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do they want me to be their friend


Question Posted Monday April 25 2005, 8:04 pm

I am friends with the most popular girls in school but sometimes it seems like they dont want me around. I dont know what im doing wrong. I have always wanted to be friends with them. My best friend doesnt talk to me when they're around and i dont know why.How can i be better friends with them?

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qotsa369 answered Monday April 25 2005, 10:08 pm:
Maybe your too fat, or ugly.

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sweetypie answered Monday April 25 2005, 9:50 pm:
first off, if your best friend doesnt talk to you when there around shes not your friend.i think if you have to try to hard to be friend with them its a waste of time. being friends with someone doesnt require any skills. you should feel happy to be around them and they should feel the same.i think you should get new friends friends that make you laugh not laugh at you. hope i helped

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gomesy1189 answered Monday April 25 2005, 9:14 pm:
Dont ever change you for people... thats just fucked up... talk to your friend.. tell her how you feel... if she is ur best friend she should listen and be there for you... trust me... hope i helped

Gomesy

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SheDidntLuvUAnyways answered Monday April 25 2005, 8:50 pm:
I remember those days when I used to want to be part of "the in crowd". You have to realize that you should'nt want to be friends with these girls just because they're "popular".

Your best friend probably feels left out because she is probably getting the idea that you would rather hang out with them instead of you. Or maybe she realizes that these popular girls are not all as theyre cracked up to be.

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nikiadvicer101 answered Monday April 25 2005, 8:30 pm:
they might not b ur friends and just using u .like me my friend tricia hangs around all her black friends and ignores me and is mean 2 me if they r going 2 do that dont b there friends ne more. Find new and better 1's!good luck:)

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Avocodo answered Monday April 25 2005, 8:17 pm:
You are probally doing nothing wrong, its just the way the popular people think. You can try to be friends with them, but you have to stop and think, Are they really your friends? Would you friends act like they wouldnt be around you? its true that your best friend is acting the same way, but thats because she might feel like you are ignoring her. you could be friends with the popular gruop, but do you really want to ruin your other friendship for a new group. just be nice, be yourself, and be caring. and whoever stays by you is your REAL friend.

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LinDsx3 answered Monday April 25 2005, 8:14 pm:
dont ditch your best friend to be popular.. friends are forever and trust me the popular girls arent gunna be forever.. but if you want to be friends with them then get their screennames and IM them and ask to hangout and stuff.. hope i helpedd<3.. oh yea invite ur best friend

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