One of my ex's moved back and he is trying to pry me away from my boyfriend. He is also always teasing me for the worst things and he won't stop. I can't stand him!!! He is awful. So how am I suppose to deal with this jerk?? Please help!!
LindasCounsel answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 3:02 pm: Dear Oldlove,
First of all, this 'jerk' can't make you feel bad without your permission. You are buying into this whole thing for some reason. If you truly can't stand him and really think he is awful, you would do everything in your power to stay away from him. So, what's going on?
Personally, I would tell him in a very straightforward manner, (not in a mean way) that he is not in your life anymore and you won't tolerate his behavior. And you have to do it with almost no emotion so he really feels like you mean it. The fact that he keeps doing and saying things to you means that he thinks he is getting to you. It's up to you to shut it down.
Good luck!
Linda [ LindasCounsel's advice column | Ask LindasCounsel A Question ]
charmed-cherry21 answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 12:56 pm: Tell him to leave you alone and that you don't like him anymore and that you love your boyfriend and that just because you won't leave your boyfriend doesn't give him the right to pry you away from him and to tease you.
emma24792 answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 12:53 pm: you need to tell him how you feel and that you dont like him and he needs to know the feelings u have for your boyfriend tell him hes something from the past and we have to concentrate on the presant and futer good luk emxx [ emma24792's advice column | Ask emma24792 A Question ]
iluvkel10 answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 12:26 pm: Try talking to him aobut it, tell him you don't want to be with him and your happy with your current love. Tell him he needs to stop teasing you because its getting old and its just m,aking him look like a jerk. If that don't work then talk to your boyfriend aobut it, so theres no trouble tell your boyfriend that you arn't interested in him. Hope it helps! Good Luck! [ iluvkel10's advice column | Ask iluvkel10 A Question ]
vbkilla answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 11:32 am: you need to set up a time when u and your ex can be alone and talk. you need to tell him very seriously that you have a boyfriend now, that you like very much, and you have absolutely no intention of breaking up with him. Tell him that you no longer have feelings for him and that he needs to stay away from you. If he refuses to listen tell your boyfriend and have him talk to your ex.
XSugarPieX77 answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 10:26 am: Hey. Just tell that guy to leave you the hell alone. If he keeps on bothering you then get a restraining order. Dont talk to him and when he talks to you just ignore him. Hes pretty stupid if hes making fun of you and its immature. I'm guessing your a teenager so, sometimes guys can be immature. Tell someone that hes bothering you. He probably just really really really really wants you back, but, oh well, you have a boyfriend lol.
~Brina~ [ XSugarPieX77's advice column | Ask XSugarPieX77 A Question ]
kriddle06 answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 10:04 am: tell him to back up off of you and that you have a boy friend. if your boyfriend is bigger then your ex boy friend, tell him that you will have to get your boyfriend to warn him. but you can still be friends with your ex boy friend, it doesn't hurt to have a ex boy friend as a friend have a little likeness in your heart to have another because if you can have 10 friend you can always use one more
karazimonki answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 10:00 am: You can try talking to him. Tell him that you have a boyfriend. It also sounds to me a little like harrassment. Tell him to stop and if he doesn't tell an adult. Good Luck.!!
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