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The other night, I was out with a friend, and we met up with these guys. I guess you could call them 'skaters'. So. The two of us walked around, while they skated around us. They asked us if we'd let them finger us, and we joked around saying yeah. We told them we'd have sex with them in an instant, even though we were kidding, which I guess they didn't realize.
So, we headed for a park by a school, and they got behind a bush and pretty much just pulled it out right there, and they were begging us to come back there and, well jerk them off. I wouldn't do it because quite frankly, I've got a little more self respect than that. I wouldn't let my friend do it even though she was tempted because she has a boyfriend and she knew she'd regret it right after she finished.
So, these guys were telling me I'm a total "downer" and a "prude" and later they told my friend that they really didn't like me, just because I wouldn't give them a handjob.
So, I feel really bad about myself, like I let them down or something, even though I know that they're just huge jerks. For some reason, I can't stop thinking about it and wishing that I had just done it and everything would be fine now.
I'd really like some advice about what I should do. Thanks.
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EW! Not worth your time! These are fly-by-night manwhores, not God. Who the fuck cares what they think? You're not a prude- you have SELF RESPECT. There is a huge difference. Do you think it really would have been a better decision to do things with people you'd just met? What if it really had led to sex? How would you view yourself after that? And how do you think people would view you?
Personally I'd rather be viewed as prudish than some dirty slut.
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You made the smartest decision, you sound like a great person when you say, "quite frankly, I've got a little more self respect than that." That is a great answer. Why damage yourself by giving a complete stranger what he wants, and then to insult you for not? My advice would be to think about what decision you made, which was the right one. They said those things because they are little jerks, and they are mad that they didn't get what they wanted. Lots of guys like to do this, its called trying to make you feel guilty for what you don't want to do. Things wouldn't be fine for you if you had gone through it, because then you would have let yourself down. You didn't deserve of of those rude remarks from them, but they are typical teenage guys who will pay their high price in the end for their disrespect towards you and other girls. You are a great friend, too! She felt pressured and you stopped her, that is so great, if it weren't for you, her and her boyfriend probably would have split because of her overwhelming regret. But she better be careful with that, because with her doing it because of feeling tempted gets you in serious trouble. You did the right thing, you should have no regrets.
-TheTeenGirl
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Look girl your get a bit of cock later in life its not like a life time oppertunity there just desperate little boys... anyway you probably wouldnt be able to find there wackers any way
lush me x hope it helps babe
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There is nothing that you need to do. You did the right thing. You said that you had a lot of self respect for yourself to <b>NOT</b> do something like that, so why are you downing yourself now? There is no point for you to feel bad about making a decision that kept you with your self respect intact. Those guys are not worth the stress. If they want someone easy, let them find someone else to jack them off.
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Good for you. You have nothing to feel bad about.
It wasn't real smart going off with guy's you don't know though. You got very lucky.There are some thing's that it's best not to joke about.
You can't stop thinking about it because it was a bad situation. Those guy's could have just as easily have hurt you guys. Please be more careful. But YOU DID NOTHING WRONG.
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Don't ever tell a guy you'd fuck them. You see the results and his cock. Yeah haha funny; well joke's on you when he rapes your ass. Next time just say no.
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no, you did the right thing, screw them, they should respect you. if you had done it, you would've regretted it because they would come back for more and tell their friends, thats how rumors spread, you definitely did the right thing, dont feel bad, you should be proud. those guys seem like whores, they're not worth it. hope i helped. -angel
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It'll pass. But I know how you feel. What I do is just remember that I don't have to prove myself to anybody in high school, because most of the kids there will most likely be bums while I make something of myself in the future. I'd rather be called prude than easy anyway, wouldn't you? Hope ya feel better.
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well first of all you told them you would have sex with them. how did you expect them to react? you cant joke like that with guys thats how girls get raped. then they cry about it and the guy gets wrongly accused of something.you have to think about what you say to guys they are only thinking with thier penises. be careful.
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You didn't let them down! You owe absolutely nothing to them. What did they ever do for you? If you had done it, you would feel much more guilty than you do now. What if it had led to other things, and you had been raped? They are just insecure about themselves and thought that by insulting you they could get into your pants. You did the right thing, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
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These guys are jerks and you did the right thing. I know you regret not doing it, but you'd regret it even more if you had done it. I know how it feels to regret something, but if you think about it a little more you'll realize what you did was right. What if you did that and then they'd though it'd be okay since you did that, that you'd what to do <strong>it</strong> with them. What would you do in a situation like that? You got yourself out of a huge mess. If anything, you should feel proud, not regretful! Who cares if you let some random guys with raging hormones down? They could find another girl with no self respect to do that to them any day. ♥
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