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ok well ive never had birth control and ive never had sex but well do they have to do somekind of exxame and well i dont like docters but if they have to do an externly exame will they break through your maiden head (link)
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Yes you will have to have an internal exam to get on birth control. No they won't break anything when they do it. A nurse will be in the room the whole time too.
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Hi ive been finding it really hard to sleep for the last few days, can anyone give me some advice on how i might be able to get a few hours at least of sleep thank you..
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I too suffer occasionally from the my brain will not shut up syndrome!
I have tried this simple thing with some success...Turn around and sleep with head at the foot end of the bed. Sounds stupid but it does work. Must be the change in location...don't know. But, it does work.
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these past few days i've been doing ab excercises 8 minutes a day and i just found out how to do an arch by leaning back and well i've done it alot today and now my back hurts. is the arch stuff the cause for the back pain? i don't know what else cudda caused it and do any of you have advice on how to get rid of the pain? (link)
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You probably zigged where you should have zagged somewhere in there.Try 15 min. heat and 15 min ice. See if that helps along with some aspirin.
It will yake about 3 days to feel better. If not go to Dr and have it checked out.
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i went to the beach last weekend and got VERY sunburned. my right leg and foot are swollen and hurt very badly, and i have to drive for 2 hours tomorrow. Any way to take down the swelling from my burn on saturday, or to help the burn heal faster? (i've already used aloe multiple times) thanks! (link)
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I don't know how fast it will heal but, take a cool bath with baking soda or cider vinegar in it to help relieve the pain.
If you get any fever, chills or nausea see your doctor.
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how long does it take for leg hair to grow back? I'm 13. (link)
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It depends on the person really. Usually about a week though.
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What do you do when people tell you that you've changed, because i've been involved in alot and i've lost two of my really close friends because of that. What should I do? I don't even think I changed. I'm just being myself =]
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You may have matured more than they have. They may be more mature than you. Teens are all about changing!
Ask what has changed about you, at least you'll know. If they no longer want to be friends it's their loss.
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Ok, well, me and my 2 friends, Emily and Zoe, were in the same class in 4th grade, and now this year Emily is in a different class than me and Zoe. She only has 2 friends, and some girl bullies her sometimes, she is so stressed out all the time because she has dislexia, and she cant "tell me and Zoe any of her secrets becuz she doesnt trust us" (?). Dont get me wrong, Emily is nice, and me and Zoe really want to be her friend still! Our friendship is fading and me and Zoe r pissed off. Please, what can I do to keep our friendship going?
I am a female and 13 years old. (link)
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Did you guy's do something that made her not trust you? You need to figure out what it was so that you can go about fixing the problem.
You all need to get together and have a long talk. Get to the bottom of what is bothering her. Maybe she just feels left out because she isn't in your class anymore. Be sure you are including her when you are all together and not talking about people or things she doesn't know about.
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ok...one of my BEST friends is very flirty! I'm not sure why...but she is! It seems like all she wants to do is flirt and be ually active with guys! I havn't been hanging out with her as much because of this...If she happens to get pregnant or any type of thing, I don't want to be apart of it! She always wonders why I don't hang out with her as much and I tell her...but she always denies doing the things she does. How can i help her realize that i don't want her getting hurt and hang out with her more...WITHOUT her getting upset with me?!?!?!??!?!
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You can be her friend and hang out with her without condoning her behavior. So long as you aren't acting that way.
If you really no longer want to be her friend then her feelings really shouldn't matter. Just tell her you no longer want to be friends and don't talk to her anymore.
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Ok, so over spring break I was on a cruise, and well, while I was on there i met a girl. We kind of talked but didn't really hang out until the last night where we messed around (made out more or less) and then she went to bed and it was supposedly over. Well since then we've been talking over email and IMing and such, but I didn't hear from her for about a week and I kind of forgot her last name. It's really been bothering me, but I don't want to just ask her because it just seems kind of horrible that this girl messed around with me and I don't know her last name, or don't remember it at least. (link)
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Have her write you a letter. Tell her to be sure and put the return address on it so that you can write back. Then you have her name. Tell her you want a letter to carry around with you. :)
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okay so i am and only child and im am the total opposite of spoiled! if ne thing im way over protected! my parents are really tight! and they wont let me do n e thing! im 14 and im goin out with this boy but i dont kno how to tell my parents.. i mean they kno that i like this boy and he likes me but how can i get them to let me go out with him? or like just atleast hang out with himout of school? i get good grades and im honest with them and they trust me and i deserve to b able to have more privalages! how can i just explain to them that everyone has a boyfriends when your my age and that most of them are allowed to go out on a date with them? (link)
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Sounds like you have a good relationship with your parents. Don't mess it up. Just talk to them about it. Maybe invite him over for dinner first and let them meet him and get to know him a little. THEN, after they have met him they will be more approachable about going on a real date. Good luck :)
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okay- here goes.. well.. lately my dad has been acting wikkid weird.. everything you say to him, he turns into an agument... my mom tried to tell me its because his dad (my papa) just dies in november, buthe has been acting like this only sincethe end of february.. well.. any way, my point is i really wanna know how i can get him to either stop turning everything into an argument , besides "talking to him" because, really, that doesnt work because he'll just get mad and FLiP OUT! PLEASE HELP ME!! i rate really good!! (link)
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He is probably depressed over his dad's death.It can hit people at diffrent times and everyone handles grief diffrently.
Just try not to take his being argumentative too personally and he will snap out of it. Hopefully soon!
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so i leftmy binder in my dads truck and he read through one of my notebooks...a very private notebook i might add...he read how many guys ive had sex with and diifernt drugs ive tryed and shit like that...he told me this tonight as he pulled it out of his briefcase....and read me all the passages...how should i handle this...cuz hes not handling it too well...:/ (link)
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I think you are going to have to put up with it.
