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Question Posted Monday March 28 2005, 1:22 am

Ok well I had a crush on a guy at school (a new kid) and I told my best friend (steph) and not (viv) I didnt tell her because I know she would do something stupid. Well steph knew the guy and talked him ad found some stuff about him 4 me. But then when viv found she got mad at me but then brushed it of then she did the stupidest thing she thought it would be funny if wrote this guy a nasty note and put y name all over it so she did it without telling me and then the next class when he was in my class he through it aint me and thought it was all me because it had my name all over I didnt say anything because I didn’t know what was even written on the note. So I told viv I didn’t want to talk to her again ands hen then started takin all my friends away from me and my ASB teacher started to notice that I wasnt with viv and started questioning me about it everyday until finally on the 3rd day I gave up and I showed him what has been happenin he called it sexual harrassment and said I should have to deal wit it so he gave it to the AP and viv got 2 weeks of cleanin bathrooms and in school suspension and for some reason I feel guilty I don’t know y but I do. Did I do the wrong thing? We on spring break and when we start school again I don’t know what to do can u plz help me? Sry for it bein so long! If you answer it I will give you 5’s!! please and thank you.

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karenR answered Monday March 28 2005, 11:27 am:
I think you did the right thing.Viv should not do things using other peoples name without their permission.She got off easy if you ask me.

About the new guy. If he doesn't already know about the mix up, and that you didn't write the note go explain it to him. If he doesn't know what is happening he may think you are a real whack job. You don't want that.

Tell him I had a little crush on you, My friend found out and decided to ruin it for me.I didn't write that note to you and I'm sorry if you found it offensive.The teacher found out and has punished her for it. Just thought you should know what was going on. :}

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xosweetiepiexo answered Monday March 28 2005, 10:53 am:
well... viv could be mad because maybe she likes the same guy you do... and that you didn't tell her... did you explain to her why you didn't tell her?... i don't think you should be friends with her... it sounds like she's jealous of you... and you definetly deserve a better friend than her... yyou didn't do anything wrong... your teacher was the one who turned viv in... maybe you should talk to your crush about this and tell him it wasn't you and that you really like him alot... and maybe you'll hit it off =] hope i helped

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