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this girl just turned 16.. her name is Olivia.. we met b/c she goes to my school and we've been good friends and we made each other laugh and had a pretty fun and good relationship but then she broke up w/ her freshman b/f.. and we started talking.. and we had late conversations on the phone and talked on AIM alot. The problem is.. i can't say I'm in love w/ her truly if she doesn't talk to me in person.. she treats me like ne other friend when I'm around her but on the phone.. we're good.. and i asked her about it and she told me we just need to get to know each other better. Her best friend is giving me feed back on how she likes to flirt... and she went on a one on one "go out"... it wasn't supposedly a "date".. should i give this girl a try or just stop it?
-Hewitt, 14, TN (link)
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I think you should give it a try. Don't tell her you love her right away though. It may scare her off. Just date for awhile and get to know each other better. Ask her out over the phone since she seems more talkative then. :)
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hey... my boyfriend and i just had a big talk and he wants to be in "time-out"
i have no clue what that means just that theres no kissing at school (so he said). now i dont know how to act around him or what to say to him
My questions are ... what do you think time-out is and how should i act around him at school???... im so confused and lost in all of this (link)
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You just stay away from him at school. I think a time out means just that. He doesn't want to date anymore. Sorry.
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Hey i my girlfriend broke up with me becasue i have something like bio polar anger problems and we got in a fight and i fought back 4 once and she dumped me me and my friend thought she kinda liked me a little but i just found out she doesnt me but i really really still love her and i didnt mean to scream and theres no hope to get her back but i love her still and cant get her out of my mind
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Write her a long letter. Apologize (if you need to!) and tell her your feelings. Even if she doesn't like you any more it will make you feel better. It's also much easier to get your thoughts out on paper than when talking to someone. You're not as easily distracted by what they jump in and say ya know? Good luck, don't give up quite yet. Try a letter first! :)
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So my boyfriend and I started officially "going out" on wednesday. Whereas before we were just dating and such. We were never really talked on the phone before other than for him to call and make plans and to tell me he was coming to get me. So anyways I would really like to talk to him, I texted him yesterday but he hasnt called me yet. Do I just wait untill I see him again or untill he calls or do I just get over it and call him.....(thanks) (link)
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He probably hasn't called back or texed because of work then. You can call if you want. Maybe leave a messege for him to call you back. You could also just wait until you see him again and ask him about it. :)
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Hey ya'll. Thanks for looking at my question.
I like this guy, Danny. Well, I don't really like him, but you know that crazy feeling that you get when you sort of like someone yet you sort of don't? (Confusing I know..)
Well I'm 17 and anyways, I kind of have the hotts for him and we talk alot on the AIM. I've know him for all my life, and we've just sort of gotten attracted to each other.
I think I could like him more than just attraction and fooling around.
The bad part about it is he lives in another state, and he's my best friend's brother. But I go out there frequently.
But I have no idea how to present the idea of liking each other to him. He is nineteen and of course its not that bad, I'll be of age soon.
I'm really bad with words and want to ask him if he feels anything for me and would like to have a relationship with me. In a nut shell. I don't want to freak him out, or make him think that I just sit around thinking about him all day.
Help please, thanks :)
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Next time you are talking on AIM, tell him next time you're visiting...why don't we go see a movie or something? See what his reaction is. :)
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I need help on asking a guy to come and watch a movie with me...i don't know how please help!!
I don't wanna look like a doofus.....lol:) (link)
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You won't look like a doofus :\
Just go say would you like to go see *movie title* with me?
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I have an extra curricualr activity. There's this guy there. His name is Gabriel. He's not the hottest guy in the world, but I think he's totally nice. We have a lot in common. We see eachother once a week, and talk on AIM. We're in different grades. He's in 8th, I'm in 7th. We don't go to the same school, and won't be able to see eachother over the summer. I really care about him, but he doesn't know. My friends think he's ugly, and that even if he is nice, he's not worth it because he's ugly. I don't care about looks so much. I'm really shy too...
What should I do? (link)
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I think you go out with the guy. Have you ever noticed that some people who aren't considered real handsome get better looking once you get to know them? The opposite is true too. My brother was at one time married to a very good looking girl...until she let that personality out. UGLY, that girl got ugly! So, don't let looks stop you from getting to know this guy. His looks will change to your friends once they get to know him. And, if they don't so what. They are shallow and you're not. Good for you! :)
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What can I do to help myself get over an unforgotten loved ex, and move on with a new one, without feeling like I'm just with the new person to make the other one jealous, or hurt? My ex treats me like crap no doubt about it, thats gotten so bad that him and I can't even remain friends, but getting with this new person that I've known for a long time, practically 5 years will be very strange because I've known the person for so long. People are telling me to follow my heart, but my heart is leading me wrong. What can I do to help this matter?