He has every right to look at it in my opinion, and evidently reason to suspect you were up to something. Why would you write all that in a notebook anyway?
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ok.. so my mom got a boyfriend and shes 48 hes 38 and i am 15 he also has a son who is 7 years old.
well my mom was a single mom ever since i was 3 and as a couple of boyfriends all that she has broken up with .
She basically raised me to hate guys .. i guess
so now that she has a new boyfriend they are all touchy and feely and its is doo discusting. i mean they like do it right infront of me .. i mean i guess they think i should be used to if because im 15..
Or sometimes she will stay out till like in the morning .
I dont knowif this is a question more like i need advice cause im just so fustrated..
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Just tell your mom theat you are uncomfortable with all the touchy feely stuff. Ask her if she could just not do it around you.
I don't think she raised you to hate guy's.It's probably just a Yuk, this is my mom doing this thing!
If it's really that bad I guess you could request that she let you stay with a relative.Nothing else it would make her realise that you seriously don't like the behavior.
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Theres this guy that I have been friends with forever and he has always liked me. The other night we were in his room and we kissed but it was just a peck. I didn't even like him and now after that I am starting to like him. Theres only one problem. He's a really mature and great guy and hes my type exactly and I think he'd make a terrific boyfriend except for my mom thinks hes too young for me. I'm 14 and he's 12. I promise you, I think he's more mature than me, hes definatly more experienced he already lost his virginity. I'd have to keep this relationship from my parents. I really want to date him because personality wise, he's great. Looks wise, he needs to have a growth spurt. He will soon. Should I wait a few years till he does? And then my parents might let me, or should I sneak it and date him now and take the risk of humiliation? I really am liking him and I don't want to wait! But I think it might be best...I need opinions!
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Since he is only 12, regardless of how mature he may act I would just wait.
Don't even start sneaking around because it will get you nothing but trouble. Just be friends for now, you have plenty of time for the rest of it when you're a little older.
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Hey I need some help.. I am getting sent away soon and I am like in love with my boyfriend.. he is in a boys homeand I'm afraid I am never gonna get to see him again. I am afraid to tell him how I feel.. then there is this new girl coming to our school and she wants to hook up with him and he likes her too... i dont want to leave.. because I don't want to lose him.. please help.. i dont want to lose my baby boi (link)
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I'm sorry, If you're leaving and he likes her there just isn't a whole lot you can do.
You can write him and all that and remain friends, maybe get back together in the future.
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15/f-i've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, and we were best friends for nearly a year prior to ever dating, we're very serious about each other and he means a lot to me. lately however, i've been thinking about other guys, such as two of my best friends, who i had crushes on in the past, i know that i care about my current boyfriend more than them, and that i don't want to give up what i have with him, but that doesn't stop me from wondering about these other guys that i wanted a relationship with at one time. What should i do? thanks! (link)
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If you're looking around and wondering about other guys you are not ready for a serious relationship. Date all three guys.
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I was great friends with this lad ages ago, but then he moved stage school so I don't get to see him a lot, only when hes in shows and my parents don't let me stay after to wait to see him. I also found his number the other day but you know people they change phones so I don't know if it is his number or not!
Please help!
Becky
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Well try the number and see! Maybe you could leave a note for him at one of the shows with your number on it, email etc. Maybe he will contact you.
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i go to this really preppy biotchy school in dc (all girls, private, kiss kiss) but anyway, i used ta be a really sweet person and like really focused and dedicated in life, but my school has really changed me...i find that i am really judgemental of people in a bad way...and i spend way too much time deciding what to wear and i do alot of trashy stuff with guys...what should i do? (link)
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Since you realise that what your're doing is wrong, try to stop. Put more effort into your school work instead of trying to be like everyone else.
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Ok well theres a couple of things..ever since 4th grade me and this girl have been friends..once we started middle school we didnt see each other much and seemed to get in alot of fights..we are friends again now but only at like school but eversince the begging on this year..her and my best friend are like the greatest friends now..she left my lunch table to sit with her..she hardly calls me anymore and we like never hang out anymore...sometimes i will go to the table she moved to so i can talk to her or w.e but half of the time she wont even look at me or talk to me..just ignores me. Then the other day i walked passed her in the hallways like 3 times that day and i said hi each time but she wouldnt say anything back..and once after skool i went up to her and said hi..then she didnt answer and seen her other friend and shoved me out of the way to go talk to her..i ask her if shes mad at me about sumthing but she says no. wtf is going on..everytime i try and talk to her all she does is deny it all or get mad (link)
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She may not be mad at you but my guess is she doesn't like you. Don't waste anymore time trying to be friends with her.Why subject yourself to that treatment.
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Well..ever since about november i have liked this guy i go to skool with..we talk online and he calls me sumtimes and we have hung out a couple of times..well when i see him around all his other friends..he acts nothing like that around me and it seems like our friendship isnt as good as the other peoples and this just crushes me...ive told him before that i like him but he just wants to be friends..ALSO i have a big problem with depression/anxiety and whatnot and he used to be really worried and he would help me alot but lately him and my firneds dont seem to care..i ALWAYS help them with their problems but when i need help im just "bitching" ugh..now one of my friends is mad at me cuz i have been throwing too much on her lately and she says that the guy i like is getting fed up with me..i asked him and he swears he never said anything like that and hes not..but idk wut to do (link)
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You need to get help for your depression and anxiety.
People will get tired of hearing it if you are negative all the time.It tends to put them in a bad mood. And depressed people are usually negative a lot of the time. Being your friend (bf/or gf) has probably gotten to be just to much
to handle.
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