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Haley,Alex,Emily,and Annie forever! and even after that! I love ya'll :)
Gender: Female
Location: Indiana
Occupation: volleyball player
Age: 15
AIM: CaligirlARP
Member Since: March 23, 2005
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Hey all, this is my first question (among probably many) that I'll be asking on this site! Ok now that that's over with, where are some fun places to take your date on? I just started dating (this is my first time ever) (I'm 19) (and she's 17) and already going to the movies is kinda boring. I mean, the whole point of being on a date is to be with the person that you like, and spending an hour or two (or three) staring at a silver screen and *not* talking to the other person seems kinda... strange. We do talk, mainly to make fun of the movie we're watching, but still, where could we go where the activity actually encourages us to talk or play while we're there? thxxx, and i heart all of you :) (link)
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wow, i think that it's really cool that you are asking this. most guys don't really put very much thought into where they go and what they do. It would hlep if i knew where you lived but its okay. If she's really into just having fun and some laughs, ice skating is always a good option. buy her some hot chocolate. but don't stay too long, it can get kind of boring after a while. then you can mabey go back to your place and watch a movie, while getting warm under the covers. i know its still a movie, but its a lot different that a theater, and its caual but at the same time it can be very romantic! good luck! i have many other ideas if this one just doeasn't fit, so ask me if you need more ideas!
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Quick recap-in love with a best friend of 5 years and want ot go farther than just friends. i have been very forward and recently i confirmed his suspicion that i like him (didn't say love-don't want to freak him out). after that, he started avoiding me. other friends have talked to him and say he likes me, but he doesn't act it. I am not shy at all so asking him out isn't a problem, but i don't want to if he is thourghly not interested. if i can't be his girlfriend, i want to at least be his friend again. what should i do? we are both 15. (link)
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wow, you'er just like me! i'm 15 too. I've been in the exact same situation before. what you need to do is talk to him in private. tell him exactly how you feel. tell him that his friends tell you that he likes you, but that you feel that he doesn't show it. Ask him how he feels because you would rather hear it from him and not from his friends. Also tell him that no matter what he says you'll be okay (this helps prevent him from sugar coating things because in the long run that will just make things worse). Just be completely honest with him, and alow him to be completely honest with you. Trust me, you'll feel so much better, no matter what he says because you'll know exactly how he feels, instead of just guessing and wondering. good luck i hope i helped! And remember, if he's truly a good friend, he'll do what he can to make you happy, even if he can't like you back the way you like him.
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I am a sophomore in high school. I have been playing volleyball since I was in 5th grade. I have played on my school team and a travel team for the past 3 years. I've also had asthma since I was 3 years old. Having asthma makes it very hard to do most of the stuff we have to do. This year, we have a new and very hard coach named Beth Ann. She expects us to be Olympic athletes. If we make one bad pass, she makes us do like 3 suicides. I can't handle that. The first day, I puked twice. Plus, the coach underestimates me. The back row passers can't make a decent pass, and I'm a middle hitter, and i make more decent passes. She doesn't tell us how to fix our mistakes, she just makes us run. We run more than play the game. I can't handle it anymore. I've just lost interest in the game.
This is the tricky part. My dad is big on watching me play volleyball. I don't want to quit, but I really think I should. My sister quit her sophomore year also. How can I break it to my dad nicely that I don't want to play anymore? I don't want to piss him off. Asthmatics shouldn't even be playing sports. Ya konw? I don't want to be a quitter, but I want to be able to breathe. Someone help! Sorry about the length! I'll rate every good answer a 5. (link)
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hey! i totally understand! i've been playing volleyball since the 4th grade. I'm a freshman now and on the Varsity team at my highschool, we just got a new head coach this year too, so i'm pretty understanding of your situation. I don't have asma, but i've had injuries that have put me into similar situations. my advice to you is that first and foremost you need to decide weather you really want to quit. I think that you should wait to make decision untill at least your first win. I say this because after you win that game you'll have an incredible feeling of accomplishment, and for those few moments you'll understand that all that hard work and pain is what makes those other wonderful feelings possible. I'm sure that your team will have great success if you and your teamates continue to put in the amount of hard work that you are now. you just need to think about what is more important to you; becoming a better volleryball player and haveing many more great irreplaceable moments of victory and accomplishment, or the chance to never have to suffer through another painful and hard practice. its up to you, just make sure that whatever you do you do it for you, and not for anyone eles (like your dad).
