ok well you see i have this friend and well he flirts with me all the time i mean really flirts and him and my brothers are friends and he says he cant do anything witch means he cant have a relationship but then again he asked all these sexual questions and well bascially he wants to have sex and well im still a virgin in every way and i dont want to but hes very persusve and well i tell him no but he still asks and if theres no relationship i cant do that im mean im16 not stupid and i dont beleive in fwbif so what should i do give in or stand my ground.
x_spolied_x answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 4:26 pm: NEVER do something taht you dnt want to do (especialy taht) just tell him no nd if he keeps aksing tell your bro to tel him to stop
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TeenageCupid answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 1:05 pm: hell no! dont give in!
1- there's nothing between you and him
2- you said he's very persuasive, so he's obviously trying to use you just for sex
3- you're a virgin, so at least let your first time be special, not with a guy you have nothing for.
4- What would your brothers say or do once they find out?
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zapreth answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 1:03 pm: Stand your ground! You don't want it, he's using your friendship as blackmail. Let your brothers know what's happening. They can help, and I hope they will. The boy is no longer your friend if he ever was. Good Luck! [ zapreth's advice column | Ask zapreth A Question ]
iluvkel10 answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 12:20 pm: Deffinatly stand your ground. If thats not somthing you want to or feel comphertable doing then don't. It kinda sounds like all he wants is sex. If he really liked you he waould wait and theres no point in getting caught up with people who only want sex. Because you will end up hurt. Stand your ground!! Hope it helps! [ iluvkel10's advice column | Ask iluvkel10 A Question ]
kriddle06 answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 10:12 am: girl i think you should stand your grounds don't give in to no nasty guy i mean you can get to know him a little more but don't do nothing with him because that your brother best friend in other words don't give it up until you're in something serious
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