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i want to have sex for the first time. what are some procosions to take. and does it hurt? i also heard that you bleed your first time is this true? thank you i rate well.
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Losing you virginity Is a special thing..Most likly it will hurt..But dont worry..And the bleeding some females do some dont. My first time I Only blead a little drop..Some blead alot. and if your scared..then that means you are not ready..wait untill you are..Thanks please rate
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Use a condom, don't get pregnant, don't get caught, it does hurt a little bit, and yes you do bleed but just a little.
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I'm assuming this is hetero (male to female) sex.
1. Condoms
I prefer Durex for 1st-timers since I've had low breakages. Later on, switch to Trojans since they're thinner and feel less like there's a foreign object in your body. The 'ribbed for her pleasure' is not always true. It depends on a number of things such as vaginal lubrication and sensitivity. Make sure that the condom is snug and tight but not choking the penis since it will slip off if it is loose or break if it's too tight. Also make sure you're not allergic to latex. I find it strange that a certain percentage of the human population is allergic.
2. Lubrication
I stress this because it will allow the penis to go into the vagina smoother (thus lessening pain and increasing pleasure). I prefer AstroGlide for maximum smoothness but KY jelly is pretty good as well.
3. Birth Control
If you don't want to be a parent sometime in the next 9 months, this is probably the most important thing to have. At the very least (if you're a girl), get 'The Pill'. It has several advantages. If you're already menstruating, it will regulate your period. A side benefit seems to be a natural increase in breast size. A half-cup size at the very least. The boys will like that, for sure. Also this allows you to time your periods so you will definitely know when it's not a good time to hook up. The only downside is that the pill must be taken regularly while in puberty because once off the pill, you risk having wildly fluctuating periods as well as having an unwanted pregnancy.
4. A Pitcher of Water, 2 Glasses and a Washcloth
Sex is a energetic activity and if the guy does the job right, you should both be sweating and exhausted afterward (but I should warn you that most first timers usually don't do the job right).
The water is there for you to first a) pour into the glasses for drinking to refresh you for (hopefully) another round of fun and b) soak and rinse the washcloth so that you can wipe away sweat and/or blood.
5. Communication
This is very important as well. It's usually assumed that you will talk but, as a reformed young punk myself who's gotten into the panties of many a willing girl, it doesn't take much to trick a girl into having sex. I gotta point out that tricking a girl into having sex is the lowest of the low. Only assholes and horny teenagers trick for sex. Only thing worse than that is rape. If you don't know if your partner has been with someone, you risk the chance of getting an STD. Assume the worst, hope for the best. Also communication is important since you're telling each other how you feel which can highten the sexual experience. I get turned on by intimate talking. It can range from tame 'I love yous' to straight out dirty talk. But the talking itself should be kept to a minimum. I leave that to you.
6. Mental/Emotional State
It somewhat ties into communication but deserves its own category. Simply put: are you prepared, mentally and emotionally to go through with it. You've got to be 100% sure. Nothing less than that or else you'll be in trouble. I guarantee it.
The first time doesn't always hurt. The bleeding doesn't always happen. Usually, it will but if it doesn't, don't freak. I've heard that horseback riding can actually break the wall that would normally be broken during first sex. If you're pretty much like 80% of the female population, then it's a good chance you'll bleed and it'll hurt. But the precautions I've suggested should minimize the pain and bleeding. Another thing to keep in mind is location. I'm assuming you're having sex on a bed. Remember to rub detergent on the bloodstain on the blanket and immediately throw in the laundry.
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1. Condoms, birthcontrol.Preferably both.Condoms to hopefully prevent AIDS and STD's. BC to prevent preganacy.
2.It can hurt.You can bleed.
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Hey hun,
There are alot of precautions you need to take if you're planning on having sex for the first time. First of all you need to make sure that you are old enough and ready to do this. It is a very serious thing and you need to be careful. You could end up getting really hurt in the end if something goes wrong like a breakup. Now you also need to make sure you use protection. You should get put on birth control now. Also use a condom, because birth control isn't a hundred percent effective and neither are condoms. So try using both if u can. I'm sure you're not ready for a baby yet or any std's.
Ok, now it depends on who you are for whether or not it will hurt and how bad. Sex for the first for most people will hurt, but don't worry because the hurting won't last very long and it's not that very bad of a hurting either.
Depending on whether or not you use tampons depends on whether or not you'll bleed. Sometimes the balloon type thing will pop if a tampon hits it. Don't worry because it's not filled with that much blood. Please be careful on whatever choice you decide to make!
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make sure you are ready emotionally, because sex is a rolar coaster of emotions. so make sure you feel safe and that you trust this person with your life because they could be risking your future. and it does bleed for girls and it most likely will hurt. so just think to yourself if you r ready at this point in your life to become mature and have sex.
tell me how it works out
luv britt
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Ok well I don't know how old you are but you should always always use a condem..but i think you should know that by now..haha and make sure the guy hasn't been with anyone that's dirty aka has given more rides then GreyHound. Yes, it does hurt the first time because everything needs to be stretched out down there..you might bleed because your hymen aka cherry poped and thats healthy and normal. You'll bleed for a a day to a couple. Hope I helped! ♥
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First of all, make sure that you're ready emotionally to have sex. Not just that you really like the guy/girl, but that you feel like you're safe with them and that you feel like you're ready. If they're pressuring you into it, then you should take a step back and ask if this is really what YOU want to do.
Also, if you're not on birth control of some form, and you plan on having sex, I would seriously consider that. At the very least, please please use a condom. But! Remember that condoms don't protect you from diseases, just pregnancy... and they aren't 100% fool-proof, either. Just a warning.
It may or may not hurt the first time, it will sort of depend on quite a few factors. Your physical activities in the past (are you active in sports?) because if you're physically active, you are more likely to have already broken or stretched your hymen. It also depends on the man's consideration for it having been your first time. Gentle touches help it to not hurt as much. Bleeding goes right along with this, whether or not your hymen has broken has a lot to do with bleeding.
Hope that helps a little bit!
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hey,....the first procosion to take is make sure you want to lose your virginity. Losing your virginity is a big thing, just imagine how the guy you marry will feel knowing that his wife to be has not had sex before and that she is pure.....but if you think you are ready make sure you are losing it to the right guy. that hes not going to leave you after he has sex with you or that he will have sex with you whenever he wants after hes out smoking and parting. To tell you the truth it does hurt.....a lot.....but the good thing about it is that the guy is there to comfort you and hold you. And you do bleed the first time maybe even the second time. Well i hope i helped.....xoxo......good luck! if you need anything else be sure to email me!
**Gorda1224**
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