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Give the new guy a fighting chance! Who knows he may be great. You won't get the ex behind you until you move on. So, give it a chance. :)
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There's this guy I like... he's amazing. But the problem is... he has a girlfriend. Hes a good friend of mine and he used to have a crush on me, and we still flirt but I keep reminding myself hes not single. I don't know what to do. On top of this he and his girlfriend never kiss, or hug or do anything girlfriend/boyfriendy stuff with eachother..and they have nothing in common.Do I wait it out? Or is there some other thing I can do to stop driving me crazy every day? (link)
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Yes, you wait it out. Stealing boyfriends isn't a good thing to get known for. If their relationship isn't good, it won't last long. As soon as he's free then go for him! :)
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Okay so theres this guy that I really, really like, and I know he likes me too.. The only problem is, I know he's going to ask me out soon, but every time I get a boyfriend, I freak out and think that they don't like me and I get convinced that they're only staying with me to be nice, and I really don't want that to happen with this one.. Any ideas on how to stop freaking out and just let things happen?? thanks so much! (link)
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Trust me guy's don't stay with any girl just to be nice. If he is with you, he likes you. Nothing to freak about! :)
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ok i'm really good friends with this guy, and we have been friends for almost two years, and friends with benefits since february. we decided that we weren't gonna try to go out (i'm 17, he's 16). recently he got a girlfriend, but things aren't goin that well between them. i tutor him twice a week, and recently he tried to hit on me and stuff like that (we stopped the benefits when he got his girlfriend). he says he's gonna break up with her, but i don't want to do anything with him until they've actually broken up. how do i get him to understand that without being mean or making him think that i want them to break up? (link)
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Why are you worried about being mean? Forget the friends with benefits thing, he's the one getting the benefits, not you. Now the new girlfriend probably isn't putting out so he wants you too. If you're smart you'll not fall for that line. Stick to your guns. Tell him no benefits now or not unless your relationship has a future. :)
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ok i'm a 15 year old girl and i need some answers about 2 or 3 weeks ago me and this sophomore that goes to my school we did some "stuff" we went to like 3rd base. I went over to his house like 2 or 3 weeks ago on monday and we just made out ALOT then on tuesday was when everything else happend everything was fine before that and then on thursday i asked if he wanted to come up to school and just hang out or w/e and he was like "no thanx" and so i asked why whether it was b/c he couldnt or there was nothing to do there and he said both and that i didnt talk and i was clueless after that i obviously wanted to kno why he said that so i called him and talked to him and all he gave me were half ass answers and he was being an ass the next day at school when i was trying to text my brother and he texted me and was like "stop talking to me" so i was like wtf but i didnt care i was mad at him than and still kinda am so my question is what is his deal and did i get used? (link)
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Yep, sounds like it. He got what he wanted, Simple as that. Next time make the guy wait. The nice ones, dating you because they really like you, will stick around even if they don't hit a homer. Wait until you find one of those guys. :)
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On me n this guy's first date, we went all the way to 3rd base... and thenw e went out for like a week or 2 longer and then broke up.. rumors flew around the school which caused the break up.. now he and I merely talk.. but consider each other as friends still... I think i still like him.. but I don't think he likes me... how can I change his perspective of the relationship.. and why do I still like him? Thanks ahead of time! (link)
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If you don't think he likes you the same then there is probably no reason to try to get him interested again. Your feelings will change once you get your mind thinking about someone else. :)
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I like this kid alot, we went out a while ago but things were different then. hes become alot more popular wit the girls and everything now, and hes really cocky too, i told him i still liked him and he said he might like me and i wouldnt be wasteing my time going for him. But he'll flirt on and off and says he doesnt like anyone. should i just give up on him or try and make him like me. (link)
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Sounds like he doesn't want to commit to anyone right now. Stay friends with him and maybe he'll think of you when he decides to be serious. :)
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how do you become out goin? i mean im really out going and funny when i get to kno someone really well. but its realy hard for me to just meet someone and hit it off right away. what are some things you say to like a cute boy you see at the mall or someone you see that looks like alot of fun and want to talk to? (link)
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I know what you mean. I'm the same way. I think the people who are really outgoing are just born that way. Some of us are not as lucky. Maybe a more outgoing friend could get the conversation going. :)
