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my mom, her boyfriend and me


Question Posted Tuesday April 5 2005, 12:33 am

ok.. so my mom got a boyfriend and shes 48 hes 38 and i am 15 he also has a son who is 7 years old.
well my mom was a single mom ever since i was 3 and as a couple of boyfriends all that she has broken up with .
She basically raised me to hate guys .. i guess
so now that she has a new boyfriend they are all touchy and feely and its is doo discusting. i mean they like do it right infront of me .. i mean i guess they think i should be used to if because im 15..
Or sometimes she will stay out till like in the morning .
I dont knowif this is a question more like i need advice cause im just so fustrated..
ill rate
thanks


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LiSaxOBaBii answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 8:32 pm:
Even though it may not seem like it.This is a great oppurtunity.You now have a father.Also you have a 7 year old brother...Babysitting money!!!Maybe he will even look up to you.The more the merrier.This is really more about your mom because she needs someone on her level to relate with.Now there will be more love to go around..
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FlaWlessMonoLith answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 8:08 pm:
i think you should try it sometime it could be fun hehe

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orphans answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 4:06 pm:
It's going to be difficult for you to accept any boyfriend of your mum's because you are close to your mum and you love her, but she's only trying to move on with her love life and she'll be as upset as you are now if you don't as least try and get to know her boyfriend. It's going to be hard for all of you.

If your mum and her boyfriend cuddle and kiss in front of them, leave the room, or mention to your mum that you're not comfortable with it because you feel like you're losing her.

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lostinside answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 12:50 pm:
I would tell your mom how you feel about what they do in front of you. Just tell her you feel uncomfortable with them doing that kind of stuff right in front of you.

Try thinking of the positive side. Maybe your mom's really happy with him. So you can try to be happy that your mom is happy.

Hope I helped!

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girdy_goo15 answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 9:59 am:
well tell her what's going on. she's a mother and she needs to act like one. and be responsible. but she does need to be able to have a life outside of family. so just talk to her.

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karenR answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 8:15 am:
Just tell your mom theat you are uncomfortable with all the touchy feely stuff. Ask her if she could just not do it around you.

I don't think she raised you to hate guy's.It's probably just a Yuk, this is my mom doing this thing!

If it's really that bad I guess you could request that she let you stay with a relative.Nothing else it would make her realise that you seriously don't like the behavior.

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FunkyHoMoSapien answered Tuesday April 5 2005, 5:46 am:
ok, first i'm a guy if that matters, but i think its cause yur not used to seein yur mom like this. so its a new experience kinda thing. i personally think it will stop seeming so horrible. idk but i think ur just gonna have to be patient.

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