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What is his deal?
ok i'm a 15 year old girl and i need some answers about 2 or 3 weeks ago me and this sophomore that goes to my school we did some "stuff" we went to like 3rd base. I went over to his house like 2 or 3 weeks ago on monday and we just made out ALOT then on tuesday was when everything else happend everything was fine before that and then on thursday i asked if he wanted to come up to school and just hang out or w/e and he was like "no thanx" and so i asked why whether it was b/c he couldnt or there was nothing to do there and he said both and that i didnt talk and i was clueless after that i obviously wanted to kno why he said that so i called him and talked to him and all he gave me were half ass answers and he was being an ass the next day at school when i was trying to text my brother and he texted me and was like "stop talking to me" so i was like wtf but i didnt care i was mad at him than and still kinda am so my question is what is his deal and did i get used?
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The deal is, is he probebly thought to himself that maybe he is to old and maybe was just using you. He was wrong and all guys are guy like that. I'm sure there will be another one thats your age for you and wont treat u like a piece of crap.
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ya you got used by an ass my cousin is the same way don't worry just forget about him
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That is a very shitty guy.. Um hun it sounds to me like this might of been a one time thing.. he apparently dont like you.. he just wanted some from you and thats it.. sorry that has happened to you.. much luv dez x0x0
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and that was my answer from another question like yours, and well, my story is there, and it was the same thing basically that happened, only just not as "far"
well, what happened was you got cought up in the moment. happens to the best of us. you need to, for the next time, set a boundary for youself. as in, i wont go past making out, or feeling up, i dont know. and i dont know what your "3rd base" defination is, but make sure that if that happens again, the guys hands are clean. there are ways to get pregnate like that, i went to a seminar on it. okay, welll, i know why you still like him, and its because you two did stuff, and he made you think that it was the "cool" thing to do. and he doesnt talk to you now, or do anything with you now, because people know, and he doesnt want his rep. to be bad, even though you are the one that got really hurt from it. I was the victim of something like that. I was somewhat forced to do things witha guy. he persuaded me into thinking it was cool, and everyone was doing it, so it was pressure too, because he was older. and then when i would tell people he would get mad at me, and of course i wanted to tell because, i was a lot younger then, and he was a whole grade older. and anyways, he wouldnt talk to me in public, well, he would only talk to me before anything tookplace, and during, ect. so, i dont want that to happen to anyone else, and it sounds like it did. and i know how you feel, about the love thing, because thats how i felt, and i would put my head on his shoulder and hug him, and he would tell me not to because it made him feel uncomfortable. yeah, i am dead serious. so, just make sure that no matter what, you set boundaries for yourself. I have a great boyfriend now, who knows all about what happened, and i have been with my boyfriend for almost 15 months, and we have bounadries set, and we wont cross them, and thats good to have in a relationship, and also, we talk like all of the time, its good to have communication in a relationship!!
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Kelsa :)
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Yes, you did, that is your own fault. Making out with complete strangers that you aren't close to or with is not smart. Thats how people get used, you throw yourself at them without falling in love or bonding. Now you did everything with someone who didn't even love you, theres something you can look back at.
-TheTeenGirl
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Yep, sounds like it. He got what he wanted, Simple as that. Next time make the guy wait. The nice ones, dating you because they really like you, will stick around even if they don't hit a homer. Wait until you find one of those guys. :)
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Well, yes. He did use you. He most likely thought that you knew that it was a two day stand. He definitely used you. He just wanted some sexual crap to happen and he is an asshole. You should most likely forget about him. I'm really sorry that happened to you, but you should have been going out. I'm sorry.
~Hope that helps~
~K~
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You were used.
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I think u just got used, well at least you made out with someone. Just try going face to face and ask him wats the deal.
-Deebs
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Sadly yes, next time make sure you get something more out of the relationship wheteher fwb or bf and gf.
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