Hi again people help my out. By the way the people that never heard of me my I'm a girl and I'm 14 and my bff (which is a girl) is 14 and we've experimented 3 times and liked it. She hasn't completly told me her feelings about me but she sends me signs. I've been hesitant to tell her because I wasn't that sure about my being bisexual or straight. Now I'm positively sure I'm bisexual. Know that I've decided to tell my best friend that I'm attracted to her and that I want to be with her I don't know what to say! I mean should I play a love song and sing it to her or get a really good poet and read the love that I have for her from the poet's writing that relates how I've been feeling about her. Help a girl out, Please!!!
Miss_Lily answered Monday March 28 2005, 11:23 am: I think that you should hold off on professing your love to your friend until you find out if she has the same feelings for you. If she doesn't share your feelings, then singing a song to her or reciting a poem coudl weird her out, and ultimately you could loose a friend. What exactly are the signals that she is sending you? Does she show that she likes you as more then a friend? Or are you confusing her <b>friendship love</b> for you as something else? You need to be 100% sure that your friend is just not using you to experiment, or if she really did like experimenting with you. I noticed that you said that <b>you liked it</b>, but you did not mention once if she said that <b>she liked it</b>. Talk to her, and try to see where she is coming from first. [ Miss_Lily's advice column | Ask Miss_Lily A Question ]
laadeedaa answered Monday March 28 2005, 10:24 am: Be honest. Tell her how you feel. It's very important that you let her know what is happening and how you are feeling. Don't be scared to let her know that you are attracted to her, and that you have feelings for her. She shouldn't be that freaked out since she had been intimate with you before. It's natural to be curious, and she may have been only experimenting. but tell her you care about her anyway, no matter which way it goes.
Good Luck.
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mrs_radcliffe answered Monday March 28 2005, 10:00 am: I think you should just tell her, be really honest about it and tell her the truth dont go over the top and start singing to her because she might see it as a joke! which isnt nice if you really feel that way.
Poem is good why not find a nice boarder and print the poem of and when you give it to her tell her how you feel about her and dont leave anything thing out, you never no she might feel the same way.
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