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ok this might be long.. im 14/f.. im best friend who i love so much is going out with this very possesive guy.. hes always with her and always wants to be with her.. hell get mad when shes with me, and if he doesnt see her he will get mad.. they always get mad at eachother for stupid things.. and shes always in a bad mood when im with her because she knows her bf is mad.. i hate it when shes in bad moods because she never was until she went out with this guy.. i mean they dudes a great guy but hes just way too possesive.. so they got into an argument when i was at my best friends house.. my friend ran upstairs crying and i had no idea what to do.. i went up and i heard her crying so hard.. ive never heard anyone cry like that before.. she was taking all the pictures of her and her bf and throwing them everywhere.. slamming picture frames against the door.. i didnt know what to do i just hugged her.. so we went out that night.. her bf apologized and wanted to go back out with her.. and of course she said yes and they were hugging and kissing not even 4 hours later.. they are a real serious couple.. but you dont understand how pissed i was to see them like that.. i have a feeling that he knows he will always get his way.. my friend didnt know if she should go back out with him.. but she did.. i dont know but it makes me angry.. im invisible to her when shes with her bf but when shes mad she always expects me to be there for her.. and i am but she cant be doing this.. i dont know what do you think? (link)
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I think she needs to ditch the guy myself, but she won't listen to us! He probably won't change any, if you're lucky she will figure that out pretty soon. If she doesn't you just better start carrying a lot of tissues around because she'll be crying on your shoulder a lot! You're doing about all a friend can do. If you say anything bad about him she will just get mad at you. Just be there when she needs you. :)
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ok.. ive liked this guy for a while now and now he knows and i can tell he likes me too but i think that were both afraid to talk to eachother :(.. i really really like him and i wanna be able to talk to him but im really really shy. and plus ive never had to go and talk to someone, theyve always came to me. but anyways.. its been a few weeks and i jus wanna get it over with and talk to him...but the thing is.. i dont kno wut to say, and when or w/e so can u pleasssee help me?? im starting to get frustrated with myself cause i cant do it. I dont have any classes with him so i cant send a note or anything,plus hes not that kinda kid.. and i really wanna do something tomorrow so i can talk to him.
I rate high!
*LaLa* (link)
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You can talk about anything really. The weather, maybe if he's wearing a t-shirt with a band on it you could comment on that...use your imagination. :)
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hey! my dad told me that if i get a 92 or above on my report card at the end of the year, then he will get me a new cellphone. but see, i have a problem..softball has started and so that is what im worried about. and i havent been finishin my homework at home and i havent been studying. i need some tips to start buckling down. my lowest grade is a 78 and my highest is an 89(?)..can someone help me? i only have about 4 weeks left of school... (link)
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Getting a cellphone should really be enough incentive to study hard for your tests! Even with softball. If that doesn't get you going, nothing will. :)
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ok me and my x went out for over a year.. and i was in love but we broke up because of my parents and because after we broke up the first time it didnt feel right. well now i cant get over him he likes one of my close friends and she likes him and their guna go out probably today or tomarrow im guessing and it hurts so bad i cry all the time over him he touches all these others girls and i get so jealous. his best friends try and help me they say i deserve better which not trying to be rude i definitly do, and i kind of went far with this kid up 2 3rd base but like he promised not to tell anyone what if his new gf asks him how far he went he would tell her wouldnt he? and well his bff's stand in front of me whjen im staring at him nd im hanging out with more guys so im definitly trying but then it all comes to the night when i always use tot alk to him everyday now i miss his phone calls before they seemed to get annoying and he promised wed be friends but he says im being rude becuse i cry too much how is that being rude because i care? so we might not even be friends anymore and it hurts so bad..i just wnat too know what are some good ways to get over him? and what about the friend thing..or any advice PLEASE!! i serioulsy hate my life now because of him becuse hes gone, but heres the weird thing i DONT want to go back out with him i loved him, but he was a bad bf he got mad at me for stupid reasons so were definitly not going back out but i still love him..how can i stop?
THANKS! sry about the length (link)
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The best way to get over one guy is to find a new one.:)
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My boyfriend's mom is so controlling! She tells him what to do all the time, and the worst part is, he does it! For example, she told him to wear something even though it didn't match at all, yet he ended up wearing it cause she told him to! It drives me completely crazy! He does stuff like that all the time for her! I really want him to stand up for himself, but he says he has to do what she says because she pays for everything for him. And another bad part to this problem is that he's 23, we've been dating for 2 years, and he's about to graduate college! I want to confront him, but I don't want him to get angry with me for it. How should I go about it? (link)
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He may never change. I sure hope not for your sake. I can't see what her paying for everything has to do with her setting his clothes style for him. I think a serious discussion is in order. If he doesn't change and do his own thing now, she will be controlling him forever. That wouldn't be good if you plan on taking your relationship further.
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