ok me and my x went out for over a year.. and i was in love but we broke up because of my parents and because after we broke up the first time it didnt feel right. well now i cant get over him he likes one of my close friends and she likes him and their guna go out probably today or tomarrow im guessing and it hurts so bad i cry all the time over him he touches all these others girls and i get so jealous. his best friends try and help me they say i deserve better which not trying to be rude i definitly do, and i kind of went far with this kid up 2 3rd base but like he promised not to tell anyone what if his new gf asks him how far he went he would tell her wouldnt he? and well his bff's stand in front of me whjen im staring at him nd im hanging out with more guys so im definitly trying but then it all comes to the night when i always use tot alk to him everyday now i miss his phone calls before they seemed to get annoying and he promised wed be friends but he says im being rude becuse i cry too much how is that being rude because i care? so we might not even be friends anymore and it hurts so bad..i just wnat too know what are some good ways to get over him? and what about the friend thing..or any advice PLEASE!! i serioulsy hate my life now because of him becuse hes gone, but heres the weird thing i DONT want to go back out with him i loved him, but he was a bad bf he got mad at me for stupid reasons so were definitly not going back out but i still love him..how can i stop?
cutiepie2006 answered Friday April 22 2005, 6:09 pm: hey! that sounds really sad. i was in love with this guy and he broke up with me on my birthday! what i did was go to a christian bookstore and got a book about relationships. it helped me alot! i felt happy fo rthe first time in months. i also tried dating other men. try talking to ur ex and if he doesnt want to talk then you should really forget about him. [ cutiepie2006's advice column | Ask cutiepie2006 A Question ]
o0xbrianna answered Friday April 22 2005, 1:56 pm: In my opinion, your friend shouldn't go out with him. You guys were going out for a long time. It's normal to be jealous, so don't worry. It will take time, there is no way to stop loving someone fast. Well, you can always think of the negative things between you guys. That could make you hate him! Good luck and sorry!
ZoeyBrooks answered Friday April 22 2005, 11:32 am: There is no way to stop loving someone quickly these things take a long time so be patient and you'll soon get over him!
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