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What should I do?
I have liked this guy for a while and we have become pretty good friends...but only over the internet. we go to the same school and we know what the other looks like and we even say hi to each other sometimes. its really odd because i feel that i know him so well online but at school he's a total stranger. he hangs out with a weird group of guys and i noticed that all his previously girl friends r sluts, blond, and skinny (no offense to skinny blondes). i am a brunette and im definately not a barbie doll. i wouldnt consider myself ugly tho. i think that if he hung around with a different crowd he might like me. i noticed that he wont talk to me if hes with his friends. i think hes a really great guy with the wrong group of friends. i want to tell him me and him should hang out more in person, but i know his friends are going to say no to that. theres absoulutly nothing wrong with me. what do i do? sorry this is so long. i rate really great!
~ Loves a Guy in the Wrong Crowd ~
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I don't think its fair to ask him to change his friends just for you, as much as you may want to. You should try to hang out with him some, but just you and him (don't invite your friends, and make it clear to him that he should do the same.) If he gets to know you better in person, and likes you even more, mabey he'll forget about what his friends think. Its worth a try! plus...if he still doesn't want to pursure a relationship with you, than he's not worth your time, you don't want a guy who's so caught up in what other people think. stick to guys who aren't afraid to be themselves!
Good luck!
:)Annie
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Use the internet!Some people aren't as good at expressing their feelings in person.So, if you want him to hang out with you more then talk about it on the net.
The problem may be that if he is that influenced by what his friends say he may not do it.If he is that incapable of making his own desicions about who to go out with, then he needs to grow up some more before you persue him.
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ithink hes just trying to fit in with the crowd he doesnt reall belong in. if hes nice and you get along great online but not so much around his friends hes being fake. im sure the true him is whats on line and with his friends hes frontin. if he doesnt have the confidence to talk to you in front of his friends dont talk to him on line for a while and hell have to talk to you at school and if he doesnt move on
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his friends dont control his life, if you ask him out, he will say yes or no depending on what he wants, maybe he just likes a certain type of girl
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Mabe the fact that your friendship over the internet is so different from your real contact that, it doesnt seem right that you be such good friends at school because the relationship is different when hes alone and so are you. I think you should just carry on the way things are because eather way someone will get hurt and you want to prevent that.
luv roxie
hope ive helped huni
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♥ i think you should tell him....he shouldnt care what his friends think and his friends can't make his decisions for him. i think its great that you want him to start hanging out with better people! by the way even though you say your not a barbie doll what girl is? dont cut yourself short, i am sure you are beautiful! i wish the best of luck!
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heyy I hope this helps I think that he does hang out with the wrong people if he is afraid of saying hi to someone in front of his friends. I think his friends maybe take self advantage of him but you should tell him you guys should start hanging out more and if his friends tell him somethings wrong with you then that guy is a fag for doing that. Alot people would say it's my choice and i will have whatever girlfriend i want.Ya know?well i hope i helped feedback please♥KaYyLa
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