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Should I ask him out?
Quick recap-in love with a best friend of 5 years and want ot go farther than just friends. i have been very forward and recently i confirmed his suspicion that i like him (didn't say love-don't want to freak him out). after that, he started avoiding me. other friends have talked to him and say he likes me, but he doesn't act it. I am not shy at all so asking him out isn't a problem, but i don't want to if he is thourghly not interested. if i can't be his girlfriend, i want to at least be his friend again. what should i do? we are both 15.
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Trust me best friends and dating does not work out. I've learned this over and over again. I've gone out with 5 guys who are like very good friends with me and everytime I have to break up with them because it just doesn't feel right. If you like him this much give him a try I suppose but you'll probably learn how things go and usually it doesn't work out after you date or tell him you like him with being friends.. I dunno
I say give it a try if you like him this much maybe your a little different than I am with guys.
I hope I helped.
Allieboo <3
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You just need to talk with him and be honest. Just pull him off somewhere where you two can privately talk and ask him whats up. Just tell him you've been hearing from people that he has feelings for you and you want to know if that's true but also add that if he says know, you'll be fine with it. That no matter what answer he gives you, you still want to remain friends in the end cause you'd hate for this to ruin your guys's friendship. If he does say that he's not interested, then just be like," Alright then. Can we at least be friends?" At first I might be a little awkward, but if you just keep the conversation going between you two and don't think about the past, then you can become friends again. This has happened to me before ( except we broke up ) but we ended up friends and it's like we never even dated. I hope I helped =]
Love,
MELii
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wow, you'er just like me! i'm 15 too. I've been in the exact same situation before. what you need to do is talk to him in private. tell him exactly how you feel. tell him that his friends tell you that he likes you, but that you feel that he doesn't show it. Ask him how he feels because you would rather hear it from him and not from his friends. Also tell him that no matter what he says you'll be okay (this helps prevent him from sugar coating things because in the long run that will just make things worse). Just be completely honest with him, and alow him to be completely honest with you. Trust me, you'll feel so much better, no matter what he says because you'll know exactly how he feels, instead of just guessing and wondering. good luck i hope i helped! And remember, if he's truly a good friend, he'll do what he can to make you happy, even if he can't like you back the way you like him.
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