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big mouth
ok, i have a really big mouth, i can't keep a scercret & all of my firends get mad at me when somethihg slips. they never tell me a scerect any more, even though i am working on it. does anyone have any advise. plese help, if u can!!!!!
signed blabber
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I have that same problem! (not really) haha youre screwed!
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so dont make them tell u anything
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eat a lot of peanut butter - it'll stick your mouth shut!
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hmm...yea one of my best friends has that problem, but i pretty much got used to it, and told him things anyway, its not like it matters, geez people are gonna find out one way or another.
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well if you keep askin them to tell you secrets they will never tell you.just try not to talk to much and try and gain their trust back.some people just want to tell their secrets even to their best friends even with alot of trust ,they just dont want anyone to know.
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Its pretty normal to want to tell someone something that you have heard. If it wasnt juicy, then it wouldnt be a secret. Most secrets do get told, especially when girls are involved. Just try to put yourself in the other persons position, because they might really not want you to tell. Just consider your friends~ and try to understand where they are coming from. They dont have to tell you their secret in the first place. I know its hard, but try!
♥Emily
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i know it might be hard but instead of you bringing up something about one of your other friends bring up something about yourself! try not to talk about your friends and just concentrate on talking about yourself. (dont worry its not selfish even though it might sound that way) if theres nothing new with you or nothing you want to talk about yourself then dont talk about anything at all. if you're on the phone tell the person you have to go. if you're talking to them in person make up and excuse or talk about something like music or movies! i hope i helped!
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ok blabber, They have no choice. They can't tell secrets that are gonna be blabbed.They aren't secrets any more when that happens!
Keep working on it.Maybe someday they will give you another chance. Until then, well you just have to live with the consiquences of your actions.
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Think about it... would you really like it if you trusted your friends to keep your deepest secret and then they just went and blabbed it to everyone else? Next time you think about blabbing your friends' secrets to others, just zip the lip. Just think how horrible or embarrased your friends feel when everyone finds out about about their secrets. And then when they figure out that their best friend who they TRUSTED, told everyone their secret, just imagine how they feel. Think before you talk. It's great that you're working on it, and i hope my advice works, or even helps at all. Hope you learn to keep your mouth shut. haha
The wonderful ***PINKYMEOWCAT*** hah
PS. Seriously dont mean to be mean! Just want to help you out.
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i think that you should ask your friends to give you another chance and keep working on it. practice on a little sibling, like get them to tell you a secret and dont tell anyone for as long as you can. wat you can do after that is tell your friends how you did and get them to tell you secrets again. hope i helped!!!!!
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Just dont say anything to anyone. I know it might not be that easy but before you tell anyone ANYTHING catch yourself before you say it. It just takes practice and stuff. Think before you speak and you should be fine! good luck !
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