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15/f-i've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, and we were best friends for nearly a year prior to ever dating, we're very serious about each other and he means a lot to me. lately however, i've been thinking about other guys, such as two of my best friends, who i had crushes on in the past, i know that i care about my current boyfriend more than them, and that i don't want to give up what i have with him, but that doesn't stop me from wondering about these other guys that i wanted a relationship with at one time. What should i do? thanks!
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though it's hard, you can try and focus a little more on your current boyfriend, because if your two best friends, whichever one your after, doesn't like you back then you're left with no guy to love. If you do break up with your current boyfriend, and then you start going out with one of your other best friends, think of how your boyfriend is going to feel. hope that helps xoxo.
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Its natural to look at other boys! i mean after all your only human! but just remember that 6 months count for a lot. its because you feel so comfortable with your boyfriend that now your alowing yourself to look at others. you just have to remember that it ok to look but not to touch! dont worry about it! everybody does it!
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It's always natural to wonder what if. What you need to ask yourself is whether keeping your current boyfriend or finding out what could have happened is more important to you. Just realise that these 'what if's might not work out, but you;ve been with your boyfriend 6 months...surely that counts for more than what is in the past? There's a lot of difference between a crush and a 6-month relationship.
What's in the past is in the past. You've just got to decide whether you want to live for then or now.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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just don't worry about it. it's just being curious. but just think about your bf everytime you think of them and how much he means to you. and you could talk to him and be honest because he probably has teh same feelings for other girls.
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If you're looking around and wondering about other guys you are not ready for a serious relationship. Date all three guys.
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well if u love yur bf. stay wit him. its not bad to like or admire others a little while wit sumone. its perfectly normal. and besides, if you go out wit neone else, u will ruin yur current relationship and if the new one doesn't work yur all alone. so just stay wit yur bf and dont risk it. hope my opinion is of use
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