Okay. I like this guy and I know he likes me. The problem is, in school and on AIM he's always talking to this one other girl. (She has a boyfriend, soo..I know they can't go out) But it always makes me mood so mad, and I just hate him
the rest of the day. He can always tell when I'm mad, and asks "What's wrong?" and stuff, and I never know how to answer. I don't want him to think I'm like..a baby or something for feeling that way, so I never actually tell him. But, like, for instance. If it's a Saturday and we're at home talking on the computer, the other girl will put up an away message with something he said..and I realize that they're having such a more fun/interesting convo then we are. He makes himself be more fun when he talks to her, and that just upsets me so much. I don't know what to do, because a lot of days he's just the best..and we have so much fun, but whenever she's around I know it's gonna be a bad day.
You need to ask him about it.Find out the story.But then you will have to be careful about showing your jealousy.Hard as it will be, or it will cause problems in your relationship.
Is it possible for you to make friends with her? Maybe she is nice if he likes her.Then you can keep an eye on her:} [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
RaeKay answered Sunday March 27 2005, 11:29 pm: okay so if this guy really likes you he should be great around you and try to make you feel great. i think he likes this other girl to and he tells you he likes you because he does but if she doesnt want him then second best is always great. you shouldnt let him treat you like you're second best. talk to him about it and just ask him straight out if he likes this other girl and not you anymore. if he doesnt answer and keeps making you feel this way then he's not worth it. no girl should ever feel second best. good luck! [ RaeKay's advice column | Ask RaeKay A Question ]
knoxcheer answered Sunday March 27 2005, 5:45 pm: hey i would just talked about it ! it might help and say i feel like you like taht girl it just upset mr because when you talk to her and hang out with her it seem like you have more fun with than me and it really upset me because i like you a lot and i thought you liked me too! good luck [ knoxcheer's advice column | Ask knoxcheer A Question ]
XOCaliHereWeComeKayXO answered Sunday March 27 2005, 5:45 pm: wow i just went through the smae experience with my ex i got jealous of his best friend gracie and they kept on talking and talking and everyday when she came up behind him and hugged him id get overraged with jealousy and id have to run off soemwhere before he noticed but i know how you feel and i think you should just lay off it alittle or you could try and make him jealous the way i did ;-) i used my guy best friend and everytime he came up with gracie id come up with my guy best friend but i got one of my friends to ask him are you jealous of kayla and derek and hed say no there just friends and thats waht helped me there probobly just friends i hope i helped feedback please -kayla [ XOCaliHereWeComeKayXO's advice column | Ask XOCaliHereWeComeKayXO A Question ]
Sherry answered Sunday March 27 2005, 5:43 pm: Well, I know you want to do something about it but theres really nothing you can do. Their friends and you should accept that. If you were his girlfriend, you could have a say in it but right now all you can do is be his friend and focus on your relationship. Dont focus on her so much, just talk to him and have fun. Pretty soon you'll go out and then you can talk to him about her if you want. Good luck, sorry if I didnt help much! Keep me updated if you can. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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