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My cousin My cousin is staying over my house for like 2 months and in the begining i thought i wasn't giving my sis any time with her but now i feal like they are leving me out of the picture. I was just in the room they are in and they sorta kicked me out, now i can hear them just laughing away. i don't know what to do and i know i sound really selfish but i want some atention from her to. should i say anything or just leave it alone?
what should i do?
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just say "hey guys im really bored. what are u doing?" ]
Invite a couple of your friends over, and while you guys are having fun your sis and cousin will want to come in and when they do just be like Why should i let you guys in if you dont let me hang with you two, and then me like well since im nice i'll let you. Talk to them about how you feel { not in front of ur friends} 2 months will be a long time for you not to be able to hang with them lol. Good Luck.
~Brina~ ]
well i have this girl cousin too, and she and my older sister are closer in age and so they kinda have similar things happening in their life... and so sometimes i feel left out. But they always seem to include me... but for you i would tell them how you feel. No one likes to be left out... <3AmBeR<3 ]
Why not talk to your sis about it, Tell her that you feel left out and that you want to be partn of it! And that you miss having fun with her. Tell her your sorry for been so distant and never giving her time but your willing to talk to her and work everything out.
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ha! This reminds me of the way my cousin and I used to treat my little sister. We would always hide from her and do mean things. We grew out of it. She would get soo mad bc we left her out, when actually, sometimes we really didnt mean to. Maybe you should tell your cousin and your sister how you feel. Ask them if they wanna go do something with you. Dont worry, its just a temporary thing~ they will grow out of it. They will get tired of doing things by themselves and want you to join~ just dont worry ab it and dont try too hard! lol! funny question.
♥Emily ]
Don't let it bother you.Tommorrow it will be you and her laughing it up again! Maybe she was feeling a little like she was ignoring your sister and decided to give her some time today.
So I wouldn't get upset and say anything unless it becomes a habit.:} ]
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