:)Annie
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Ok. First, my sister is graduating this year. Second, im getting ignored a lot lately. Its been really bugging me and i cant stand it. All my parents talk about is my sister and how shes growing up. Im not jelous but it would be nice for my family to acknowledge me once and awhile. I love my sister and im gonna miss her when she goes to college but shes not the only one on the planet right now... should i talk to my sister and parents about it or what??? UGH! (link)
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I think that right now you just need to let your sister and your parents have their time. I know its hard, i'm the youngest of 5 and i've had to go through just what you are many times. your parents are just realizing that for the first time their "little girl" is going to leave them and go out on her own for the first time. Its hard on parents. but trust me it'll get better once they've gotten over the fact that she's on her own now, they'll put all their time and attention into you. If i were you i would take full agvantage of the fact that they're not paying a whole lot of attention to you right now. it could work for you!
hope i could help!
Annie :)
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I have liked this guy for a while and we have become pretty good friends...but only over the internet. we go to the same school and we know what the other looks like and we even say hi to each other sometimes. its really odd because i feel that i know him so well online but at school he's a total stranger. he hangs out with a weird group of guys and i noticed that all his previously girl friends r sluts, blond, and skinny (no offense to skinny blondes). i am a brunette and im definately not a barbie doll. i wouldnt consider myself ugly tho. i think that if he hung around with a different crowd he might like me. i noticed that he wont talk to me if hes with his friends. i think hes a really great guy with the wrong group of friends. i want to tell him me and him should hang out more in person, but i know his friends are going to say no to that. theres absoulutly nothing wrong with me. what do i do? sorry this is so long. i rate really great!
~ Loves a Guy in the Wrong Crowd ~ (link)
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I don't think its fair to ask him to change his friends just for you, as much as you may want to. You should try to hang out with him some, but just you and him (don't invite your friends, and make it clear to him that he should do the same.) If he gets to know you better in person, and likes you even more, mabey he'll forget about what his friends think. Its worth a try! plus...if he still doesn't want to pursure a relationship with you, than he's not worth your time, you don't want a guy who's so caught up in what other people think. stick to guys who aren't afraid to be themselves!
Good luck!
:)Annie
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Okay I used to have really bad acne on my face and my back. (I know it's gross but I did.) Well now I don't really have any pimples or anything, I have like little red bumps, I think they are scars from pimples I had before. Does anyone know how to get rid of these, and if so, how?? (link)
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I'm not sure, but you should see a dermatologist, they'll beable to give you something to make them go away.
:)Annie
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hey! okay, today i went tanning for the frist time. i went in a medium ed for 10 minutes, and used the special lotion they give you. i came home tonight, more than 6 hours later, and took a shower. just one certain spot on me is red, actually 2. it's normally where i get sunburn. could i have possibly gotten sunburn , or is it like an allergic reaction to the lotion? i don't think it's the lotion, since wouldn't i have gotten taht all over my body? just wondering if it is sunburn how can i prevent it next time and put anything on it to make it go away? thanks! (link)
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yeah, it is sun burn, well probably. I got burnt pretty severly the first few times i went, so it can happen. try a regular bed for a while, then ease into going longer, and in stronger beds, be patient though, let your body adjust.
:)Annie
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i have been seeing someone on /off for the last ten years . recently moved out because the depts are way to much for me, i know he cheats on me so why do i feel like i cant move on??? (link)
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Spend at least a week or so away from him. go on a trip with some of your girlfriends, and take your mind off of him. spend time at clubs, parties, beaches, surround yourself with friends, and try to hang out where lots of avaliable guys would. If a guy flirts with you, feel free to flirt back, try to consider yourself single, and not connected this guy of ten yrs. just see how you like it. it will help you move on and realize that you can do so much better. good luck
:)Annie
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How do I get my hair to become straight and stay like that? It's a little wavy right now. What kind of products should I use? My hair is kind of thick too. (link)
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Remington wet to straight straightner! it's made to straighten "hard to straighten" hair types, like yours. it works great! and it keeps your hair straight untill you wash your hair. I definate recomend it! only about 30$ too!
:)Annie
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Do braces affect making out in any way? (link)
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no, trust me, been there, done that
:)Annie
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how long does it useally take for a tan to fade away? (link)
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are you talking about tanning beds or regular sun? it depends in that, cuz regular sun tans last longer than a tan from a tanning bed
:)Annie
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One of my ex's moved back and he is trying to pry me away from my boyfriend. He is also always teasing me for the worst things and he won't stop. I can't stand him!!! He is awful. So how am I suppose to deal with this jerk?? Please help!! (link)
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you need to set up a time when u and your ex can be alone and talk. you need to tell him very seriously that you have a boyfriend now, that you like very much, and you have absolutely no intention of breaking up with him. Tell him that you no longer have feelings for him and that he needs to stay away from you. If he refuses to listen tell your boyfriend and have him talk to your ex.
:)Annie
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