other looks like and we even say hi to each other sometimes. its really odd because i feel that i know him so well online but at school he's a total stranger. he hangs out with a weird group of guys and i noticed that all his previously girl friends r sluts, blond, and skinny (no offense to skinny blondes). i am a brunette and im definately not a barbie doll. i wouldnt consider myself ugly tho. i think that if he hung around with a different crowd he might like me. i noticed that he wont talk to me if hes with his friends. i think hes a really great guy with the wrong group of friends. i want to tell him me and him should hang out more in person, but i know his friends are going to say no to that. theres absoulutly nothing wrong with me. what do i do? sorry this is so long. i rate really great!
~ Loves a Guy in the Wrong Crowd ~ (link)
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Use the internet!Some people aren't as good at expressing their feelings in person.So, if you want him to hang out with you more then talk about it on the net.
The problem may be that if he is that influenced by what his friends say he may not do it.If he is that incapable of making his own desicions about who to go out with, then he needs to grow up some more before you persue him.
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Ok, Im in love with this girl Renee. She is the greatest thing that ever happened to me. I went away with her for a weekend and I was really happy... she was really happy.. We kissed and stuff. We fell asleep in each others arms. The next day when we were heading home she was kind of distant. I noticed it and asked her if she was having second thoughts. she said she didnt like me as much as I like her and that the feelings the felt that night had gone away.. I still love her, deeply, I think about her all the time, and we still talk, but I dont want to love her but I cant help it and its killing me, I'm afraid if I stop loving her, I'll stop liking her all together, and I really dont want that to happen.. Im not entirely convinced that her feelings for me are gone, I think she is just hiding them, not wanting to be hurt... but I'd never hurt her!
What can I do? Should I just keep trying to get over her? Should I persist? Could my theorys be true that she is just hiding her true feelings? HELP!!
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She's the only one who can give you a definate answer. Have you been out since the weekend trip?
feeling do not usually just go away over night.So unless she has always felt this way that part just doesn't make sense.
I would ask her out again.If she won't go, then I would just forget her and date someone else.I really don't think she's hiding her feelings, she may have always felt the way she does. Sorry.
Talk about it and get to the truth.It will take time to get over and you may have to keep your distance for a while until you get over her.Good luck:}
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I have been married for almost 7yrs and since about a year ago I don't feel my husband loves me like he use to what do I do? Recently his coworker told me that he might be stealing do I say anything to him? I am 27yrs old. He is 25. We have four kids. We just boughgt a house. (link)
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Marriage like everything else has to worked on everyday. Put on the makeup for him,wear a sexy nightie etc. You also need to go out alone sometimes on 'dates'.Make special time for just the two of you. I know with 4 kids all that is going to be hard to do, just do what you can.
The most important thing in any relationship is to communicate with each other.Tell him your feelings and make him work on it with you.Trying to support a family as large as your today is a big job to have.I am sure he is under stress and if he communicates this to you then you'll be able to help him too.
As for the coworker, you might mention (no names if possible) the rumor he told you about so he can get the talk stopped at work.I wouldn't just assume it is true. He needs to know what is being said though.
Good luck.
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Okay I used to have really bad acne on my face and my back. (I know it's gross but I did.) Well now I don't really have any pimples or anything, I have like little red bumps, I think they are scars from pimples I had before. Does anyone know how to get rid of these, and if so, how?? (link)
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unfortunatley scars aren't something you can get rid of.Try putting some foundation makeup on your face to cover (if you haven't already).Just don't put it on real heavy or that will look worse yet. Most of them will probably fade out over time.But probably won't go away completley.
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i have this friend, and he is a year older than me(im 13, he is 14). we met through another friend and we have talked for a long time. He is really hott and hard to resist. we both have webcams and we had gotten naked for each other and we would do stuff for the other one to watch. he had always had a girlfriend during this time and it never seemed to bother him. about 2 weeks ago, we were gonna go on cam again. i took off my shirt and my bra and he was watching and everything was like normal, then, when it was his turn to show, he used the "i cant do this, i have a girlfriend" excuse. i dont know if he really meant it or not or if he just wanted to see and not show. that doesnt really bother me...its just now...that him and his gf broke up, he wants me to show him stuff again and i dont want to anymore. what should i tell him with out actually saying that? please help...i will rate! (link)
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Tell him he had his chance and blew it.Actually you both are going to be real embarrassed if someone catches you. This is really not a very good thing to do.Tell him to get his jolly's somewhere else.
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Okay. I like this guy and I know he likes me. The problem is, in school and on AIM he's always talking to this one other girl. (She has a boyfriend, soo..I know they can't go out) But it always makes me mood so mad, and I just hate him
the rest of the day. He can always tell when I'm mad, and asks "What's wrong?" and stuff, and I never know how to answer. I don't want him to think I'm like..a baby or something for feeling that way, so I never actually tell him. But, like, for instance. If it's a Saturday and we're at home talking on the computer, the other girl will put up an away message with something he said..and I realize that they're having such a more fun/interesting convo then we are. He makes himself be more fun when he talks to her, and that just upsets me so much. I don't know what to do, because a lot of days he's just the best..and we have so much fun, but whenever she's around I know it's gonna be a bad day. (link)
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They must be friends and if so you'll have to leave it alone. You just have to trust him.
You need to ask him about it.Find out the story.But then you will have to be careful about showing your jealousy.Hard as it will be, or it will cause problems in your relationship.
Is it possible for you to make friends with her? Maybe she is nice if he likes her.Then you can keep an eye on her:}
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