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I am friends with the most popular girls in school but sometimes it seems like they dont want me around. I dont know what im doing wrong. I have always wanted to be friends with them. My best friend doesnt talk to me when they're around and i dont know why.How can i be better friends with them? (link)
first off, if your best friend doesnt talk to you when there around shes not your friend.i think if you have to try to hard to be friend with them its a waste of time. being friends with someone doesnt require any skills. you should feel happy to be around them and they should feel the same.i think you should get new friends friends that make you laugh not laugh at you. hope i helped


Hey,

I have naturally tight curly hair its like in ringlets, also it is frizzy. I hate it soo much. PLUS it is REAllY thick its like when my hair is down it comes out like 5 inches off my head well I dont exactly measure.. anyway. Yes, people always take the mikky out of my hair and its just so big, curly and frizzy... I try straightening it but it takes 4 hours and its not completly straight and its still big and frizzy even when i use "Hot straight". I use strong mouse, 'Deffine & No frizz", "Just for me lotion", and all kinds of things on my hair but its till frizzy,big and curly! How can i make my hair look sleek, shiney, straight, thing and no frizz!! People say getting it layered helps but i tried that and my hair looks even worse and its thicker! Please, please, please, PLEASE help!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Charleigh xx (link)
i have the same problem. DONT CHEMICALLY RELAX IT NOT EVEN THE JAPANEESE CHI. i did and it was straight for 2 months.and yes it was expensive 150 dollars. what i do now is as soon as you get out the shower put frizz eze serum or somthing along that line. just squeeze out your hair dont rub or pat with a towel. then right after the serum put gel anything for curls i like the loreal in the dented bottle i think its springing curls. NEVER USE MOUSSE. the purpoe of mousse is to give more body wich really means expand it and we dont need that. so then after the gel in let it allmost dry then use the defuser never dry your hair without one dont scrunch the hair justput your fingers on the ends and pull down while holding the difuser on it that will loosen it up when dry just add a little more serum then spray it with humidity resistan hair spray then you should be fine hope that helps i know it was long but it took me years im 20 to figure that routine and trust me it works also when you cut it have them thin it out with thinning shears.


The other night, I was out with a friend, and we met up with these guys. I guess you could call them 'skaters'. So. The two of us walked around, while they skated around us. They asked us if we'd let them finger us, and we joked around saying yeah. We told them we'd have sex with them in an instant, even though we were kidding, which I guess they didn't realize.
So, we headed for a park by a school, and they got behind a bush and pretty much just pulled it out right there, and they were begging us to come back there and, well jerk them off. I wouldn't do it because quite frankly, I've got a little more self respect than that. I wouldn't let my friend do it even though she was tempted because she has a boyfriend and she knew she'd regret it right after she finished.
So, these guys were telling me I'm a total "downer" and a "prude" and later they told my friend that they really didn't like me, just because I wouldn't give them a handjob.
So, I feel really bad about myself, like I let them down or something, even though I know that they're just huge jerks. For some reason, I can't stop thinking about it and wishing that I had just done it and everything would be fine now.
I'd really like some advice about what I should do. Thanks. (link)
well first of all you told them you would have sex with them. how did you expect them to react? you cant joke like that with guys thats how girls get raped. then they cry about it and the guy gets wrongly accused of something.you have to think about what you say to guys they are only thinking with thier penises. be careful.


My boyfriend and i have been dating for the past 5 months. We go to the same high school, but next year he is going to a public school and leaving me at the private school we both go to now. He has had sex before and i havent. He wants me to but i tell him im not ready and he says he can wait. I love him so much and he tells me he loves me to, i just am nervous to have sex with him and then he will leave. and i dont want the condom to break and im stuck having a kid. Plus the main promblem is what will god think of me? Please Help!!!!!!!!! (link)
i think you should wait. if hes had sex before, obviously hes not with the girl anymore. think about that. did he dump her right after.5 months isnt really thatlong.if the time is right you wont be nervous it will just feel right.


I have liked this guy for a while and we have become pretty good friends...but only over the internet. we go to the same school and we know what the other looks like and we even say hi to each other sometimes. its really odd because i feel that i know him so well online but at school he's a total stranger. he hangs out with a weird group of guys and i noticed that all his previously girl friends r sluts, blond, and skinny (no offense to skinny blondes). i am a brunette and im definately not a barbie doll. i wouldnt consider myself ugly tho. i think that if he hung around with a different crowd he might like me. i noticed that he wont talk to me if hes with his friends. i think hes a really great guy with the wrong group of friends. i want to tell him me and him should hang out more in person, but i know his friends are going to say no to that. theres absoulutly nothing wrong with me. what do i do? sorry this is so long. i rate really great!

~ Loves a Guy in the Wrong Crowd ~ (link)
ithink hes just trying to fit in with the crowd he doesnt reall belong in. if hes nice and you get along great online but not so much around his friends hes being fake. im sure the true him is whats on line and with his friends hes frontin. if he doesnt have the confidence to talk to you in front of his friends dont talk to him on line for a while and hell have to talk to you at school and if he doesnt move on




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